What was the hardest thing you ever went through in a relationship? Did you ever get over it? Or does it still bother you today?

Having to admit that I had failed and had no way possible to make amends and justify another try. The painful thoughts are with me to this day - but they help to keep my mind focused on today's living and today's people. So, I am a better person than before, because of this.

I'd have to say, for me, the hardest thing I ever went through in a relationship, was being bossed around constantly, and being yelled at alot. I learned a valuable lesson, because I did love her, and I learned how to deal with those kinds of things. So, no, I no longer go through that. That was actually my first true relationship. We live, and we learn.

Catching here cheating on me and having her lie to me about it. no i cant say i have ever really gotten over it.

Wow, that's terrible. I'm sorry to hear :(

yea i guess life has its ways of kicking one in the balls lol. she can be his problem now and do it to him too. karmas a b**ch. lol

Agree with you. What goes around, comes around.

aint that the truth lol.

the death of my ex fiance and my too unborn twins and no i let her go but never got over it

I gave my virginity to my boyfriend, then he slept with some other girl that same night. "How do you know this," you say? Why, he told me so himself! Needless to say, we're no longer together. I eventually got over it, but since then my life's made a complete 180 in the negative direction.

I'm sorry Alli. It's a hard road to endure giving your virginity to the one guy who professed to doing no wrong against you only to turn around and sleep with some other chick as if it meant nothing to him. He's a complete and total asshole. I wish you all the best in trying to rectify it and finding a guy who is worthy to be your true love.

Thank you so much. : )

You're welcome, sweety. :-) Never fear, the right guy will come into your life and will treat you like the young woman that you deserve to be treated.