anyone?

listen, respond, take time.

Its not whats the best or was that the best, its passion and enjoyment, take the time to allow each other to find what you need and what makes you want more

ummm experienced and mature woman talking lol you are damn right marry me :)

Find out what your partner likes and do it. Make sure they're willing to do the same for you.

make eye contact....

we just had the thread on BJ's

just listen to her body. It'll tell you what to do and take your time. It's like an art form. Perfect it.

just listen to her body. It'll tell you what to do and take your time. It's like an art form. Perfect it. 

I agree completely. The best tool in your sexual arsenal is your ears. Along with that... be a responsive partner. If you say "ouch!" your partner will probably stop. If you say "ooooh!" they may just keep that up a bit.

pay attention to how her body responds, oral is a great adventure, I love eating and fingering pussy. Usually depending on how wet she is (how turned on at the time), you go slow at first with the licking and fickering of your tongue. then penetrate her with usually 1 finger at first then 2. feel for her g spot and work it according to her responses.. If done right she will be scooting around like she's can't take it anymore but don't stop till you have what you cum 4..:)

some know how and some don't.....i don'thave a clue

There is no real one way of doing it. What one person loves another may not! Go with the moans and body language. If they are moaning then you know they are liking it, if not try something else...better yet ask your partner if they like what you are doing...some guys get very turned on by having their girl ask them if they like that while staring into their eyes!
I know my guy loves different bjs all the time, I like to change it up. I have been know to just start licking his balls in his sleep...instant wake up! : )