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didi521

Joined: 10/20/2010

Do you think you can love a man or a woman without having sex... just talking about everything and have fun... is it possible... let me know..

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Merrikii

Joined: 11/1/2010

I think so. I have this friend of twenty years. At the beginning of our relationship we did come to love each other, but we were both with someone else, so we never acted upon it.

We are still friends.

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Miso soup

Joined: 4/1/2011

well, its hard to love s.o w/out having sex. i think sex makes man and woman get closer and feel warmer, happier and love each other more. however i believe that love may not need sex.

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CSI Kim2014

Joined: 3/25/2010

yes you can love someone without having sex with them. its the love for the person that makes the sex better. i could never have sex with someone i didn't love.

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theKGB

Joined: 7/20/2010

Yes, though I think there's only so deep it could go without sex. I don't know that I'd call it love, more like a deep friendship. Also, unless a platonic relationship is truly what both are looking for, it might end up causing more harm than good. Sexual tension is fun, until it turns into frustration.

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Carrie Bradshaw

Joined: 4/1/2011

Reply to: Yes, though I think there's only so deep it could go without sex. I don't kn...
RE: (quote from CCCP) "Sexual tension is fun, until it turns into frustration."
That's a good thing to remember... We sometimes forget how badly a man needs to be relieved of his frustrations. Communication is the best remedy for avoiding any type of frustration... We must also remember that sex changes the relationship in many cases.... One must be emotionally ready to handle the outcome.

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Viagra falls

Joined: 6/9/2011

A good handjob will do the trick

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Merrikii

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Viagra Falls.... That made me laugh..

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thinker11

Joined: 6/1/2011

There are three dimensions of love and sharing...Intellectual..emotio nal and physical.
If you really like someone ,you would like to enjoy all three dimesions of sharing. Just physical is not going to be much without the other two dimesions.

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jem1987

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carla91

Joined: 5/31/2011

Sex is sex and love is love as simple as that

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Crystal!23

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Reply to: Sex is sex and love is love as simple as that
That's not what she was asking Carla.

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carla91

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Reply to: That's not what she was asking Carla.
SEX IS SEX AND LOVE IS LOVE

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anhonest

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Crystal!23

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Okay smurf!

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supersweetman

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lmao smurf someone call ?

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Cole1127

Joined: 4/19/2011

Love, passion, and sex are three different categories. There are a few different forms of love, with or without intimacy, and with or without sex - intimacey and sex can be two different categories also. Passion can be with or without love or sex, and sex can be with or without passion or love. Sex can be purely physically biological or it can include passion intimacy and love.

So, yes it is possible to love someone without sex passion or intimacy. My observation is that most confuse the differences and it confuses the issues for others. Most of us are observant and can think logic, but when only one point of view is only shown, then the only conclusion most come to is that a man and woman cant be good friends or have love for each other without having sex - Not true. I personally know that I can be very good friends with deep feelings, and not have sexual tension. But not everyone is mentally or emotionally mature enough to be able to have the ability to.

IMHO

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moderndayHippie

Joined: 6/16/2011

In order for that relationship to move forward into a more intimate level physical contact like sex is needed. Without it there is only a profound friendship. The sex is like the graduation to the next level of a platonic relationship.

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Southercharm48

Joined: 4/30/2011

I absolutely think it is possible.

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Ikemerit

Joined: 5/12/2011

Well it is very possible 2 love a girl without having sex, cos if u have a sex with a girl dat u love, the love will began to fade out, and the respect will nolonger exist, becouse a girls respect is her pussy and mans respect is his cock. that's all

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Ikemerit

Joined: 5/12/2011

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I must tell u that if u find some1 u love soooo much that u want 2 marry , the mistak the girl will do is to give him sex, cos it is that her privecy that pushing us to take a promise that we cannot fulfil, even to the extent of promising to buy her house.

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lordarmand

Joined: 12/25/2010

Yes it is possible. I lived it for over half of my marriage. Not by choice however,deep love and appreciation is posible as long as both sides are trying for the same thing. It's a quality that's a litlle hard to come by these days. No one has the patience needed to make things great anymore.Ok.

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securitygirl

Joined: 3/26/2010

Reply to: Yes it is possible. I lived it for over half of my marriage. Not by choice howe...
i like your last sentance..very true..95% of people

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lordarmand

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Reply to: i like your last sentance..very true..95% of people
I guess we'll have to claw throught the 95% to get the real deal. The problem I've encountered on this site is there are too many lecherous types screwing things up for the people who want that happiness and are willing to work for it.

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princess777

Joined: 6/9/2011

sex is love to me! ive only had 3 partners im 30 , im picky and want a relationship, guys dont understand that anymore.

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