what are girls looking for. how o you know is a girl is really interested. what kind of places are goodto find a girl to date not sleep with just date?????????????

Every girl is looking for something different, and like I said on a different forum, half the time we don't even know what that is. The only advice that I can give you is be yourself or the person that you want to be. Go places that you enjoy or branch out to places you might enjoy. Don't worry about what people think of you and when you meet a girl that you feel comfortable with, ask her out on a date. The most important thing is to just be you. Everyone can give you all kinds of advice and you can follow it to the T, then when you have been with a girl for months you are going to wake up one day and realize that you were never happy, because you've been faking it the whole time to make them happy.

you are right

Also, don't worry about what other people think about the person -guys have a tendency to not ask a girl out if they think others will disapprove. If you like someone, ask them out -if your friends give you a hard time, ask that they respect you and the other -if they don't, drop them -not the girl. Check your own mind, too -many have ideas about beauty and attractiveness in their heads that aren't their own due to advertising/TV/movies, peer pressure, etc.