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sethj
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Why is it I am being accused of too rough? I like to go crazy im bed and that's just who I am. Ie:trying choking, spanking,...well I could go on. But it seems its the only kind of sec that turns me on. Point being I am have made some girls freak out. Why is it so hard to find someone with the same style as me?
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lianapet
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Because you are applying non-vanilla sexual behavior to vanilla partners. Choking is a dangerous sign of strange behavior if there was no conversation of sexual styles. Go back and read some of the posts that reference bdsm. You need to start hitting up that bdsm subculture to find what you are looking for, or you need to have a conversation with your partners before you "go crazy on them in bed" and scare the crap out of them. PS. The bdsm subculture insists on A LOT of communication and full disclosure. You're in very dangerous waters and can end up really hurting someone which is not good for them depending on the situation it could end up not being very good for you, as charges can actually be filed. The bdsm subculture will not back up a practicing dom if he has not committed to full disclosure as Safe, Sane and Concentual can not be accomplished without fully informed and condoning partners.
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sethj
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Reply to: Because you are applying non-vanilla sexual behavior to vanilla partners. Choki...
That's just the thing I do talk to them before hand, some even insist on trying it? Its compelling. Although I must admit I do not like the whole bdsm style. I just like being rough not to the point of hurting people with whips etc.
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lianapet
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Reply to: That's just the thing I do talk to them before hand, some even insist on trying...
Then you need to move slowly...maybe simply talking to someone who is willing to try something rough is not enough if they have never done anything like it. Also, you need to pay EXTRA attention to your women than the average man. You need to learn to read body language, and reactions with each touch...define three levels for yourself and slow down your practices...maybe introduce a heavier hand gradually over a period of several encounters.
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sethj
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Reply to: Then you need to move slowly...maybe simply talking to someone who is willing t...
That just sounded Sexy. I will try this advice thanks. Sometimes you just get lost in the moment ya know?
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sethj
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By the way I love your profile information. Very concise and very aggressively to the point. Love it. Like a tigress haha
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lianapet
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Reply to: That just sounded Sexy. I will try this advice thanks. Sometimes you just get l...
Just remember a man being physically aggressive with a woman can be misinterpreted. Getting lost in the moment is awesome, but you have to really really know your partner when you're getting lost in an aggressive moment.
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AuntJaMyMa
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Have we explained the use of safewords... Like Mrs. Butterworth. or HARPO - OPRAH backwards?
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Reply to: Have we explained the use of safewords... Like Mrs. Butterworth. or HARPO - OPR...
No,you're right...didn't really get into it since he said he wasn't into bdsm. He just seems to be an overly passionate lover with a couple of aggressive practices (eg spanking and choking). I actually think if he was only into spanking he wouldn't have this problem..it's the choking that is freaking out his partners. Truly, all he has to do is research it a bit on the internet...and he can have all the info he is looking for. A quick google search for SSC will give him step by step instructions. Unless, you can give him the ABC's on the practice in a condensed version...I am sure everyone is well aware I don't know how to get my point across in less than 5000 words! LOL.
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Reply to: No,you're right...didn't really get into it since he said he wasn't into bdsm. ...
I am sure everyone is well aware I don't know how to get my point across in less than 5000 words! LOL. Yup, you are right, but please do not sell yourself short on quality. All 5,000 words are good stuff!
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AuntJaMyMa
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Reply to: No,you're right...didn't really get into it since he said he wasn't into bdsm. ...
Lookie Here... A self proclaimed male model with childrens should have way more on his plate then drafting creative post about aggressive sex and choking his chickens. Sure Barbie looking for Ken maybe down like 4 flat tires, to a get with a bagel like this Romeo - but she of course would say anything to get a date to her H.S. Prom. If you get someone to watch your kids, find a agreeable sex partner into BONDAGE and play rough house Tap Out. But use a safeword. AND not around the kids. Mr. Dating a Guy With Children. Models normally have face shots in their portfolio. Any news?
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sethj
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Obviously it was a joke. Sure your not blonde? Genius. My kids are never home when I engage in sexual activities. Not that its really any of your business to begin with. Y'all have a good day peace.
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Wait. German Sheppard mix? Or pug i can't tell. Lol. Cya
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Reply to: Wait. German Sheppard mix? Or pug i can't tell. Lol. Cya
Pit Bull Man Mindfucker Mix - for hanging upside down, you a god damn genius Gump!
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sethj
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Hell yeah. 4.0 in c.j. and running two side businesses along with working 50 hrs a week full time while keeping my good looks and charisma. Yes. Thanks sweetcheeks
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Bubba all ways said we'd be in the shrimpin' bizness. Shrimp Boat, Shrimp Brain, Shrimp Cock, No Tail... BUT HERE COMES ANOTHER DOG REFERENCE... From Brad's Pitts.
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sethj
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Reply to: Bubba all ways said we'd be in the shrimpin' bizness. Shrimp Boat, Shrimp Brai...
Oh she can bark. Good dog.
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sethj
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Reply to: Bubba all ways said we'd be in the shrimpin' bizness. Shrimp Boat, Shrimp Brai...
Oh she can bark. Good dog.
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