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eyesopen

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with all the free sex and cyber friends ...does it get serious?

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Meltonsson

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Its nothing new. Random/Free sex has been around since the flower child days of the sixties. In my view, for most people, men and women alike, the word "serious" is no longer considered a necessary item in social/sexual relations.

Oh sure, they talk about being serious and uses the word in their profiles but how many actually make sure that things are truly serious before jumping into bed?

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jem1987

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Lol, random sex has been around since humans have been around.

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falcow

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Seriousness is hard to know

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jem1987

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Few animals don't have a lot of sex. Most only have sex when the female is ovulating, and that's it. Having tons of sex is mostly a human thing. Even in a monogamous relationship, if you have sex more than just during ovulation, then you're having way more sex than most animals do.

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m1nn1e

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humans r animals which means ur an animal and were raised by animals. but if u mean humans raised by other species really how many of those exist outside of fiction. i guess u took the jungle books as historical fact. talk abt brainwashing disney is full of it and kipling was super racist probably why u think he wrote a biography of Mowgli instead of made up a story like most racists believe fantasy is real. or mabye its Tarzan u think was a real guy. but then neither of them was known 4 random sex so even if they was real they dont prove ur point. u say the stupidest stuff.

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leo blake

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Reply to: Random sex is for people raised by animals..
gee ,why don't you join a monestary-give me a break.

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Can't believe everything u read..the truth is in ur face

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naringg

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Reply to: Few animals don't have a lot of sex. Most only have sex when the female is ovu...
He is not talking about real life animals jem )

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m1nn1e

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Reply to: Yes, the ability to distinguish things sex or what so ever made us the special ...
as far as i can tell what makes humans the special kind of animal is a false belief that we r seperate from and superior 2 nature. theres lots of highly intelligent creatures like whales and elephants and apes that we dont even start 2 understand and alot of them r monogamous 4 life. humans might have selfawareness but most r in denial of there animal selves which seems the opposite of brilliant intellect 2 me.

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Nitzynelle

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Reply to: as far as i can tell what makes humans the special kind of animal is a false be...
What makes human special?...I think the biggest point of contention is our cognitive abilities differ from those other animals in "kind" or in degree.
Believing our similarity to animals and merely incrementally more intelligent as result of our higher evolution..

Here are 4 abilities of human mind that makes as a "humaniqueness", mental traits and abilities that distinguish us from our fellow Earthlings...

1. generative computation-limitless variety of words and concepts..
2. promicuous combination of ideas-various domain of knowledge as, art, casuality, friendship, sex, etc...
3. mental symbols- way of encoding
4.abstract thought- contemplation of things...

elephants-bra in is the largest of all mammals..however it means little, for a good part of the brain use to support the bulk of an animal and some its special non cognitive functions..Chimpanzees are not only our closest kin but also they behave similarly to human.

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eyesopen

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Mystery.... how men think in my opinion.... and i'm sure not all men are like this ....but their thoughts!! they can have a realistic relationship with a woman on cyber...and still have a real relationship with their girlfriend or wife at home and think they are not cheating....those that do that are just fooling them self's and trying to get sympathy from others about being unfaithful..... while still married and they are having fun else where...to me that is wrong ...if you have to look else where....well then there is something wrong in your relationship and the respect and loyalty is all gone no LOVE.....sex without feelings is just not possible in my book...then we do resort..... to being like animals..... it's all lust...if you can't be real with yourself ...then you can't be with anyone else ....relationships are not like a lollipop or ice cream cone you enjoy finish and its gone ...this are real people here ....and that empty feeling of still alone will be there after...what possible gratification can u possibly get from that ....except a disease maybe .....a guy wondered why the women don't go to the rooms and chat ...well i used to......and was on cam ...but what happens....some men well allot of them show their penis and hard ons, masturbating.....so who wants that ....how do you think a woman will take you serious....if you do that in front of everybody.....so i come in here now....no one is perfect...i sure am not and i'm not passing judgement here... just expressing my opinion and just wonder ....does it get serious i mean really?

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leo blake

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Reply to: Mystery.... how men think in my opinion.... and i'm sure not all men are like t...
I beleive women cheat too. Why? Because they are not getting satisfied at home.

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jem1987

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Women like variety more than men do.

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leo blake

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so is cheating or not? I think swingers have the right outlook on lifr.

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jem1987

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I agree on that part.

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leo blake

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Thanks,your a pretty girl.you should have no problem finding men.

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jem1987

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I have no problem finding guys. Hard to find the type I want though lol.

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leo blake

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well your young,no need to get tied up with one guy. Enjoy life to the fullest. You only get one life as far as I know.

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Nitzynelle

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I think swingers are not cheaters....if i'm not mistaken this is a "wife swapping" activity.. wherein couple are both involve.

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eyesopen

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Reply to: so is cheating or not? I think swingers have the right outlook on lifr.
where is it where did the love go the commitment to each other...loyalty ,respect honor and sincerity......

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