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wetnwild600

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It's interesting because I think that whole giving and receiving thing says a lot about the rest of the relationship too. If we recognize that we're giving the other person pleasure by taking what they offer, I think that shows more maturity than someone who only wants to take or only wants to give. You know what I mean? Those guys who turn into slaves are not much fun, but neither are those who want to turn you into a slave. I know that sometimes the dynamics in bed are different than elsewhere, but thinking about it, my experience has been that they are very similar.

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OMG !

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wetnwild600

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Yeah, I've gotten pointers as well but from books, lol.

I'm pretty bad at doing things when they're demanded of me, which is how I read your "expectation." I guess I always hope that sex will be a mutually satisfying thing, overall, and I do what I can to make it that way. He has to do his part too, obviously.

I enjoy giving oral. In an established loving relationship, I like playing as if he's forcing me sometimes, but it's play. I love to be told what to do and I like to tell him what to do.

I don't know why, but sometimes a fast 69 is just fine with me. Or a quickie where I don't finish, when I know there will be more later. For me, sex is the WHOLE act, from holding hands for the first time until we decide to say goodbye. I mean, I understand that isn't the norm. I understand how you see it, and I agree that your pleasure is as important as the man's. I consider oral sex as sex and I don't have it outside relationships.

But I feel differently about the other parts. Maybe because I orgasm at the drop of a hat or because I don't see having an orgasm as the end? I just find it all pleasurable, the whole process. When I'm in a relationship, even solitary masturbation can feel like it's part of the foreplay or whatever you want to call it. Does that make sense?

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wetnwild600

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Poor Ultimate. Look at us trashy women talking like whores. Will you ever recover?

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lianapet

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He might be too busy jacking off...maybe, unless your graphic visual of teeth-grazing-blood-inducing-b all-pinching is still on his mind.

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There is one thing I read that really startled me ...

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lianapet

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...and you're waiting for one of us to ask you?

Ok, I will break rank. Oh Ultimate please tell us what startled you, pleeease?

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Lol. I hope not. Even though he's not delicate anymore, that is a terrible image.

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wetnwild600

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Yes Ultimate, what was the one thing that really startled you? Aside from Jem's WAFA founding membership? Did I get the acronym right?

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*ultimate*

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I won't say ..and what does WAFA stand for ?

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lianapet

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I don't think she is a founding member I think WAFA collected members by simple admission that one practices anal sex openly without any societal stigma.

Maybe I am wrong...Jem?

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No, she said it started with her and 2 guys in a chat room.

No one remembers what WAFA stands for, Ultimate.

But how can you be such a tease? There was so much that you might find shocking and to tell us you found only one thing shocking and then refuse to say, that's not very kind. Are you like that in bed too? All show and no substance?

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Its not really that important ...
You'll never earn a man's respect talking like that ..

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wetnwild600

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I'll never earn your respect no matter what I do.

I don't have a problem with men respecting me. Not all men think that I should have remained a virgin until he came along. Not all men are repulsed by women who talk openly and freely about sex. Some men even welcome and enjoy a woman who is comfortable enough with herself and with him to do that. You can't judge all men by your preferences.

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Its 3:30 am here ..why I am up talking to you two ?
I'm going to bed ...but don't worry ..I will surely be back !!!!

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Yay! I will drink espresso and stare at my screen until you do! Lol. Sleep well.

No Lianapet, you never had men's respect so you can't lose it. You can keep talking like that, and me too, and we'll never earn it. It's a relief to not have the respect of men who aren't men whose respect I don't care to have even if it was earned which it's wasn't.

I'm tired too. Goodnight.

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Oh man, the things I miss when I go to bed! Lol. I believe Chino was the one that came up with WAFA. He was always an advocate of anal. Polo and I just happened to be there when it happened (if I am remembering correctly). To be super blunt, I haven't had anal sex... Yet. But I've started preparing for it before. Then I broke up with that guy haha. So it didn't happen. One day! Someone is gonna cave and look up the threads to find out exactly what it stands for. And it may be be later haha. Can't do it from my phone.

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That moment when you run into your ex and realize the only thing you miss is what's in his pants.

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