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l3rittany0414

Joined: 12/17/2007

What do you guys think about a guy that has a huge fetish with talking about and wearing ladies underwear?

At first I thought it was funny, and it didn't scare me away. I figured if I saw him in them, we could laugh and move on. Now I'm annoyed every time I'm asked what underwear I'm wearing that day. And asking if I want to know what he's wearing. It's become a huge turn off.

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AuntJaMyMa

Joined: 1/13/2012

Huge turn off. Start telling him Everytime he ask, men's boxers. Or none. If that does not correct the deficiency change your number.

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lianapet

Joined: 12/5/2004

Eh..a lot of strange fetishes out there...

I would just let him know that although you support his sexual expression, since you're not as into men wearing women's panties, you are not turned on by the constant obsession with it.

You will be more than happy to entertain his fetish every once in a while (which you will have to be, if you care for the guy), but you would prefer every day conversation and practice he keep to himself....

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l3rittany0414

Joined: 12/17/2007

We slept together for the first last weekend. And we got naked immediately. So I don't remember seeing them. And right now, were "talking" And well get to the part of the conversation where sex comes up and we start talking dirty. And then he brings up the fucking underwear, and I'm grossed out.

It's my fault because he brought it to my attention a long time ago. And I told him I didnt mind and it wasn't a big deal. But I didnt think he would constantly bring it up like Im supposed to LIKE it.

AND Ive told him lets not talk about it all the time. He agrees and it's like he forgets 2 days later and asks what underwear Im wearing. lol

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AuntJaMyMa

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Reply to: We slept together for the first last weekend. And we got naked immediately. So ...
Reply, MEN'S BOXERS... they turn me on and make me so wet I'm rubbing my v-jay in them right now. How about if you borrow these before I do wash? This way now you take charge of his game.

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l3rittany0414

Joined: 12/17/2007

He wants a relationship...and I thought that's what I wanted too.


But of course, I'm not ready as usual. I get close to a guy, find everything I can wrong with him, then push him away.

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l3rittany0414

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Reply to: Reply, MEN'S BOXERS... they turn me on and make me so wet I'm rubbing my v-jay ...
I don't want to do all that thooooooooooooogh. Why he can't just wear the thongs and leave me out of it? lol

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Merrikii

Joined: 11/1/2010

Reply to: I don't want to do all that thooooooooooooogh. Why he can't just wear the thong...
Brit. You, oh yes you, have made my already wonderful day, even better.

I will be laughing over this thread for-EVER!

I work with at least five gay guys. Your thread sounds right up their ally.

(I will never understand some of the fetishes I've heard about, mostly thanks to Ms. Pet.)

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lianapet

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Reply to: Brit. You, oh yes you, have made my already wonderful day, even better. I wil...
Sorry....

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l3rittany0414

Joined: 12/17/2007

Reply to: Brit. You, oh yes you, have made my already wonderful day, even better. I wil...
Well....he could be bi. But I know he's not gay. lol

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JoeScholar

Joined: 1/28/2012

I`ve heard of this but really, I can`t think of ever wanting to do it myself. Where will I put the twig and berries? Imagining some sort of torture device as everything I have getting bunched and twisted in ways unnatural and painful. Not something I want my privates going through on a daily basis

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Merrikii

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Don't be sorry. Twas no jab at you sweets.

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lianapet

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Reply to: Don't be sorry. Twas no jab at you sweets.
Didn't take it that way...

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Shott

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Britt... go with what you are comfortable with.... You have control.... You take control... So if he is a gitly boy,,, he might just be a good catch... Britt, you have a wonderful head on your shoulders... Do not take any shit from anybody.... (except me - LoL) You go girl.....

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Darkphoenix13

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Reply to: Britt... go with what you are comfortable with.... You have control.... You tak...
whatever turns him on

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anhonser

Joined: 2/12/2012

Reply to: Well....he could be bi. But I know he's not gay. lol
if you arent comfortable with his fetish, and you're not willing to work it into the relationship, then move on. you're a smart gal, and you always come up with the answer. at 25 you're supposed to be enjoying this not feeling defensive. he'll always have this fetish. at least he felt close enough to share it with you and you let him know how you feel. but he doent stop. he never will. good luck

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l3rittany0414

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Reply to: if you arent comfortable with his fetish, and you're not willing to work it int...
I don't mind "working" it in.

I just don't want to constantly worry about him raiding my underwear drawer. lol

I don't mind telling him what underwear I'm wearing everyday.

I just don't want to know what kind he's wearing. lol

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Shott

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Reply to: I don't mind "working" it in. I just don't want to constantly worry about him...
LoL That's too funny Britt....

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lianapet

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Reply to: LoL That's too funny Britt....
I second that...

Funny indeed.

:P

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Elijah Murray

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Reply to: I second that... Funny indeed. :P
I third that LMFAO

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JimMiller

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Reply to: I third that LMFAO
This makes Four Of A Kind, a nearly unbeatable hand.

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NYINFLA

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We are Guys....lol

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