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Spikes2444

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this blog entry i added to my myspace.

if you feel the same way as i do, please voice your opinions.
Thank You.

Eddy

Is it wrong to like a certain type of girl or guy? why would it be wrong to like a pretty girl no matter if she is fat or skinny? i mean most girls perfer tall men over short men like myself? i'm 5'4 and i get turned down for that, isn't that a judgement? how can anyone judge another person just because they are short or fat or skinny? easy no one takes the time to know what their perosnality is first. i do, i judge people who they are, not what they look like. but time over time again throughout my life i been judged only on my height, weight and looks. am i allowed to say something bad? no i'm not? and why is that? why can women judge each other and judge men when in fact when a man judges a woman men are called pigs, stuck up and self centered. isn't women all those too?

I am judged not only on my looks and height and weight but the kind of girl i like, doesn't matter if she is fat or skinny tall or short black or white or asian. but i always get judged because i like girls at all. that pisses me off!
truth is i have been judged on everything by bigger girls, and only my height by skinny girls. i am a human man who has a heart and feelings and desires. i like beautiful girls, pretty girls and girls with flaws. fuck girls of all sizes have flaw's it's the ones who enbrass those flaws that make the girl likeable.
i liked this bigger girl a long time ago, and she told me to my face that i was to short and to fat to even be considered as a boyfriend. (JUDGEMENT) i really liked this really skinny girl with red hair, pal skin and glasses. and she told me to my face that that i was fat and i should always go for second best. (JUDGEMENT) i had no ill feelings toward either girl, cause it was their lose.
a few years ago i asked out this pretty skinny girl with blonde hair, she looked at me and just simgply walked away. (JUDGEMENT WITHOUT A WORD)

When i judge it's cause you are mean and rude, ugly on the inside i should say. i won't ever judge a woman on her size, height or looks. i'll judge you on your actions, as i would want to be judged on mine. i don't care if you are 4 feet or 8 feet, 60lbs or 300lbs flat cheated or have huge breasts. a woman is a work of art for men to admire and love.

Then alot of time i am judged on the people i choose to be friends with. the actresses i like and the clothes i wear.
fact is i'm a man, i have my likes and dislikes just like everyone else. i love beautiful asian women, doesn't mean i'll date them all. i like Megan Fox because she is a great actress and she is in my favorite movie. sure she is really hot, but she thinks of the world as this. FUCK WHAT PEOPLE THINK! i admire her for that.

Then i'm judged because i want to wait until i find the right woman to have sex with, sure enough when i do it's my and her choice to have sex. i'm tired of being judged just because i like things, that i want a good life and find a woman who has everything but has flaws and she embrasses them. she could be fat or skinny i don't know. but whoever she is, i would hope she will love me and respect and cherish me. and yeah i have my eye on someone, she's is beautiful and smart, short and wild who i think wants what i want. i don't know her well so i can't and won't judge her. but if she is willing i want to be with her, be her all, be her need and want, be her dream. and i be damned if i am judged on that.

It's not my fault that i have a penis, blame god damnit! it;s not my fault that life is hard and people are the way they are. i'm only human who wants a good, fun life to share with the woman i'll marry. and yeah i want a woman who is amazing and will treat me as well as i will treat her.

Stop the judgements and stop the put downs all because i am who i am. i've had to change alot in my life, i have lost and found so much. i have cried and felt alone and depressed, just like every man and every woman. thats called having feelings.
i'm a good person with good values and goals i hope to achieve soon. i'm honest and faithful and the person i like i hope she will give me some kind of chance. and if not, having her as a friend will be the greatest gift anyone could ever give me.

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Ok, what exactly do you want people to do with all that? It's basically just a bunch of whining that people don't like you and people judge each other and yadda yadda yadda.

YES people judge, but from what you said you just don't happen to be these ladie's type. Everyone has a type and know what they're looking for. One day that type might be you. But not if you bitch and complain that no one wants you.

