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christa69

Joined: 10/15/2008

never work,always finding numbers,even catching him with them,then u get tired and end it.but yet he took ur money too keep him out of jail and pay his bill and he was the one cheating. and yet i am a b----. cause i left him

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SweetRandyRay

Joined: 1/11/2011

How could you leave him after everything he's done for you?

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**takemymind

Joined: 2/21/2011

Reply to: How could you leave him after everything he's done for you?
Sounds like he was a great catch. I'm surprised the alarm bells didn't go off sooner than they did.

We are only responsible for our own actions.

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The Chino

Joined: 8/26/2005

She must have been distracted with the blind loyalty she had towards him and it's way too common these days. I'm just disturbed that you didn't end it with him much sooner. You could have been much happier than how you appear to be right now.

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WestTexPlayboy

Joined: 1/17/2011

Just get back together with him. You'd be much more happy than you appear to be right now.

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**takemymind

Joined: 2/21/2011

Reply to: Just get back together with him. You'd be much more happy than you appear to be...
Crazy looking fucker in. them pics lmao

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Shanna Licious

Joined: 12/15/2010

never work,always finding numbers,even catching him with them,then u get tired and end it.but yet he took ur money too keep him out of jail and pay his bill and he was the one cheating. and yet i am a b----. cause i left him 

well hell yeah youre b****...an inconsiderate one at that...whos gonna keep him outta jail and pay his bills now?

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kompleatkaos

Joined: 1/17/2011

Please give me a chance. If I'm wrong I'll accept that, too. I've written 5 different drafts of this response. This one will be short, I promise. But it also goes AGAINST the general consensus of MOST threads of this type. Let me say upfront that his involvement in the marriage spelled DOOM from the jump!

But if HE hadn't killed it, she WOULD HAVE! It IS inconsiderate to search for numbers or anything else that isn't dangerous or illegal. A marriage will also be DOOMED... because of a lack of respect for each others "personal items and space." A phone number, in and of itself, is not grounds for divorce.

If you don't know the rules of marriage, the marriage is DOOMED!
"He" (the husband) has the same access to community wealth as the wife. Even if she is the only one with a job. The opposite scenario was the standard from which I drew my inference.

The minor children of one are considered the children of both. Until someone regains the balls and brings all of that curfew crap back for consideration

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francis234

Joined: 1/7/2011

A very meticulous post

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XStarrX

Joined: 10/4/2005

Reply to: How could you leave him after everything he's done for you?
LmaOooooooooooooooooo!!!
omg that's FUNNY

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**takemymind

Joined: 2/21/2011

i find this a sexist thread.. what about women who use men ?

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xavier12

Joined: 3/25/2008

Reply to: Please give me a chance. If I'm wrong I'll accept that, too. I've written 5 dif...
It is part of a "lower expectation" society we live in now Kaos. For those that have a lot to offer a partner things are simple. There is no consideration of checking your partners cell phone to see if they are cheating on you because if they are you break up with them and they are the one losing out. It is a daily competition to see who can make the other feel more cherished and love.

But the problematic scenario is what should the people who have less to offer a partner do? If they try to consort with a better partner the situation is doomed. If they try to mingle with like minds they are picking the lesser of two evils between someone who cheats and someone who steals their money, but something can be said about the comfort and pride of knowing they are the more valuable member of the relationship.

So the question becomes, how does a lesser person avoid the DOOM? In some ways lesser people have the same problem in a relationship as with jobs....save our government isn't there to bail them out with unemployment,welfare,WIC,....< br>
BTW these comments are not directed at the thread originator, it is more likely you just made a bad decision with this guy, we have all done it.

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JohnLee70043

Joined: 1/16/2011

never work,always finding numbers,even catching him with them,then u get tired and end it.but yet he took ur money too keep him out of jail and pay his bill and he was the one cheating. and yet i am a b----. cause i left him 

Love is overlooking anothers' short comings... it's amazing what we see when we wake up from Love. Happens to everyone sooner or later. As far as him calling YOU a b----, consider the source. He's not even worth worrying about.

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securitygirl

Joined: 3/26/2010

Reply to: well hell yeah youre b****...an inconsiderate one at that...whos gonna keep him...
oh that's made me just about pee my pants..to funny...

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Etritonakin3.0

Joined: 7/18/2010

Forget about him -treat yourself well -find a keeper -do a background check -listen to those around him before getting too involved.

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Shanna Licious

Joined: 12/15/2010

Reply to: oh that's made me just about pee my pants..to funny...
oh that's made me just about pee my pants..to funny...

well I'm just saying ...I mean...now he's gotta resort to asking mommy for help again...I mean...how rude!

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Shanna Licious

Joined: 12/15/2010

for the record, christa, I'm only kidding...seriously...if hes calling you a bitch now, its only because he's lost his meal ticket and you realized he wasnt worthy of you...he should really be calling himself a bitch

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securitygirl

Joined: 3/26/2010

Reply to: for the record, christa, I'm only kidding...seriously...if hes calling you a bi...
she is right dear..no more all you caneat buffet..lol

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DeepTrout

Joined: 3/10/2011

Before my husbands unfortunate passing, I would always find different sized panties all over the house when I got home from school. He'd tell me he went shopping for me but I can tell that they were used and never had a tag. Most of the time they wouldn't even fit. I kept reminding him my size but he never could remember. I'm sorry your having such a bad experience.

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The Chino

Joined: 8/26/2005

Christa, you're a beautiful woman. I don't understand how you can put up with his crap for so long. Personally, you should have kicked him the first moment you suspected him of cheating, and suspicion from a woman's intuition usually leads to fact. Well, 92% of the time anyway.

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SweetRandyRay

Joined: 1/11/2011

Reply to: Before my husbands unfortunate passing, I would always find different sized pan...
I'd buy you panties any time. Just tell me what size.

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ghostcat85255

Joined: 10/15/2010

Reply to: I'd buy you panties any time. Just tell me what size.
oh you Horny devil

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kompleatkaos

Joined: 1/17/2011

Reply to: I'd buy you panties any time. Just tell me what size.
Save your money, SRR. She should just lose the panties altogether. That way the smooth-talking Lothario wouldn't be able to convince her of a fluctuating weight problem, HIS need to feel pretty and express his inner-skank out at the construction site or that she sleep-drives to WalMart at 3 in the morn...for...you guessed it. Panties, jumper cables, bread, and milk...(..supposed to snow next year, ya know)

But, if she MUST wear'em, she should choose between licorice, taffy, and cotton candy...Cookies 'n Cream if it snows next year...

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Simba Bitch!

Joined: 1/21/2011

*Stares blankly at Kaos*

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kompleatkaos

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...Dohhh...:-@

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