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lordarmand

Joined: 12/25/2010

Reply to: sex is love to me! ive only had 3 partners im 30 , im picky and want a relation...
You're right! Almost all guys have transformed into these monsters. Ugly and cruel. I've begun to notice that women in my town are becoming afflicted with the same thing. they are falling victim to these evil ways and that kinda junk changes people. For better or worse. You know what you like, that's the first step, Right?

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Ikemerit

Joined: 5/12/2011

Reply to: sex is love to me! ive only had 3 partners im 30 , im picky and want a relation...
This girl you are funny...it look's you love sex! But i must advice u that, sex is not the only way u can have fun or maybe enjoyment.so talk a reasonable tin baby!

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sexpuppet7

Joined: 1/2/2011

I think its possible to love someone without having sex, but staying in love, is a different story, i believe sex is what makes a man and a woman whole, rather than 2 beings. Sex is when you are your wholest.. But to each his own i suppose =]

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agustinericky

Joined: 7/4/2011

i dont think its possible dating some one without having sex,because they can not really feel each other more perfectly,they most know what is so sweet and interesting in there body especially in a romamtic move ,like toching each other kissing felling the body of you man or woman knowing how sexually atractive you guys can be together,

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nlp121186

Joined: 7/25/2011

Yes I do believe at luv at first site thats is still possible :)

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lordarmand

Joined: 12/25/2010

Reply to: Yes I do believe at luv at first site thats is still possible :)
Absolutely! it is!

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green_eyed_lady

Joined: 8/11/2011

Do you think you can love a man or a woman without having sex... just talking about everything and have fun... is it possible...

Before deciding whether or not something is possible, and to discuss it adequately, wouldn't it be helpful to define the words you are using so everyone is on the same page?

What IS love? lust? define "in love"
Is love voluntary or involuntary? (must have time to grow or instantaneous?)
What is "sex"? as opposed to "making love" or "f---ing"
What does physical attraction have to do with loving feelings?
Is it possible to love someone who is no good for you? Why, or why not?

I think that love is an involuntary response to virtuous, moral, and admirable qualities in another person. Over time more of these qualities come to light during the course of building a relationship, hence the growing depth of the feelings. I agree with S. Molynieux's (sp) definition. It is logical.

I think that instant physical attraction occurs.
I think that lust is that first physical, usually visual response to what we see as the epitome (or close to it) of beauty, as we personally see it. Of course, for some people that could be anyone with the correct parts for their preference, lol

love without sex is possible, and sex without love is also. imho

here's one for all of you: In light of my definition above of love, can you truly say you love someone if you cannot easily articulate those attributes in your loved one which are deserving of "love?"



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agustinericky

Joined: 7/4/2011

LOVE IS AN AFECTION WE FEEL FOR EACH OTHER AND SEX IS A COVENANT.
SEX BRINGS THE TWO PEOPLE TOGETHER INTO COMMITMENT TO ONE ANOTHER LIKE AN AOTH.
MOREOVER SEX BRINGS IN THE TOTAL ATRACTION OF ONE ANOTHER TO ALLWAYS HAVE A SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT YOUR PARTNER,
MOST ESPECAILLY WHEN YOUR PARTNER IS IN A BEAUTIFULL OUTFIT WHEN YOU LOOKS AT HIM OR HER YOU GET AROUSE SEXUALLY.

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Cy83rDra90n

Joined: 9/3/2011

Fuck No!

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Cy83rDra90n

Joined: 9/3/2011

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You Can Have Sex With Friends! It's Called Friends With Benefits! No Love Allowed!

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Michael Cottrel

Joined: 8/23/2011

In my experience one of the two people will get hurt.Feelings run deep and even though you think you can handle it most can't .The balance between love and sex is a delicate dance.In fact thats why most of us are here if we understood these things we would'nt be here.We would be happy .But in answer to you question its possible but the more time you spend with some one you do love the harder it gets lol.

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securitygirl

Joined: 3/26/2010

Reply to: In my experience one of the two people will get hurt.Feelings run deep and even...
i allways knew you are a smart man too..

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Michael Cottrel

Joined: 8/23/2011

Thanks what do you mean too wink :)

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ringwraith02809

Joined: 3/30/2011

Reply to: Thanks what do you mean too wink :)
lol

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SargeantAli

Joined: 8/30/2011

No i don't think so.

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Sharat babu

Joined: 5/24/2011

Hai friend. Yes its possible but not all men and women only some men and women, they can love without having sex.

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abid.ch

Joined: 11/23/2013

yes becase only sex is not love you can love with persnality of person his habits love is not only for sex becase if you are in love some when he or she is sad you become sad when he is hapy ur hart naturly become hapy it is love

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*ultimate*

Joined: 8/31/2012

I have been in a relationship for almost 5 yrs now ..and we never have intercourse,,we are very happy and love each other..sure we kiss and touch ..thats all we need ..works for us ..

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good christian

Joined: 12/1/2013

I thought I would ask anyone whom might be a Christian if waiting for the sexual love when the 2 people are ready 1. To commit themselves to each other
2. Have no other problems that carry themselves into other relationships.
3. take time to grow and learn how to love that person only.I find that many christian men I meet feel the same way, and some say they have more respect, less to feel guilty about.And make the commitment to know each others heart and mind.
Just asking...Thanx for reading.

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Nitzynelle

Joined: 8/17/2012

Yes, you can love a man or a woman without sexual pleasure yet.

It is possible...just keep the relationship to grow everyday without involving into sex..

But this is case to case..bec if you're both exposed into sexual pleasure in the previous mates that you have had...then self control is very narrow. The decision is all up to you.

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