lol you would have to be here for at least as long as I have been to say that. And I am one of the most recent members here and I cant say that.
For me personaly I havent directed the word hate at anyone,and it is not as simple as you would like to think.
There are no wrighten rules here,so when an opinion or a feeling or a way of life is expressed by an individual it can be stompped on really easy,and that can hurt especialy if its real to the person who expressed it,and like any other group you may belong to after an amount of time it becomes harder and harder to walk away.
I for one think it is getting better than it was when I arrived.
It is so easy to see what you see from what you know about us,but it is not as easy to see whats behind all the insults ect,here some one can say just what is on their mind about some one else,and thats something you dont get every day in the real (world)......people can get fired up when shits honest.
You also have to look a lot harder for the great moments,but they are here and plenty of them,as well as the relationships and friend ships,comedy as well its all here.
But youd have to hang around and experiance it yourself.