I am searching for a long term relationship with someone LOCAL......... *** no one outside of Connecticut and no one under 40 years old ***

I'll let you know if you are the one and won't waste your time if you are not. Physical chemistry is important as well as intelligence (college degree not required). I do not want to write back and forth for weeks before meeting only to find out we are not a match in person which is the only place it really counts. Our first date (meeting) will only be for coffee/tea or a drink where we can spend an hour together learning more about each other and seeing if we both want to pursue it further (a second date).