Dear thunderstorms59Thanks for your time to answer our mixed questions please be patient.I wanna improve my sex experience but I have big problem about licking, so what to do to please my girlfriend.I looking forward to hearing from you soon.
Great question. Just the fact that you can ask that question means your on the way to become a great lover.
Lets start with the facts as they may help you:
The clitotis is the same as the head of the penis. It has all the same nerve endings are your penis does, but much more densily packed, which makes it more sensity that the head of a penis.
Like the penis the clit has a shaft.
Women have erectile tissue just like us guys do, but distribuled differently. So labia lips all swell because of this tissue. When it swells you are doing something right.
The nerves of the clit also run down the sides (labia) or lips right down to the annus.
The biggest advice that I can give you is listen and pay attention to how your partner responds.
I can't tell you eactly how to do it as each woman is different. So listen!!
Some women do not like direct clit stimulus, some do. Some like slow licks, some like fast licks... so this you must figure out.
Do not be afaid to ask... you can say... do you like it like this, do you like it like that.. Make it erotic when you ask. You can also do the asking and make it a tease.
You should should also note that you might start of light but as she get more turned on she may want it harder.
One little trick,,, get her a little turn on then flatten out your tongue and lightly push it up against her pussy. Hold your tongue still. She'll start to move her pussy against your tongue. She knows what she wants and her hips and movements will guide and teach you what she wants.
Do not make it a goal to make her cum.. relax and enjoy it and have fun and the orgasm will come on its own.
T
