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thunderstorms59

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Certified Realtionship coach/sex therapist/communcation coach:

If you have a question go ahead and ask!

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thunderstorms59

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MAE45

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Help, enjoy sex but no orgasm. Beginning to feel brittle. Mental issue not physical -- have trouble keeping sensations together.

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thunderstorms59

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Help, enjoy sex but no orgasm. Beginning to feel brittle. Mental issue not physical -- have trouble keeping sensations together. 

MAE,
there are a lot of women that have the same issue. The good news is that it be corrected. Why don't you send me a message and we can use emails to guide you if you wish.

Thunder

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bashar snowbar

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Certified Realtionship coach/sex therapist/communcation coach:If you have a question go ahead and ask!

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thunderstorms59

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That one is tough one...... after many hour of deep thought here is the answer...........

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thunderstorms59

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According to TAO, our sexual engery is the very foundation of our being and is essential for being fully alive!

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Icu4

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Dear thunderstorms59

Thanks for your time to answer our mixed questions please be patient.
I wanna improve my sex experience but I have big problem about licking, so what to do to please my girlfriend.
I looking forward to hearing from you soon.

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*Sliver!*

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Is that illegal in Jamaica too?

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thunderstorms59

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Reply to: Dear thunderstorms59 Thanks for your time to answer our mixed questions please...
Dear thunderstorms59Thanks for your time to answer our mixed questions please be patient.I wanna improve my sex experience but I have big problem about licking, so what to do to please my girlfriend.I looking forward to hearing from you soon.

Great question. Just the fact that you can ask that question means your on the way to become a great lover.

Lets start with the facts as they may help you:

The clitotis is the same as the head of the penis. It has all the same nerve endings are your penis does, but much more densily packed, which makes it more sensity that the head of a penis.

Like the penis the clit has a shaft.

Women have erectile tissue just like us guys do, but distribuled differently. So labia lips all swell because of this tissue. When it swells you are doing something right.

The nerves of the clit also run down the sides (labia) or lips right down to the annus.

The biggest advice that I can give you is listen and pay attention to how your partner responds.

I can't tell you eactly how to do it as each woman is different. So listen!!

Some women do not like direct clit stimulus, some do. Some like slow licks, some like fast licks... so this you must figure out.

Do not be afaid to ask... you can say... do you like it like this, do you like it like that.. Make it erotic when you ask. You can also do the asking and make it a tease.

You should should also note that you might start of light but as she get more turned on she may want it harder.

One little trick,,, get her a little turn on then flatten out your tongue and lightly push it up against her pussy. Hold your tongue still. She'll start to move her pussy against your tongue. She knows what she wants and her hips and movements will guide and teach you what she wants.

Do not make it a goal to make her cum.. relax and enjoy it and have fun and the orgasm will come on its own.

T

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*Sliver!*

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Why do some guy's take it personally if they don't make a woman cum?

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thunderstorms59

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Reply to: Why do some guy's take it personally if they don't make a woman cum?

Those men are pleasers and they feel that they failed to please their lover if they couldn't make them cum.

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Icu4

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Dear thunderstorms59
Thanks many many times, really I have got more power n useful tips from you.
I hope these will help me being a gentle doing that.

Thanks once more

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Icu4

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Reply to: Is that illegal in Jamaica too?
Dear Sants

Thanks 4 ur question. No not this is a normal action in many part of the glope,

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*Sliver!*

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So is anal sex. It happens everywhere. So WHY is it illegal in Jamaica?

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thunderstorms59

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Thanks for the great questions. Remember if you don't feel comfortable presenting your questions here, please feel free to message me privately as many of you have done already.

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Icu4

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Reply to: So is anal sex. It happens everywhere. So WHY is it illegal in Jamaica?
Dear Santa*S

I think we have discussed this question its place before n we'll discuss it again

Note: I'm ready to listen to u if u have a further details about this

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Icu4

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Thanks My dear coach.
I hope u'll be a great part the rest of my life thanks again

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*Sliver!*

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Reply to: Dear Santa*S I think we have discussed this question its place before n we'll ...
No we haven't. I'm asking why it's illegal. And if I have to I'll do my own research on if it is in fact illegal.

Somehow I don't believe you.

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thunderstorms59

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Reply to: Thanks My dear coach. I hope u'll be a great part the rest of my life thanks ...
Thanks My dear coach. I hope u'll be a great part the rest of my life thanks again

Ask me a question anytime. How did you make out with your partner... Do you try anything of the things I suggested?

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Icu4

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Dear Sants

You don't have to believe me, anyway you can do your best to get the fact that u need to know

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notreally

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Ok here is my question. Are you really a sex therapist or just some internet guy looking to get off by having people ask you sex realated questions? And question #2 IF your a sex therapist why are you giving your advice for free...is it bad advice cause most therapist charge alot for their advice.

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jem1987

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Maybe he's just a good person and wants to help people... ? Just a thought.

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