How many women enjoy anal sex? Does your man give as well as take?

LOL Trust me, most women will try it if your gentle and persistent....
its all how good you make her feel the first time... :)

I have tried it, but... it's not really up my ally.

LOL   Trust me,  most women will try it if your gentle and persistent....
its all how good you make her feel the first time... :)

or how big your dandy doo is

naturally your anus has to be trained to accept dildo or cock. Start with small but plugs & plenty of lube before you use the real thing or a average size dildo. But once you get used to it ,itis stimulating. The tabu of sex-lol

Did someone say alley?? LOL.

yea I thought that was pretty funny to

I'm trying to get my woman to join WAFA the old-fashioned way -- by fucking with the CEO of WAFA!!! =)

LOL.

lol

I dnt tink most women luv dat

some do,once they have had it a few tomes,and they have been properly lubed & opened

Like you said, slow and gentle is the key at first. I have been with several ladies who had never tried it or had a bad experience before and I was able to get them to "open" up with much pleasing and prodding :-) And yes. I have had a few slip a finger in and hit my prostate - ready for blast off!!!!

Excuse me, please, for being so naive, but what is the effect of having a finger shoved up against your prostate via the colon?

Well, for me the effect is usually one of the most intense orgasms I've ever had, plus I shoot my load half way across the bed :-P Just saying.

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THE MALE G-SPOT.

You’ve probably spent a considerable amount of time studying the female G-spot: How to find it, how to stimulate it and how to turn a woman into putty with a G-spot orgasm. What most men are far less familiar with is their own male G-spot. That’s right; some of you may be surprised to learn that the prostate is, essentially, the male equivalent of a woman’s G-spot -- and yours is far, far easier to find. We realize that, for some, the idea of exploring this area may be taboo, but if you keep an open mind while reading this article, our advice could lead you to one of the best orgasms you could ever hope for.

Discovering your G-spot
The male G-spot isn’t all that difficult to find, but it does require a little patience. Lying on your back is generally considered to be the most comfortable position for this, so you’ll probably want to make use of the bed or perhaps a large sofa. The process will be easiest with your legs elevated, which you can do by simply leaning your legs against the wall behind the bed or draping them over the back of the sofa. If you’re still having difficulty reaching the perineum from this position, you can lift your backside further by sliding a pillow or two under your bum.

Once you’ve made yourself as comfortable as possible, start by gently massaging the area surrounding your anus. Most men enjoy having their taint (also known as the perineum) stimulated, and that can certainly be incorporated into this process. Use the soft pad of your index finger while exploring, and be gentle. As you relax further, lube your finger up and let it gently brush across the surface of your anus. Repeat this move several times, each time increasing the pressure slightly. When you’re comfortable enough to begin probing, you should keep things slow and gentle, taking care to relax your sphincter during the process. Once you’ve come in contact with the male G-spot, you’ll recognize it as a small, chestnut-sized bump situated approximately two inches inward.

Stimulating your G-spot
The first step in stimulating the male G-spot is making oneself comfortable. Bathing beforehand can put a man more at ease with the process, so we recommend starting out with a nice hot shower. If you’d like to take that one step further, enemas are not at all uncommon and you may choose to add this to your regimen. Once you’re ready for stimulation, there are a number of methods you can utilize, though we recommend keeping it simple if you’re a novice; a finger will be sufficient for beginners. Regardless, you’ll want a good supply of lubrication on hand, and you’ll want the type specifically created for anal play.

It will take some experimentation to discover what works best for you in terms of stimulation. Return to one of the positions we mentioned earlier (lying on your back with your legs and backside elevated) and repeat the steps you used to located the prostate. As you prepare to stimulate your G-spot, keep in mind that techniques vary greatly. Some men enjoy gentle thrusting movements, and some prefer intense, constant pressure on the prostate itself. You might prefer a mix of the two or something entirely different. The key is to give your body the chance to react and respond; take your time, the orgasm is worth it. It’s also important to note that you may not find any of these methods pleasurable during the first exploration, and that’s perfectly normal; you can always try again in the future.

Don't be ashamed of stimulating the male G-spot; the results can be explosive...

