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staceywillis

Joined: 6/20/2005

been there done that....its ok?

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JoyceIsIn

Joined: 9/10/2003

Not sure what you mean by big deal.. to some guys who want it.. YES..
to women who don't.. YES.. but this is one of the things that you should TRY to see if you do or don't... just take it slow and easy til you are comfortable..
J

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*Sliver!*

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justgeena

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That would be an outie not an innie

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jem1987

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Outhole!

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thunderstorms59

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Anal sex is one of those things you must be educated on to know how to do it right.

The anus as the second most pleasure nerve ending next to the clitoris or the head of the penis. If ti is stimulated properly it can be amazing. As J said go slow and take your time.

There are two set of muscles voluntary and involuntary, they take time to relax. You might have to start real slow to help him or her relax and just try a little bit at a time over sever days etc.. to devople the trust and prepare the muscles.

If it is hurting you are DO IT WRONG.

I am a guy and I like doing it to my partner once and a while... she enjoys it too and asks for it (begs.... LOL). But I like it when she does it to me too. She can give me a prostate orgasm.. which is amazing. The male prostate is the same as the female g-spot. Guys if you haven't tried this you are missing out!!

R

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*Sliver!*

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Sadly most men consider liking or getting a prostate orgasm gay.

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thunderstorms59

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Reply to: Sadly most men consider liking or getting a prostate orgasm gay.
there loss, men who feel that way are insecure in their sexuality.

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latinser

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isnt dat for exit only ? hahah

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

anal sex can be very satisfying for men and women but as said before it has to be done properly. i really cum hard when my partner is knowledgeable in the technique but then i have had a couple who weren't and that ended up badly.

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A little less t...

Joined: 8/25/2008

YES you must be educated to know how to do it right, AND ALSO KNOW THIS IS WHERE THE WOMEN BASICALLY TAKES CONTROL FIRST until she is completely relaxed ....I agree 100% with nightown and also thunder.......it is a very erotic and a very pleasing orgasm......and YES MALE"S the prostate is where you're g spot is. There is nothing disgusting about it,unless you think it is, or believes that it's just an outie .. but one must use a condom no matter how clean one may be.... there should not be a part on you're partners body that should not be touched, licked, sucked , caressed or made love to... it's all in what one believes....That is one of the reason why there are gay males in this world.....So don't knock it until you have tried it~! IT'S NOT FOR EVERYONE ! But if you really want give you're male partner the ultimate orgasm insert you're finger or a toy if he permit's very slowly and stimulate it until he reaches his orgasm and you will feel like the best queen in the word on pleasing him.

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thunderstorms59

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well said Hope!!! I totally agree.... lots a folks have hang up about sex... I am trysexual... I will try anything once cus you just never know.

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nighthowl50

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if you insert finger or toy while giving head...he will go insane

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morningperson

Joined: 6/29/2004

I would love to try this topic with a woman partner.

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sprintracer

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Reply to: if you insert finger or toy while giving head...he will go insane
LOL maybe insane with pain.

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nighthowl50

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Reply to: LOL maybe insane with pain.
you know better than that...it has to be done with patience just as it is for a woman

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john5564

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Reply to: you know better than that...it has to be done with patience just as it is for a...
I have never tried that, but I bet I would enjoy anything with you!!!

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just living ma ...

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hell no. its a big deal to me, cause i will punch any man that ask me to do that.

lol

xxxx.

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*Sliver!*

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Reply to: hell no. its a big deal to me, cause i will punch any man that ask me to do tha...
So is that like foreplay then?

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nighthowl50

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Reply to: I have never tried that, but I bet I would enjoy anything with you!!!
awwwww that is sweet (and sexy)

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TheZodiac

Joined: 11/30/2008

Strange. The last few women I've been with asked for it. Of course, who was I to say "no". In fact, my biggest orgasms were from giving it to a woman anally. As for me, I truly don't like anything messing with my butthole. It hurts and has no pleasure in it for me. A guy doesn't have to be gay to enjoy it..but something in him at some point felt that inserting something through his butt would be a great feeling. ..and he tried it until he liked it.

Kinda like smoking or doing meth. I'm sure they tried it once, hated it... but kept going till it was pleasurable. Nah. Not for me. But I will administer it on a willing woman! :)

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nighthowl50

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Reply to: Strange. The last few women I've been with asked for it. Of course, who was I...
hon...there again..you need someone that is experienced and i am really certain you would enjoy it.

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staceywillis

Joined: 6/20/2005

i realy enjoy it if its done right...i like to give and receive.....

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joeyesjoeitsjoe

Joined: 11/28/2007

Reply to: hell no. its a big deal to me, cause i will punch any man that ask me to do tha...
LMAO...^5.....lmao.....you go ..you rawk !

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thunderstorms59

Joined: 11/26/2008

nighthowl50 loved your comments. I can beleive know so little about the second best pleasure centre. I when I go to the everything to do with sex show,
it is the number 1 topic and the most mis-understood sexual pleasure.

Anyone that thinks it hurts, just hasn`t been with someone that has been educated on how to do it. Done right is amazing, done wrong it can hurt like hell for days.

I have done this wiuth several partner all who saiad never to anal sex. All changed their minds and now love anal sex..

So for those of you that have hang ups about it... You are just missing out on an amazing pleasure.

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