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jimd1968

Joined: 5/8/2011

one of my other posts was picked apart stating it looked like a married mans post. Truthfully it was. I have been married to the same woman for 22 years and i am still in love with her. However i need more physical attention than she gives. I have expressed my desires to her on several occasions. We have had a lot of problems over the years, infidelity on both sides. She's a wonderful mother and grandmother and we have a good relationship not counting the lack of sex. I dont need the approval of anyone online. I have been looking for a casual relationship. Again i dont need approval. This is my last post on webdate. Just explaining myself, not that i have too.

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

i was pretty sure you were married. i am sorry you are not content in your marriage but do you really think infidelity helps? i hope you find peace in your life.

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MomLovesToys

Joined: 10/3/2011

Reply to: i was pretty sure you were married. i am sorry you are not content in your mar...
Sex always helps.

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

not if it hurts someone else.

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MomLovesToys

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Reply to: not if it hurts someone else.
Sex is more important.

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jimd1968

Joined: 5/8/2011

Reply to: i was pretty sure you were married. i am sorry you are not content in your mar...
the sad part is that i love her. I made mistakes, even spent 3 years in prison. She had an affair while i was locked up. Which i have forgiven. I am chronically depressed and struggling with that. Need the love and support.

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jimd1968

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Reply to: i was pretty sure you were married. i am sorry you are not content in your mar...
the sad part is that i love her. I made mistakes, even spent 3 years in prison. She had an affair while i was locked up. Which i have forgiven. I am chronically depressed and struggling with that. Need the love and support. I'm not some evil monster. Just need to be held.

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jimd1968

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Reply to: Sex is more important.
Healthy sex can releave stress and decrease depression.

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nighthowl50

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Reply to: Sex is more important.
i can't believe a woman your age is answering like this.

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Iceumup1

Joined: 11/30/2008

Reply to: i can't believe a woman your age is answering like this.
"MOM" with morals like that it's no wonder you're single..................
Dude, all relationships "slow down" the trick is find what buttons to push to get back on track.. If you love her.

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Reply to: "MOM" with morals like that it's no wonder you're single.................. Dud...
Beautiful answer.

Nice job Ice.

;)

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MichaelMcQ

Joined: 9/26/2011

It one spouse gave the sex then the other would not have to cheat. I'm sure he would rather have sex with his wife. not a stranger. But i love stranger sex better lol.

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MichaelMcQ

Joined: 9/26/2011

Reply to: "MOM" with morals like that it's no wonder you're single.................. Dud...
Actually not every relationship has buttons to push. some relationships are not repairable in the sex field or other fields. so don't be so hard on a married person trying to get some on the side lol

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MomLovesToys

Joined: 10/3/2011

Reply to: "MOM" with morals like that it's no wonder you're single.................. Dud...
I'm single because I want to be.

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Iceumup1

Joined: 11/30/2008

Reply to: I'm single because I want to be.
LOL. What ever get's you through the day.... If you're so happy, why are you looking for any, every and all sexual diversions??? I'm going with... to fill the empty void that use to be your heart.... You know what I miss about being in a relationship with someone that touches my soul? Sex is great, sex is fun, but if you really want to experience sexual ecstasy, do it with someone that you don't know where they stop and you start. To look into your partner's eyes and see the possibilities...now that's sex.

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MomLovesToys

Joined: 10/3/2011

Reply to: LOL. What ever get's you through the day.... If you're so happy, why are you lo...
You know it's funny, I have not trouble believing that your response is genuine and sincere, but you don't give me the same benefit of a doubt. Because that's what works for you, you assume that it has to be that way for everyone and you give snarky, condscending answers to anyone who doesn't want what you want. I pursue the life I do because I enjoy it. I'm happy, and there's not hole where my heart should be. If you can't believe that, it says more about your lack of empathy and consideration than it does about me.

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Iceumup1

Joined: 11/30/2008

Reply to: You know it's funny, I have not trouble believing that your response is genuine...
Read more of my post's and think about what you said... I impathise with many people about many things. I wright what I feel and believe. I just think some of you're answers were not thought through, to bltenly tell someone to cheat on there spouse in of low morals. do what you think is right, and I will do the same. Bless your heart.

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MomLovesToys

Joined: 10/3/2011

Reply to: Read more of my post's and think about what you said... I impathise with many p...
You're right about the cheating. I'm not married so perhaps I didn't think that through.

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Iceumup1

Joined: 11/30/2008

Reply to: You're right about the cheating. I'm not married so perhaps I didn't think tha...
There you go, I am never afraid to admit I am wrong. Be who you are, just think about how you can affect others, by accident...... Welcome to webdate.

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kleahcim

Joined: 7/5/2011

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Ura HOTTIE WOWOMG WOW OMG

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kleahcim

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Ura HOTTIE WOWOMG WOW OMG

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

to think this guy is using up someone else's oxygen.

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Iceumup1

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Reply to: to think this guy is using up someone else's oxygen.
and skin

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

Reply to: to think this guy is using up someone else's oxygen.
Ha!

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Merrikii

Joined: 11/1/2010

Reply to: to think this guy is using up someone else's oxygen.
He kept hittin' on me. I thought it was funny. LOL

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