Techniques and toys
Finger
We’ve already mentioned this one, but you shouldn’t limit this method to solo exploration. Believe it or not, many women enjoy performing this type of stimulation in the bedroom, particularly when the resulting orgasms can be so powerful. If you’d like to try something highly erotic, have her give you a blow job while stimulating your prostate.

G-spot goodie: Brace your hands against the back of a sofa and bend over at a 90-degree angle. Spread your legs apart and have your woman get on her knees in front of you. This will allow her to perform oral sex while still being able to stimulate your prostate.

Rim job
There was a time when most women had no idea what a rim job was -- those days are long past, and most are quite savvy with the technique these days. If you’d like to add a little extra ecstasy to your next sex session, bring up the subject of reciprocal rim jobs. It’s quite simple, really: When you’re both fresh out of the bath, use your tongue to gently probe each other’s anuses. The sensation is truly incredible and you’re both sure to enjoy it.

G-spot goodie: Magnify your orgasms by manually stimulating each other during the rim job; toying with her clitoris should lead to a powerful climax for her, and a well-timed hand job will guarantee your own.

Butt plug
If you’d like to combine sex and prostate stimulation, butt plugs are one of the simplest options available on the market. They can be used during blow jobs or actual intercourse. Butt plugs come in a variety of shapes and sizes, so you needn’t worry about the experience being painful or uncomfortable; simply choose the size that meets your requirements.

G-spot goodie: If you’d like to experience something truly incredible, work your PC muscles while penetrating your woman. This will stimulate the male G-spot further than you could possibly imagine.

It's not just for women
While we don’t expect everyone to be immediately comfortable with this type of exploration, we do want to make it clear that it’s perfectly acceptable and in no way strange or perverse. The male G-spot is a powerful gland that can lead to earth-shattering orgasms, and we believe everyone’s entitled to that kind of pleasure. If you’re not ready for this type of play, that’s perfectly understandable and we certainly don’t want you to do anything that doesn’t feel right for you. If, however, you’re open-minded about male G-spot stimulation, we encourage you to try our tips and start working your way toward the ultimate orgasm.

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What Women Love & Hate About Anal

What You Need To Know
Lubrication, anticipation and protection are all essential precursors to anal sex.
Though it can feel great and a little naughty, anal can hurt and may be messy.
The most important tip for pleasurable anal is that both partners are comfortable.

"Almost every woman harbors a fantasy of being a "naughty girl.""

Make Backdoor Love More Pleasurable For Her

Anal sex isn’t just for the sexually daring anymore. It’s becoming more and more common in bedrooms around the world, but don’t let that fool you. Backdoor play is a different beast altogether. If you're trying to convince your girlfriend to have anal sex -- and yes, we're going out on a limb here and assuming it's your idea -- there are a few key pieces of advice you need to hear.

First off, she will either love it or hate it. There is very little in between. Most women have tried it at some point, resulting in one of two feelings: pain or pleasure. And if it was pain, it’s likely she’s going to be hesitant about trying it again. You’ll have to be extra prepared if you’re going at it for a second time, hoping for more pleasurable results for her.

But if she's open to it, with a little practice and a lot of patience, you’ll be able to enjoy a satisfying anal-sex life. Use a variety of different positions to make it more fun and comfortable for both of you. Once you know what women love and hate about anal sex, you are ready to rock her world.

THE PROS
It can feel good
Women enjoy anal sex because it feels amazing. It's a totally different sensation than regular sex. It's not her vagina, yet it's inside her. In other words, it’s a completely alien feeling that she isn’t used to, which makes it intriguing. Meanwhile, the rectum will just suck up your penis like a vacuum. Play with her clitoris too and you’ll really send her into the stratosphere. In fact, it’s even possible for women to have orgasms from anal sex.

Because anal sex is naughty
Almost every woman harbors a fantasy of being a “naughty girl.” There’s a reason people love school girl uniforms and handcuffs: It’s forbidden and, therefore, all the more delicious and tempting. Anal sex is something you can do in secret and nobody will ever know you were naughty except you and your girl -- which is part of the fun. Plus, there’s the bonding experience of doing something together for the first time, even if it’s just a first for one of you.

