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jef2dalef

Joined: 8/10/2008

what if you knew that your girlfriend had slept with girls prior to you but every timre you asked about it she denied it, what would you do as far as your relationship with her?

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jef2dalef

Joined: 8/10/2008

i dont know what to do, thats why i need yall help cuz i do love her but.......

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

That's HER past, it doesn't involve you so leave it alone.

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dreamgurl1376

Joined: 4/29/2008

I wouldn't just leave it alone unless she came out and told you without your having to stumble upon the information.

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A little less t...

Joined: 8/25/2008

well do you know for a fact she did or just threw hear say?.......and if you know for a fact verses hear say, then you need to find out if it was just a wanna try it one time thing or if more..if it was more are you willing to accept your partner as being bi, If so, then you might find another way to approach her about it to get an honest respond from her. Open and Honest communication is the key word to any type of realonship..... as far as what to do with the relationship, that is something you have to decide for yourself.
Hey just voicing my opinion

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TheZodiac

Joined: 11/30/2008

Shoot! I hope my girlfriends slept with women. Nothing sexier than knowing your girl got down like that. The problem of her not telling you is annoying. That means she's either ashamed of it (now) or thinks you'll reject her. Nah. She has to be honest and roll those dice. I'd embrace the idea and bring it out in her. Once she admitted it, I'd get so horny, we'd have mind-blowing sex as a result. She'd never deny it again. ...and it may encourage her to do it again for you. Maybe you can join next time. ;)

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just living ma ...

Joined: 7/23/2008

well its Her Past Let it be. dont Make that break your relationship.


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Miss_Independent

Joined: 11/26/2008

I am wondering how you know this to be true for sure?? If you know that she is lying to you then why would you even stick around? No one wants a relationship that is based on lies. It is her past and it is hers to tell but she should be open and honest with you if she wants things to go farther. Maybe if she is lying to you she has more to hide than you know...

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lynncat

Joined: 8/14/2007

How do you feel about her? Do you love her? That is what is important. What is the relationship now? Does she love you? Are you happy together?

I dated a man that people talked about like that. I could never tell. He always, treated me like he loved me. There were times when I wondered because when we were out together other guys would come up to him and he would make sure right away to introduce me as his girlfriend. Then, one time a guy was by us that I didn't know. We were drinking but, I wasn't drunk. This guy came over and kissed him. That was grose. I pretended like I didn't see it. No matter what anyone said I wanted to believe that he was straight. I cared deeply about him. We dated for a long time, several years. Then, when I really wanted a commitment from him his answer was I'm not the kind of guy that can be married. I was very hurt over him. But, when I think of it I respect him. He did not lie. We are still friends but, there is no relationship.
I could have continued to believe he was straight if things would have been different. You have to make the decision. Don't look at her past but, consider what is right for you.

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Reply to: How do you feel about her? Do you love her? That is what is important. What ...
Well I think that was a case of him trying to be straight to try and prove to himself that he could be straight. I have an ex that did that. It's good that you're still friends even though things didn't work out.

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69mindfreak69

Joined: 7/12/2008

If this was in the past then leave it at that.but if your with her & shes still sleeping with women leave her sorry ass.But i think if you know she had slept with other women in the past & she lied about it then that's ground for dismissible to.Liars can't be trusted weather the question was before you met her or after.

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HEART QUEEN

Joined: 12/9/2008

I see your point. And since you obviously have doubt you need to approach her in a different way. She's probably embarrassed and worried about what your reaction would be if she admitted it. Don't put her down for feeling that way.Let her know that you know it's true .Give her some assurance that it isn't going to change anything but you have a right to know. Let it be a simple question yes or no.And leave it at that.Be patient though.Don't demand anything.

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maggiemaybe

Joined: 6/26/2008

discovering one's true sexuality can often be a very hard thing to do......many believe that we all have bisexual tendencies.not sure i believe that...but we do go through diffenebt things in life that can and do sway our preferences....I am not a man hater, never was,,,,,,,not even and EX hater.....i just know what makes me happy now. Try not to be too judgemental about it and don't pressure her. Mighta just been a phase she went through and can't admit it

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teggler

Joined: 7/9/2008

you are on a slippery slope here. as echoed in above postings, it is her past.

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