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cams only room

Joined: 10/20/2008

this blog entry i added to my myspace. if you feel the same way as i do, please voice your opinions.Thank You.EddyIs it wrong to like a certain type of girl or guy? why would it be wrong to like a pretty girl no matter if she is fat or skinny? i mean most girls perfer tall men over short men like myself? i'm 5'4 and i get turned down for that, isn't that a judgement? how can anyone judge another person just because they are short or fat or skinny? easy no one takes the time to know what their perosnality is first. i do, i judge people who they are, not what they look like. but time over time again throughout my life i been judged only on my height, weight and looks. am i allowed to say something bad? no i'm not? and why is that? why can women judge each other and judge men when in fact when a man judges a woman men are called pigs, stuck up and self centered. isn't women all those too?I am judged not only on my looks and height and weight but the kind of girl i like, doesn't matter if she is fat or skinny tall or short black or white or asian. but i always get judged because i like girls at all. that pisses me off!truth is i have been judged on everything by bigger girls, and only my height by skinny girls. i am a human man who has a heart and feelings and desires. i like beautiful girls, pretty girls and girls with flaws. fuck girls of all sizes have flaw's it's the ones who enbrass those flaws that make the girl likeable.i liked this bigger girl a long time ago, and she told me to my face that i was to short and to fat to even be considered as a boyfriend. (JUDGEMENT) i really liked this really skinny girl with red hair, pal skin and glasses. and she told me to my face that that i was fat and i should always go for second best. (JUDGEMENT) i had no ill feelings toward either girl, cause it was their lose. a few years ago i asked out this pretty skinny girl with blonde hair, she looked at me and just simgply walked away. (JUDGEMENT WITHOUT A WORD) When i judge it's cause you are mean and rude, ugly on the inside i should say. i won't ever judge a woman on her size, height or looks. i'll judge you on your actions, as i would want to be judged on mine. i don't care if you are 4 feet or 8 feet, 60lbs or 300lbs flat cheated or have huge breasts. a woman is a work of art for men to admire and love.Then alot of time i am judged on the people i choose to be friends with. the actresses i like and the clothes i wear.fact is i'm a man, i have my likes and dislikes just like everyone else. i love beautiful asian women, doesn't mean i'll date them all. i like Megan Fox because she is a great actress and she is in my favorite movie. sure she is really hot, but she thinks of the world as this. FUCK WHAT PEOPLE THINK! i admire her for that.Then i'm judged because i want to wait until i find the right woman to have sex with, sure enough when i do it's my and her choice to have sex. i'm tired of being judged just because i like things, that i want a good life and find a woman who has everything but has flaws and she embrasses them. she could be fat or skinny i don't know. but whoever she is, i would hope she will love me and respect and cherish me. and yeah i have my eye on someone, she's is beautiful and smart, short and wild who i think wants what i want. i don't know her well so i can't and won't judge her. but if she is willing i want to be with her, be her all, be her need and want, be her dream. and i be damned if i am judged on that. It's not my fault that i have a penis, blame god damnit! it;s not my fault that life is hard and people are the way they are. i'm only human who wants a good, fun life to share with the woman i'll marry. and yeah i want a woman who is amazing and will treat me as well as i will treat her.Stop the judgements and stop the put downs all because i am who i am. i've had to change alot in my life, i have lost and found so much. i have cried and felt alone and depressed, just like every man and every woman. thats called having feelings. i'm a good person with good values and goals i hope to achieve soon. i'm honest and faithful and the person i like i hope she will give me some kind of chance. and if not, having her as a friend will be the greatest gift anyone could ever give me.
ffs man stop whinging

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

There's only one G in whining....


Just thought I'd mention that.