THE CONS
It’s painful
Anal sex can hurt like a mofo. The rectum is not built to have things go in; only out. The vagina stretches to let in a penis and give birth, but a rectum does not. Thus you can cause searing pain if you don't prepare her properly. That means a) asking her first (duh) b) using lube and c) going very slowly and not pounding into her like a jackrabbit.

It's a mess
Women put so much emphasis on making themselves look pretty and sweet-smelling for their men, so the merest glimmer of a possibility that you might see her explode all over herself is obviously devastating to her. No longer will you see her as a beautiful, desirable woman; you'll forever be picturing her covered in feces. It's not exactly the look she's going for.

For this reason she might decide to avoid anal sex altogether. But if she takes an anal douche ahead of time (or even just a thorough wash-up in the shower) and makes sure her bowels have been emptied an hour before, she’s almost certain to avoid any messy accidents.

"In other words, you need to make her ache for it, not just kind of want it."


THINGS TO REMEMBER
Lube is your friend
Unlike the vagina, the rectum does not produce its own lubricant. Penetration without ample lube equals dry friction. Not so pleasurable. Use a silicone-based product and not petroleum jelly, which will just clog up the walls of your rectum.

Don’t forget about foreplay
It’s muy importante to turn her on before you even think about going near her back door. When she’s feeling hot and bothered, her body will be much more receptive to anal. In other words, you need to make her ache for it, not just kind of want it. This way when you start touching her closer to her anus, she’ll be more likely to respond with a heated moan than a yelp of pain. Tease her without even putting anything in her. Kiss and rub her body all over. Make her feel relaxed and adored. The art of tease and anticipation is one of the best tools you have in your sexual toolbox.

Keep it clean
Both of you are equally susceptible to disease with anal sex as you are with vaginal sex. The wall of the rectum is very thin and permeable, so safe sex is imperative. Not only will condoms protect you against any stray fecal matter, but it will prevent her from having an ass full of semen. Semen can mix with the contents of her rectum and can make her sick. Use a condom and avoid the hassle.

Practice makes perfect, and anal sex is no different. Do it the right way, and she’ll be more open to doing it again. Screw it up, and you can kiss anal sex goodbye. At least until she forgets how bad it was last time, or you can convince her you’ve learned all these new skills.

I don't know how I feel about you knowing so much about the male anus lmao!!

I actually just learned all this tonight....decided to find a way to explain why prostate stimulation is pleasurable...I knew it was...but I had no clue why...so I researched it and shared it.

I have to say, anal is not my cup of tea...I am into hard core shit, but somehow anal is just not something I have ever enjoyed. I have however done for them (if I am really close and I really care about them) and even then...I get easily grossed out.

These articles have helped me look at things a little bit differently...still...The "messiness" in the What women love/hate about anal is a big deal and now I know the risk of mixing bodily fluids can be more dangerous than originally thought...which does not help my willingness to try this again.

Oh well...for those who want to do it, and enjoy it...I figured the articles were educational. I love AskMen.com

I see what you're saying. I guess I wouldn't mind using my hands. But there's no way in hell ill use my mouth lol

Aw. c'mon Brit! I would most definitely use my mouth on your ass :-P Liana - thanks so much for enlightening everyone to the do's and don'ts of anal! As I said before, I can personally attest to how fucking awesome it is to have my prostate stimulated - if it's done right before ejaculation it is just fucking incredible!

Yeah I never understood why men are so ignorant about their own bodies. I mean there are things I am not into doing to a man (eg. pegging) but I know that doesn't make him gay.

Men need to learn about their bodies...just the way women do. Sadly women can be with other women and not have any stigma attached and most can still be straight and having experimented. If men do it, it's automatically gay. None of this has any bearing on or will ever change the dire need for using protection.

The reality of it is none of us are 100% safe. I don't know men to use mouth guards when they go down on a woman. I don't care to suck on a condom. So even though we will use condoms for intercourse...we don't use them in all of our sexual practices. I know it's fucked up but it's the sign of the times. Part of the reason I would love a monogamous partner is so we won't have to use condoms anymore...but I don't trust anyone...so here we go again.

