im a blk woman who likes caucasion men but is having a hard time finding one that want a relationship, is it because m blk

Absolutely Not... You are beautiful just the way you are... Some white guys just won't go out with a blk woman either because they are in some way racist or don't feel like people would approve in their families and all... Some guys are Honest and will meet up with you, just don't try too hard... Let them come to you, ya' know? Anyway, good luck and message me if ya' want... Shott

It doesn't always have to be a racist or an approval thing. I have dated all races...I prefer white. I am more physically attracted to white, but I don't limit myself. There are certain races I will not date, however, east indian for example...culturally I don't care for the people, their outlook on life. Asian, I am not physically attracted to. Black is more of a how they treat a woman issue, and no it does not apply to all, but so far it has applied to the majority.

A white man does not have to be considered racist simply because he may not find another race attractive, or may not have anything in common culturally speaking.

To the Op, you're a beautiful woman, and I happen to know a lot of white men who prefer dating black women exclusively. You simply have to find one of those white men.

Shott, I am getting quite tired of the race card. There should be no pressure to date or be attracted to people of another race in fear that others may judge one as racist. Please try not to feed the race divide by making it a racist issue for every stupid little thing.

I was mainly speaking of the experiences in my life... You yourself put a racial divide as well... I'm not trying to play any card, I was simply replying to the young lady with my opinion that I'm entitled too just as everyone else is... Also, I did not consider her questioning a "stupid little thing", like I said, "I was simply replying to the young lady with "My" Opinion... Sorry if I got anyones panties in a wad... I didn't reply to be argumentive and I dont want to be argumentive - I would rather give a compliment than any negative reply... So, with this said - I will not try to feed the race divide by making it a racist issue, I'm sorry if anyone took it that way... My reply was meant to be positive and uplifting to the pretty young lady - She got my message, you brouht this to my attention and I thank you for that, I will not bring any racial issues into the forums, I didn't realize my reply would be taken' as you have taken' it... Not to be judgmental but you seem to have your own racial thoughts about others' but I don't want to make this an issue - Just Sayin'... Peace...

i know that theres a big sterotype when it comes to white men and blk woman alot of white men think that all blk woman are loud and ghetto that stereotype makes it hard for a woman like me whose not loud nor ghetto to find a white man who wants to be with me i find plenty who wanna have sex but none who wanna take it to another level its very frustrated. i als figured that my weight may have a factor i heard that if a white man does get attracted to a blk woman its mostly the boney blk woman. i just wonder if ill ever find a caucasion man who will like me for me and not judge me by sterotypes or by weight but who i am as a person im starting to give up that that will ever happen

Do Not Ever Give Up - He is out there, you just haven't met him yet... I have looked at your profile and I see an intelligent, beautiful woman... I think You Are A Wonderful Person... Do Not Give Up.... Shott

I wasn't looking for an argument either...I am simply tired of everyone's opinion being so damn politically correct. We're all different and we have behaviors and appearances that circle around our race, culture, beliefs.

You made two statements both had to do with a man being racist or being afraid of being judged by others who might be racist.

I was not drawing a racial divide at all..I was simply giving examples of how different people or different cultures and races may or may not be a good match for another.

You could have simply told her she has not found the right man yet..which is more likely the truth rather than the racist possibility. Besides you didn't happen to notice that she has no trouble getting white men to sleep with her...and on that note....

I'm sorry, don't take it personal... I get what you are saying, that's what you posted it for and yes I did understand.... Sorry if it caused any grief.... Peace

...hotcaramel...ALL men, regardless of color will sleep with any willing woman.
As I mentioned before I have dated a lot of different races and cultures of men...NONE had any problems getting in bed with me, regardless of my color, culture, fat ass or loud mouth. Few wanted a relationship as a rule of thumb but said whatever it took to get in my pants...of the few who wanted a relationship, either I wasn't the right woman for them or they weren't the right man for me.

Based strictly on stereotypes, you don't want them anyway, because they are too closed minded to be worth your time. But if you think it is a race issue of why they are willing to sleep with you but not be in a relationship with you...I will have to disagree.

As I said before, you simply have not found the right man.

I agree with you... Except I will not sleep with any willing woman... I'm not in a catagory to be judged by what others' may do... You have to know me before you can judge me and then you shouldn't anyway...

Sorry Shott, it was really not meant to sound so all inclusive. Particularly to include you specifically. I don't know you , I don't know what you would or wouldn't do.


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MOST men will sleep with any willing woman.

Are we square now?

We Are All Good... Hope things are going well for you... Shott

No do you know the blk women are the best and hotest almost of men will like it and love doen't ave race blk with asian or anything the most importante it's the love

I do agree with one thing I could decipher, the most important thing is the Love... Shott

Hot Caramel
don't give up girl keep trying maybe you will find a good man

hotcaramel i am here for you.......?????????

Its just we kinda dont get yall

whats not to get, and i take offense to the yall part because not all blk woman are the same. there are some blk woman that are loud and ghetto as well as some white woman and hispanic woman their are some blk woman that are lawyers and docters just like whit woman asian woman or hispancic waoman so how is my race any different from anyone elses thsts why i feel people should not be judge based on race because every race is capable of being like any other race, hell theres alot of caucasion woman in my city alone who try to mimic the ways of a blk woman so i would love clarification on what you mean by you guys dont understand us what makes our woman different from yours

there are no diference between blk asian indian araba white women trust me

WELL I DONT KNOW WHY YOU ALL ARE CONTEMPLATING ON RACE. WHEN THERE IS LOVE YOUR DESIRE IS FULFILLED. WHETHER BLACK OR WHITE, WE ARE ONE.

I've dated an African American. She was fun.

i hate when people use the word ya'll as if were all the same

People are people darlin. Guys suk, girls suk....... Until you find " the one that fits" don't torture yourself about race or any other petty sht.

the word y'all is not an insult, be gentle in writing to make me believe you are as seen. ok

He was refering to women in general, Y'all.... not color Y'all...... I'm pretty sure.