From my point of view I LOVE OLDER MEN i think 20's guys are so inmature and stupids. But 30's are the best age for a man the perfect i dare to say. They are Mature , they knw wht they want , they even more experience than me and they are serious about relationship(few of them) lol but i love 30's years old men as long as they look good as long as they conserved in shape i love them. So ANYONE?? hit me back lolz

Hey Cool Chick...38 year old male here! Interested? LOL

lol private ur a player ;)haha

I know just joking with you Cool! LOL

im into someone already but idk if he's into me he likes me so far :P idk

Well thats good! Hope that works out for you! Is he in his thirties like you prefer?

he is actually 38 pretty mature and handsome i hope we wants me for real and not just one night ughhh lol

Yeah one nighters suck. Been there done that, don't care for it! Have you both actually met?

no yet but hopefully in may . im going to CT n he lives in MASS n he already knws tht im going tho

Maybe you're just meeting in all the wrong places...

Well just be careful Cool...long distance realtionships can be really tough on both invloved. Don't rush into anything. Take your time.

ohhh yea idk im so confused it seens like he just just want to have fun and thts it . idk wht to do whould i meet him or not?? btw he is willing to drive 3 hours to see me lolz

3 hours isn't far! Meet in the middle and it's super fast!

if he wants me he would come i think is not problem for him though

Yeah three hours isn't that long at all. Plus if you meet in the middle it's on neutral ground and you can decide then if you want him to know where exactly you live or not.

wht do u mean??

What I mean is for your own safety it's best to meet on neutral ground. The guy could be a stalker but you won't actually know until you meet him.

i love stalker lol not jk mmmm yes u right but i always met guys in a place tht i knw where i am u knw is kinda safety for me to knw where i am anything tht happens i knw wht to do plus i have a pepper spray all the time ;)

Cool chick no offence but if you're afraid of your husband should you really be trying to meet other men?

Well thats good Cool. Just don't want to see a nice girl like you get hurt.

im not afraid of him im afraid of leaving with out my kids and dont see them again . and yes i met a couple guys when we were separated i still have some friends tho but they are in CONNECTICUT where i used to live so since i moved i was kinda behave lolz

i ve been hurt most of the time cux i give everything in a relationship but idnt receive nothing thts kinda frustating u knw so im sick of it . im trying not to fall or not go deep with the guy just like a hang out and be friends thts it

so if he looks good that all that matters? hmmm even if the guy plans on chopping your head off and hurting your kids?,, think about it. think hard about your values and priorities for a while,, and i bet you wiull change your whole outlook on any kind of man period.

how does one know of a guy is nice from first glance? you can't no one can. takes about a year or so too know someone's mind and motives. yes i am an older man, my looks are not important to me as much as keeping my life in balance and as pure as possible that includes flaws and defects of charecter. i do know what i want,, and will wait till i get it. a woman with a nice body means nothing to me if her heart is rotten.

I KNW IT TAKES YEARS TO KNW A PERSON BETTER ALL I SAID IS IM GONNA MEET HIM .WHT THE HELL IS UR PROBLEM DUDE??

i have to agree with you men in 30s know what they want out of life and dont play games