I am neutral about the issue. However, I have seen outside that virgin people are usually rejected for that. What do you think about this? Is virginity special or a turn-off for one or more genders.

Depends on the person and their standards.



For me it's a turn off. I like my men experienced.

it's not a turn off but it worries methat if it didn't work and i slept with her i don't want to be the no good jerk that took her virginity and split

It can be disappointing because we never know if the other person enjoyed the nightstand. I have also heard from many people that women have to be virgins and not men because we should always be ahead in sex. Is that true or is it just a theory made by machistas?

Assuming an emotional bond has any chance to develop, the bond between a virgin and the person with whom they first experience sex is stronger than with other sex partners. Therefore, a relationship between two who were each other's first time has the potential to be the deepest and strongest emotional relationship possible.

Sadly, few consider emotions these days and will never know what could have been.

Some will probably think this is false, so I'll look up the background info.