Pretty soon we will be having sex in full body scuba suits. I wish I lived in the 60's...but then I would probably have Aids now if I did. I wonder how many of the free love people from back then are actually sick? I think it hit the male gay population from that time hardest than anyone else..no? (more research)...

Im from that era, and we never ever heard of aids, it dident exist back then.... it hit this country in the mid 80s how ever i do agree with you on every thing else..... some good points!!

"...Beginning in San Francisco in the mid 1960s, a new culture of "free love" emerged, with thousands of young people becoming "hippies" who preached the power of love and the beauty of sex as part of ordinary student life. This is part of a counterculture that exists to the present. By the 1970s it was acceptable for colleges to allow co-educational housing where male and female students mingled freely.

Free love continued in different forms throughout the 1970s and into the early 1980s, but its more assertive manifestations ended abruptly (or disappeared from public view) in the mid 1980s when THE PUBLIC FIRST BECAME AWARE of AIDS, a deadly sexually transmitted disease...."


You really don't think that a couple of decades of "FREE LOVE" didn't help spread a immune disease that most thought was pneumonia, or other things before they realized that people weren't dying of the diseases they were diagnosed with but because their immune deficiancies were not allowing the common treatments to work anymore?

-------You do know people don't die of AIDS, don't you? They die because the presence of AIDS deems them susceptible and defenseless against other commonly treated diseases.... AIDS is the cause they can't heal from common ailments, so the soundbite because that they died of AIDS.

"...Up to 1980

We do not know how many people developed AIDS in the 1970s, or indeed in the years before.

"The dominant feature of this first period was silence, for the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) was unknown and transmission was not accompanied by signs or symptoms salient enough to be noticed. While rare, sporadic case reports of AIDS and sero-archaeological studies have documented human infections with HIV prior to 1970, available data suggest that the current pandemic started in the mid- to late 1970s. By 1980, HIV had spread to at least five continents (North America, South America, Europe, Africa and Australia). During this period of silence, spread was unchecked by awareness or any preventive action and approximately 100,000-300,000 persons may have been infected."- Jonathan Mann1
We also do not know for certain where the AIDS virus HIV originated, but it is now generally accepted that the origin of AIDS can be traced back to Africa."

"1981 History

Kaposi's Sarcoma (KS) was a rare form of relatively benign cancer that tended to occur in older people. But by March 1981 at least eight cases of a more aggressive form of KS had occurred amongst young gay men in New York.2

At about the same time there was an increase, in both California and New York, in the number of cases of a rare lung infection Pneumocystis carinii pneumonia (PCP).3 In April this increase in PCP was noticed at the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) in Atlanta. A drug technician, Sandra Ford, observed a high number of requests for the drug pentamine, used in the treatment of PCP:

"A doctor was treating a gay man in his 20s who had pneumonia. Two weeks later, he called to ask for a refill of a rare drug that I handled. This was unusual - nobody ever asked for a refill. Patients usually were cured in one 10-day treatment or they died"- Sandra Ford for Newsweek4
In June, the CDC published a report about the occurrence, without identifiable cause, of PCP in five men in Los Angeles.5 This report is sometimes referred to as the "beginning" of AIDS, but it might be more accurate to describe it as the beginning of the general awareness of AIDS in the USA.

A few days later, following these reports of PCP and other rare life-threatening opportunistic infections, the CDC formed a Task Force on Kaposi's Sarcoma and Opportunistic Infections (KSOI).6.."

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-------I hold that any cases before 1980...were simply diagnosed as other diseases...but you are correct that true "wild fire" spread did take place in the early 80's.

now i dont wish to get it to a debate with you here,,,,, but im sorry i personally know from experience with a brother who died from it.....i have spent over ten yers in research with him and doctors a like... in the many different strans, its origins, and how it entered different countries in diferent ways and so on.
the hippy thing and free love,,,,, as i was a part of it! :) was just a phase.
free love and people sleeping with other partners is nothing new. its been going on since the beginning of time....

It has been rumored to be a disease created by government scientists for the purpose of controlling certain social elements. I have no proof, of course, but in these times, government is not above doing anything to anyone for any reason.