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bitterrootguy

Joined: 8/27/2003

Mastering the ways by which you can give a female an orgasm is very tricky. It is not a secret that men achieve climax easier than women. Men can have an orgasm quickly while some women require special treatment and even various sex techniques in order to achieve satisfaction and reach the orgasmic state.
What does it take to satisfy a person in bed? What are your sure fire actions and techniques that you use in the Foreplay area? Or what are you looking for in the Foreplay area to satisfy your own needs?

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69mindfreak69

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U know just inside her labia lips up top where her piss flows from.if i lick that i drive her ass crazy.

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tamyb

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arawak41

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Just know a few little facts: a high percentage of women cannot reach an orgasm!

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jem1987

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No, a high percentage of men can't get a woman to reach orgasm. That sounds about right.

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jem1987

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Well I feel bad for them then, shit.

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jem1987

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Epic.

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thunderstorms59

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Sex is cerebral.... good foreplay is about stimulating the mind. Take the time to understand what turns your partner on, what are her fantasies etc... Where are her sensitive spots... Guys and gals are about the same... hence the expression whats good for the goose is good for the gander.

Stop focusing on the orgasm.. enjoy the touch, the smells the tastes. Don't go for the obvious erogenous zones... stay away from them until she makes you or begs you to touch her there.

Be relaxed and enjoy.. pressure kills orgasms...

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notreally

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Reply to: Sex is cerebral.... good foreplay is about stimulating the mind. Take the time ...
I never found having to beg all that erotic.

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karma1234

Joined: 11/1/2008

Reply to: No, a high percentage of men can't get a woman to reach orgasm. That sounds ab...
You are exactly right. Almost ALL women (according to Kinsey, 98.3%)are able to orgasm while masturbating, while some never orgasm with a partner. So to say a high percentage of women cant orgasm is incorrect - if you can orgasm while masturbating, you can orgasm.

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thunderstorms59

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Reply to: You are exactly right. Almost ALL women (according to Kinsey, 98.3%)are able to...
well notreally.... youhave to be in the moment to understand beg.. teasing your partner so much that they beg... can be very erotic and fun.. it is jsut good foreplay.

I don't get the orgasm thing... I have yet to have this problem with a woman. So I am having problems with that number... I heard 80% don't during penetration. Again that is technique.. but pyschology comes into play too.

Women like men can have performance anxiety problems just like men. A lot of women have been dealt that sex and masterbation was wrong when they grew up.

With proper foreplay and a positive sexual mind.. this should not be a problem.

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bitterrootguy

Joined: 8/27/2003

Well, I actually have to say..your posts have been interesting and well pointed out. I was however looking for the ways that you want foreplay done to you....if you so desire..and the ways that you do that to your partner. I can actually say at this point, look at Tam's post. She was honest and to the point. That's what she would like. This is what this post is all about. I would like to get to know Tam...and actually explore her thoughts.

I think that foreplay starts in your brain. You have to want and need a bit of play to stimulate your other organs. You need to start with a smile, a touch, a thought, that you can plant in her head, without saying a thing. She needs to know that you want her. That's the start for me.

She will respond..if you do it right. Or so I think. Just think about undressing her, that's not only erotic..but rather exciting as well. That my friends is foreplay for me. You can do it in so many ways..Teeth..just watching her...or slowly, from under her clothes. I'ts all about you..and what you want to do..and make it last. As well to make her want more.

Now, again.. It's not all about the ladies...(even though it really is) what do the ladies like to do.....and or want..Just as well as the guys

Just askin.....if you wanna repsond.


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bitterrootguy

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So as I see it. this actually unfair, as I never said before what I like in foreplay...it's my turn, and I should have done it sooner.

I like sending my sweetie a little something in her email to start. Just to let her knowin I'm lovin her. I wanna know what she want's for dinner. She's had a day, just like me. Good or bad, I'm gonna make it better for her. I will listen. I want to live her day as well. I will make fun of her for all the stuff that she's done. and make her proud for all the stuff that she's done. She's kinnda sexy as she tells all. Her breasts come in contact with me as she finishes. And we hug.......and kiss

It starts there...the next thing is dinner.... Have you ever looked at your partners ass as she stirs the pot......holy fook.

I chop....and make vegtiables into .........whatever she wants.

I look at her and smile. She already knows what i want. I also know what she needs..

This is foreplay at it's best....belive it or not.

I can go on...if you want. Just ask.

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latinser

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and most of them enjoy the multiorgasm so its depends on couple and the way they make love please and seduce eachother

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drgent

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basically, if the furnace isn't working upstairs, then the plumbing doesn't get the flow downstairs!

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tamyb

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bitterrootguy

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Foreplay can be so fun, when done in the right way. I mean just givin your woman a booobie squeeze in public can start it all. But so can a smile, one that she knows that you want her. And little playfull things, like a butt smack as she gets into a cab, or your car, just before you close the door.....Yes that means opening the door for her to start. Is that so old fassioned? I don't think so. It's called manners, and that my friends is what foreplay is all about. You gotta get her relaxed, first. But formost, you have to make her feel so special. Why, because she is. As long as you remember that..and or should know that. you too will be rewarded with foreplay that will result in at the very least, so memormable times. Please reply with comments if you desire.

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Blakwulf

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For myself, it's all about enjoying the connections we share. Physically, I like two things the most- eye contact, and tongue contact. I love to look deeply in a woman's eyes as I kiss her, pleasure her, and vice-versa. I swear, it's like an electric current flowing thru me when both contacts are made. Then there are my intellectual, emotional, and spiritual contacts.

Those are the most important to me, sexually speaking.

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Blakwulf

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 Kissing with your eyes open just ruins everything. 
Interesting reply, considering what you said in the "womens fantasies" thread...
 I'm not comfortable with not being able to see what's going on. 

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Blakwulf

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I'm not disputing that, merely observing that your two statements seemed to contradict each other.

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