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mainman36

Joined: 2/27/2007

I am a very nice guy,easy going and hard working but it seem like most women would rather have a thug who will treate them like crap than a gentleman like me.This sucks!!!!!!!!!!!

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lyonchen

Joined: 10/26/2004

Dude... girls are weird!!! as more attention you give them and as better you treat them. the quicker they would run away from you...

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

I can't answer for every woman but as far as this woman is concerned, the better you treat me, the better I will treat you.

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imabadidea

Joined: 12/10/2007

Not all girls are like that. Although I will agree that most women like the idea of a bad boy. But the women who go out and get one are just plain stupid. My friend once told me that you have sex with a bad boy you don't bring him home. If that's the case then most women aren't looking for something serious. As for girls being wierd, I hate to break it to you but men are just as wierd.

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mainman36

Joined: 2/27/2007

I agree with the fact that some men are wiered but I have come to find out that Women now carry the majority of players. The bad boy type will never bring the bread home and yet they tend to choose that. I will be glad if I once and for all find and gal that is for real.Trust me.

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Roruk

Joined: 11/11/2008

women claim they want a nice guy but they really want a guy who is a jerk who they think they can make nice word of advice the guy your really wantin is either married or gay or u already shot him down to many times and hes lost interest in u

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Courtcaution

Joined: 11/10/2008

Reply to: women claim they want a nice guy but they really want a guy who is a jerk who t...
Maybe it's becuase you are what we like to call "A Nice Guy"

There is nothing wrong with being a nice guy, don't get me wrong. But, Nice guys usually become friends. Just being nice wont get you the women.

They want confidence and decisiveness. They want to have fun. You want to be the one that will sweep them off their feet. You don’t have to be an asshole.

Women look for someone that will be able to fill a void in their life. This void consists of someone that will show them new things, be more than just a friend, listen to them, and romance them. You can be nice, again there is nothing wrong with being a nice, sweet guy. But you need to put more on the table if your trying to attract a woman.

I hope i helped.

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Roruk

Joined: 11/11/2008

you just gave he definition of a nice guy and your sayin the jocks are nice guys your confusing me

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mainman36

Joined: 2/27/2007

You helped body......its a good thing to hear from all sides. I am nice does not mean that I will not take a stand against transgressors. What I mean by nice is not: not hitting her, given her attention and love to the maximum and not treating her like trash.I knoa lot of girls that have so call boy friends who will not take a job for nothing, will use their cars,burn their gas ,take money form them and go arroung screwing an other woman. Yet they make up after catching them cheating a hundred times.Thats what I can not comprehend.May be its naievity but I thing a good guy should not do the above mentioned to his Woman.Thanks for the healthy addition.

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Roruk

Joined: 11/11/2008

i wouldn't do that to my woman i have a job i avoid violence i'm an alll around nice guy

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mainman36

Joined: 2/27/2007

Thats the cool thing to do. But to my understanding, most Women do not like that.Again there are some out there that really know what a god man is and what they want. I just wish I could meet that kind on here and once and for all get out of the market LOL.

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JenJenmi79

Joined: 3/27/2007

I wish there was a good guy out there, Most guys say they want a good woman, but they really don't.

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mainman36

Joined: 2/27/2007

You maybe right......but I could say there are more good guys out there than are the chicks. They have taken the PLAYA game to a whole new level.

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A little less t...

Joined: 8/25/2008

THE SAME REASON IT IS HARD TO ENCOUNTER A MALE, TO MANY PEOPLE PERCEIVE THEMSELVES TO BE SOMEONE THEY ARE NOT!!!..TO MANY TALK BULLCHIT IN ORDER TO OBTAIN WHAT THEY WANT .....AND TO MANY FAIL TO LIVE UP TO THE EXPECTATION'S THEY EXPECT FROM ANOTHER IN ALL AREA'S....PEOPLE NEED TO JUST BE TRUTHFUL!!!
HEY I'M JUST SAYING* SMILE*

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Bad_Teddy

Joined: 11/12/2008

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She's right, you know. Ever wanted to date a stripper? But you know you don't want to marry the girl. It's the same phenomena. We, men and women, want it all, the best of both worlds.

The fact is there are tons of very nice women who are dying to date very nice men. Look for them wherever nice people hang out: volunteer events, groups, churches, etc.

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willam

Joined: 7/13/2005

i am just trying to get back in to dating but it is so hard to do you ask and they laguh at you . say im sorry not now is a good time . so you bare it and not try to let it set on your mind.so you can ask the next one and not seam like a "fool"

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pacificprincess

Joined: 1/4/2004

Women like intelligent men, like the brainy nerd type with a bit of muscle. Very rare to find a man who is intelligent, confidant, empathetic, charmning, sincere etc....just as hard as it would be for a man to find plastic silicone on a stick i would imagine.

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Etritonakin

Joined: 9/11/2008

Nice guys tend to be shy... and while they are working up the courage to ask someone they truly care about for a date, the charismatic bad boy who couldn't care one bit for the lady's well-being swoops in.
Also, the definition of "good woman" is relative these days. We old fashioned folks think in terms of commitment marriage and monogamy -but many are just out for fun...
So don't be so shy as to miss an opportunity -and don't freak if you are rejected ...no matter what we might think, not everyone is going to be attracted to us.
Also -don't waste your time with losers or abusers and miss someone who might not be as obvious... nothing wrong with waiting... especially if you really want a good woman.
Finally -don't try to marry them on the first date, but without pressuring them, be sure they want the same sort of things out of a relationship

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loyal805

Joined: 6/15/2004

Unfortunately women [just like men] are heavily influenced by what they see in the media. So as a result they/we set the bar high and attempt to find a mate based on their/our tainted view. The harsh reality is most people are average looking. And, with the popularity of the internet, singles are probably getting even more superficial. Some just look at the pictures and never read the profiles.

Most durable relationships evolve from two people that have a lot in common, [ie: work school etc]. It's a relationship that's based on attractive inner qualities and friendship - not just exterior features.

As couples age the looks fade and if the relationship is based purely on physical attraction, then most likely it won't pass the test of time...

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joeandmanny

Joined: 11/22/2008

Because if you look at all different screen names one person can create its hard to trust anyone, as you can see by our profile we have many screen names. People are looking to find fault with everyone. When you deceive them it will come back to you.

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sweetcarmelitta

Joined: 2/25/2005

Well, i guess the search can´t be that difficult...i am in a relationship with a thoughtful, caring and hardworking guy, and he wasn´t hard to find. In fact, he contacted me..I think the key for all this is getting to know the person and be friends first, instead of jumping to bed or to a relationship with the girl right away...Giving yourself some time to get to know the girl you want to date, will give you the chance of getting to know her, before you get serious with her..That is, of course, if that´s what you want.

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just living ma ...

Joined: 7/23/2008

There are lots of nice girls,just has there are lots of nice guys. But must guys want to go for the Perfect looking girls and thats where they get their heads stuck!You can get to know a girl and at the end of the day you find out shes just pretending to get you or get what she wants from you. So I guess what am sayin is, must girls that are all perfect looking don't always want to stay in one relationship cause they feel they can have any guy they want so why stay around.
xxxx

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