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cams only room

Joined: 10/20/2008

Reply to: There's only one G in whining.... Just thought I'd mention that.
There's only one G in whining.... Just thought I'd mention that.
eh

its one of those days i should lay down in a darkend room

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Carlton63

Joined: 12/2/2008

To live spiritually is not tht easy for most people because they have been cinditioned to live by external symbols that they interpret as truth
you never know someone just by their looks. Unfortunately many dee through the eyes of others instead of thier hearts Don;t give up on finding compatability it's trial and error

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Now you know why you're single. You just judged me (Which was stupid of you) then you blocked me so I couldn't respond to your little attack.


You're a pathetic little man who will remain single cause you're a whiney little bitch boy.

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

Look, Eddy. Like you said, everyone judges. You can't change that. People will NEVER change. You said you like women who embrace their flaws? So why can't you embrace yours? Women like confidence too. We love it, in fact. You have to remember that the person judging you has been judged too. Just as much, if not more, than you. Stop worrying so much about what other people think of you. Who cares? Everyone has their opinions, whether we agree with them or not. And yes, women HATE whiney boys. Ugh, it makes me sick.

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Joshua beasley 09

Joined: 11/19/2008

well the problem i have with girls is that i get with a girl who i think is gonna do me right and then she cheats on me or lies to me or fuck even use's me so i have come to a solution just don't fucking date the best way for you to not get your heart broken or turned down as you say just don't fucking date the bitch's and no i don't mean all girls are but 50% are all they want to do is fuck you over and when you confront them on it they get all pissed off and start blaming you for the shit you did wrong NO fuck that it's not the guys fault the fucking girls can make up there fucking mind about what they want the way i see it girls fuck guys over and guys fuck girls over so dude the only advice i can give you is don't listen to what people say and don't fucking date you will find a girl one day who like's you for you and won't judge you at all shit i know i will i'm just waiting till that day comes and hey if it never come then fuck it it just won't happen it's better to be single then to pour yourself out to a girl that never really wanted anything to do with you in the first place and if any girls have any problems with what i said take it like this it's just advice that's all

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

Oh you're being too nice. At least 90% of girls suck. But I would say it's the same with guys. Don't let them treat you like that. Sometimes we welcome this behavior, without realizing it. Maybe you get too attached too soon, that's usually what does it. Nothing wrong with dating. Have some fun with it. Go in not expecting anything, good or bad. You're more likely to have fun. Or maybe you need to try a different type. Yeah, people suck, it's the truth. But some can surprise you. Don't give up, it's not worth it, I promise.

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DreamLoverNYC

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Um, first of all dude.. people in here gave me a summary of what u wrote lol. So Basically I didnt have time to read all that crap u wrote, no offense. But do u neeed a coach man? get at me. I hate to see people get treated like this, its fucked up.

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*Sliver!*

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Reply to: Oh you're being too nice. At least 90% of girls suck. But I would say it's th...
Ok THAT was too nice.....Have you been drinking?

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69mindfreak69

Joined: 7/12/2008

I did not read any of that.I went by y'alls SHORTER reply's to find out what it was about.

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just living ma ...

Joined: 7/23/2008

Lolxxx. Eddy Its alright. you still have lost of time to understand lots in life. your still very young to be this depressed.
And i Hop she gives you a chance mate.
xxxx

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gentleforce

Joined: 8/5/2004

Eddy everyone discriminates, its normal, and its a good thing. Discrimination has taken a bad rap in the last twenty five years but what discrimination means is that it is a selection process amongst a field of similar objects, events, or people and and choosing what is best for you. We all do this when we select a house, a car, romantic partner - its called making choices. When other people do it and you are the person that they have not choosen, for whatever reason, it hurts. That's life, this is a lesson you should have learned at around the time of puberty. Time to grow up Eddy.

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anhonestsearch

Joined: 9/14/2008

The max of excitement in posting devil bitch. nice job ripping that guys balls off. Hm guess you've been this lovely since the beginning of forums. What a treat you've been. Using the same stupid expressions. Get you're writer to work on new negative expressions.

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