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just living ma ...

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Most Women Believe That Men Just Want To Get Laid, With Little Regard To How, Where or When.
But According To Them They Also Have Their Sexual Wish-list That Is Often OverLooked.
Believe it or nt Men have sensibility just as finely-tuned as ours when it comes to Sex.they might not always express them, but there is a list of definite no-nos that can turn men off faster than a cold shower.
When a woman asks: " Who was the last woman you had sex with" or interrogates a man about his previous lovers.
A woman who compares what her partner is doing to her with how other men have. (No man is would want that)
A woman who wears sexy underwear at nights because she knows they are going to have sex. why Not Every Night?
A woman who comes to bed with her face covered in thick Cream.
a woman who smells of Garlic
a woman who reeks of perfume to the point her partner is dizzy from it. natural is the Nicest.
A woman who worries aloud about the Smell, Size or taste of her nether regions.
a woman who with long toenails, or God forbid!- a belly- ring that hooks on to crucial bits and pieces of a mans anatomy during intimacy.

SURE FIRE PASSION KILLERS:(FOR MEN)
1) TOO PROUD TOO BEG
A Man said this " I feel like some dirty lecher If I always have to initiate the sexual encounter. if a woman wants sex with me, she should let me know. She doesn't have to say it in so many words, but taking her clothes off- or better still, taking mine off.

2) WHINE GUMS
It's awful when a woman whinges about whether or notyou'll respect her/betray her if she gets into bed with you. This also applies to her post-coital behavior:I hate being Made to feel as if I've just signed my soul away because I had sex with her.If a woman decides to get into bed with me, let her be adult enough to handle the implications without whining like a child.

3) SOAP AND WATER
"I detest slimy, smelly armpits that haven't been shaved since she left high school. Women should be fragrant and clean- that doesn't mean using expensive cosmetics;it just means practicing good personal hygiene.

4) MISS REPRESENT
Luring me into bed with a padded or wonder bra is a bad idea, because once you take it off, I'll just be wondering where they wandered off to1

5) THE PROLOGUE
Men find forplay just as necessary for good sex as women do. we aren't always up and ready -- sometimes we need to be coaxed.
6) DIRECTING TRAFFIC
What grates (or,rather,limps) Wen am in bed with a woman for the first time and she's explaining a long list of 'dos and don't's. I prefer to discover her -- and let her discover me --- slowly and sensually without instruction manual. she should simply put my hands were she wants them.
7) TURN OFF THE LIGHTS
If the lights happened to be on when we start getting down and getting hot, interuptting the flow to go and switch them off is instant death for me. Sex with lights on can be incredibly exciting. i mean its not as if we're commting a robbery, or doing something stealthy that requires the cover of night.

8) SELF-CONSCIOUS SHOW-STOPPERS
I hate it when I'm in the throes of passion with a woman, and she suddenly starts trying to cover up her butt, thighs and she suddenly start trying to cover up her butt, thighs or waist. for God's sake, Sister -- by the time a man 's in bed with you, he's totally uninterested in your cellulite, your weight or roll of fat around your tummy! he's already Noticed them, and still been turned on enough to break a few commandments.

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joeyesjoeitsjoe

Joined: 11/28/2007

You da shit pammy.....no wait !....nahhhhh...you da shit !
lol...luh ya

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stillherelooking

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Reply to: You da shit pammy.....no wait !....nahhhhh...you da shit ! lol...luh ya
Yeah that covers the first few........

How about, the big tease---- get ya all worked up then when you finally get into bed it's like banging a pile of clay!!

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notreally

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I dont think I wanna know why he knows what banging clay is like!

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LiveToLove

Joined: 1/12/2009

banging clay? ewwwwwww

Biggest turn off for me is a woman who thinks she is always correct in everything, even when proven wrong. My ex's favorite saying was: "yeah, I was wrong once, I thought I was wrong."

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masaa

Joined: 2/1/2009

Biggest turn off is when a woman talks nasty about other women. She'll see you look at another woman and a comment like 'she's ugly','she looks like a dog', would follow. Shows insecurity and an overt level of possessiveness. And you are right on (8). In bed, your stretchmarks don't scave me. You were big and got small, or you were small and got big,-either way, we're fcukin.

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SteveNParkville

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My biggest turn off would be a woman with an IQ that matches her age. If we cant hold an intelligent, fun and lively conversation, its hard for me to get to a point were I am attracted.

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notreally

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Im 46 almost 47 Should my IQ be higher or lower than that?

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LiveToLove

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So if you dated a 125 year old Steve, and her IQ was the same as her age, she would turn you on?

