Why is there some many horny ,disgusting,and disrespectful men on this site? I know this is the case with most online social / dating sites. Another thing most of these men are from foreign countries.This more of a vent not a question. Ladies & the real gens what is your opinion on this?
To be perfectly honest, I feel the urge CONSTANTLY!
However, I am generally considered a gentleman (when I'm not being silly), so I try to mind my manners when I'm expressing myself.
To address your question: Why is there some many horny ,disgusting,and disrespectful men on this site? I know this is the case with most online social / dating sites.
From my perspective, I woud say, "consider the source". Although you may have a decent and (somewhat conservative) approach to (whatever it is that you're here for), there is an abundance of women (note that I didn't use the term "ladies")
-who have NO qwalms about exhibitting their nudeness, and in many cases, their indiscretions. This, of course captures the attention of the disrespetful men you refer to. And, of course, the men respond to the images of these women like sharks on a bleeding whale -a feeding frenzy!
At my church, I've learned thatwomen process information differently than men.
Generally, we are "visual creatures"; when we look for a companion, we're most likely to approach someone whom we find visually stimulating. Furthermore, we really don't require much more than the visual stimulation to prepare us for (physical) sex.
On the other hand, women (generally) are "emotional creatures", -meaning, you really want us to commit to you before you'll have sex. Of course, this is not so much the rule these days, as more women will readily compromise themselves, in hopes that the sexual experience will help (or entice)their partners to commit. This problem (and it is a problem) is not limited to race, culture, social or economic classes.
Whether were talking about men or women, those who indulge in sex with multiple partners, don't know (or won't acknowledge) that they are actually failing to address a deficiency (unresolved issue, or missing element) in their lives, and the sex is an attempt to "feed the deficiency", -despite the fact that the sex lacks the desired effectiveness. I'm not saying that the sex isn't gratifying, but the actual need(s) remains unfulfilled.
If, in your experience, most of these men are from foreign countries, -again, I say, "consider the source".
We live in America, where computers, the internet and other resources are invented, or widely available. Our laws and culture(s) enable us to do things that are not tolerated in other parts of the world, and the middle east immediately comes to mind.
Consider the muslim nations: it is my understanding that women must remain covered from head to toe, including their faces, unless they are within the confines of their homes (and even then, not in the presence of any men with whom
they are related). I don't know if men date women like we date here; but, given the strict practice of keeping women covered in public, and around non-relatives, the men don't enjoy looking at the women's FACES until they are married (or engaged, I'm guessing).
Now, with due respect to their cultural rules and restrictions, here comes somebody with computers to sell, and with them, access to the world wide web.
Ali Saddam is surfing the net, he sees one of those other dating websites, registers, initiates a search. . .
. . .nevermind the faces, 'cause he has Sabrina's vagina staring him in the eye; Marge's anal cavity and vagina competing with Sabrina's; Maria's full frontal nudity, -and I'm sure you've seen it.
Consider the source.