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badmartian

Joined: 8/30/2007

unclean LADIES YOU KNOW THE TYPE WHEN THEY TAKE THE PANTIES OFF AND FLING THEM. AND YOUR LOOKING LATER FOR THEM AN THEIR STUCK TO THE WALL. Also arm pit hair and leg hair. pubic hair okay. but thats me i know some guys into that whole thing

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just living ma ...

Joined: 7/23/2008

Reply to: So if you dated a 125 year old Steve, and her IQ was the same as her age, she w...
So if you dated a 125 year old Steve, and her IQ was the same as her age, she would turn you on?
lolxxxx. exactly would she?

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sundrop68

Joined: 7/24/2008

selfishness and the women who dress like they are looking for a good time then act all shy and fridgid when they are n bed. I've noticed this with a couple younger (girls) i've dated. And the hot younger women sometimes when they open their mouth you just sit their like wtf did she just say?

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The Chino

Joined: 8/26/2005

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I think Steve just set himself up to get bombarded with this one. LOL.

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pink and lace

Joined: 12/17/2008

Reply to: You da shit pammy.....no wait !....nahhhhh...you da shit ! lol...luh ya
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ptercar96

Joined: 12/12/2008

Reply to: banging clay? ewwwwwww Biggest turn off for me is a woman who thinks she is al...
woman made of clay, i do have one with air.
always right ahhhhhhhh real turn off.....

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sammilicious

Joined: 7/16/2007

Here's my take on it all, for what it's worth..
1). I'm not going to fret about what is turning on or off the guy I happen to be with..cuz..he'll like ME .. through and through.. for my smelly "garlicy"moments(which hopefully he'll share with me) to my whiny moments (and c'mon-we ALL have them), my sad, happy, hyper, angry, any emotional moment, they'll like me when I'm silly and when I'm serious. However -that doesn't mean I wouldn't want the passion to be high, I'd definitely want to arouse him, I just think.. well if we made it to the bed already, yea.. he's aroused, why think of all this other stuff?
I wouldn't want who ever I'm with to be preoccupied with thoughts of does this please her?.. is she disappointed somehow?..
I'd rather it be a natural flow, you will know what you are doing is "right or wrong" by the reactions you receive, I don't "critique" how any partner I've been with is in bed..
And I wouldn't want them to do that to me either, sure, if something really displeases you, let it be known, but I myself, like to give pretty much anything a chance once, even if at first it's not altogether pleasing.
2).. I find it perfectly natural for most women to be concerned about their nether regions, and hopefully that relationship is open enough that you feel free to discuss whatever may be on your mind concerning whatever part of your body.
3).. is it really "luring to bed" when you wear a padded bra? Some of us just aren't as well endowed as others, it makes US feel better, it's not all about appearing alluring to the opposite sex.
4)..Not everyone is confident in what they look like.. if it's more comfortable for the person to have the lights off.. what?.. it's a few second trip, a few steps.. to turn off the light, if you lose your "passion" in those few seconds.. then obviously it isn't the right moment and/or the right person.
I don't have a laundry list of do's and do not's , or what I expect in a partner.
There are 3 things.. Honesty, Humor, and the ability to think with an open mind.. sure there may have to be some initial attraction (no matter what it may be, from their eyes, hair, body -whatever) .. but that says it all, INITIAL attraction.. you have to have the rest in order to interest me enough to want to stay.
That said, I actually agree with a lot that was stated, I just don't think it should be high up on the list of what really matters.

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LiveToLove

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Reply to: Here's my take on it all, for what it's worth.. 1). I'm not going to fret abou...
Awesome Sammi and worth a fortune for those who may have doubts about the subject! ... *bows slightly then holds out hand* may I have this dance?

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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

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Sammi,that was the best post I read in awhile!!

Keep Rockin'!! (Into the NIIGHHHHT........)

*app lauds Sammi*

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The Chino

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Can I marry you?? LOTI.

In all seriousness, everything you mentioned is true, so I give it two thumbs up.

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sammilicious

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Takes Lives hand and softly whispers in his ear," I hope you brought your steel toed shoes."

And thank you guys , even tho I thought it was a wee bit long winded, I'm glad it made sense. loti

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SteveNParkville

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LMAO, so so true great post

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paper magnet

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Thank you sammi for saying what you did. My only and biggest turn off in a woman is disrespect. I have absolutely no tolerance for that, and there's no attraction no matter how hot or hygenic she is. Other than that women are beautiful creatures with amazing benefits. I'm not perfect and if a guy likes a woman enough he will overlook superficial flaws. It doesn't mean I want to hook up with every woman out there, but the checklist isn't that long in reality.

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