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JenJenmi79

Joined: 3/27/2007

Does any man want a good woman? I hear it alot. They say I'm a good man, but then they are not. They say they want a sweet woman but then they say I'm to nice. Please tell me why men do this? And where are the good men at?

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babah86

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Men... is hard to reading their mind...

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NYGuy

Joined: 8/21/2008

That's what dating is about, meeting new people. Most of the time it does not work but they are notbad guys because of this.

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A little less t...

Joined: 8/25/2008

BOTH MEN N WOMEN NEED TO DEFINE WHAT THE MEANING OF GOOD MEANS TO THEM!!!!! GOOD MEAN'S MANY WAY'S N MANY THING'S.....MEN ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE'S WHO SAY THEY WANT A GOOD WOMEN, WOMEN SAY THEY WANT A GOOD MAN! SO IF EVERYONE WOULD DEFINE WHAT GOOD MEAN'S TO THEM , IT WOULD SAVE A LOT OF TIME, ENERGY N HURT.... HEYYYYYYYY I'M JUST SAYING * SMILE*

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unfalse

Joined: 6/24/2005

Reply to: BOTH MEN N WOMEN NEED TO DEFINE WHAT THE MEANING OF GOOD MEANS TO THEM!!!!! GO...
i agree, some women like to be treated poorly because even if they have perfect bodies and faces a 10, inside they feel like a 3. So they find a man who is agressive and treats them poorly.

Then you find women who are smart, confident, and genuine, but outside they are 3, and do not take care of their bodies. So they stay confused as to why men are not attracted to them, because deep down inside those men want a sexually attractive woman.

Perhaps you are looking for the wrong men, if you are a not super hot, don't go for jerks, go for sweet guys even if they don't make u horny right off the bat.

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The Chino

Joined: 8/26/2005

Personally, through my experiences, I have found that women who say they want a good man, and then overlook one are the ones who are full of themselves and should go back to re-evaluate their priorities. But that's just seeing things through my eyes as I'm sure many will have differing opinions.

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jstacntrysinger

Joined: 5/22/2008

Good man/Good woman pretty simple to explain.. Both want the same thing.. Respect honesty trust and faithfullness thats my outlook on it!

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murphyr7

Joined: 11/19/2008

It's very easy, guys get with women hoping they never change and women get with men hoping to change them.

Ladies if you find a man you like leave him be and don't try to change him, also don't change once you get together with him!

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nice_guy_4_u

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IT IS NOT HARD TO FIND A GOOD WOMAN IT IS HARD TO KEEP A GOOD WOMAN THAT'S WHAT I THINK CAUSE WHEN YOU DO FIND HER AN YOU ARE DOING WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO 4 HER AND YOU AND THE RELATIONSHIP BOTH PEOPLE MUST COME TOGETHER TO MAKE IT WORK NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENDS BETWEEN YALL THAT'S YALL MUST NOT LET FIGHTS AN BICKERING GET IN THE WAY OF TRUE LOVE AN HAPPYNESS ONLY THEN WILL THE BOND CAN NOT BE BROKEN

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Bad_Teddy

Joined: 11/12/2008

I think the equivalent of this is women saying they want a nice guy, but then turn around and fall for the bad boy. lol

And for the record, we keep the good men in the back and only bring them out for the 100th customer. Which means you have to keep coming back until you get lucky (so to speak).

You might be too nice, but honestly, if that's your worst flaw, then you've got nothing to worry about. You might try dating outside your normal likes and dislikes, even someone you're not initially attracted to. Stranger things have happened. Sometimes someone who doesn't seem attractive at first, ends up being incredibly attractive after a nice dinner (assuming you're not downing bottles of wine).

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max2992877

Joined: 7/25/2008

I think every man "wants" a good woman, but a lot of men cant live up to a good woman's wants...and on the other hand, is a "good" man what alot of women want?? if so, why do most of the "good girls" go for the "bad boys" and then end up w/ broken hearts?? go figure huh??

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dfury90

Joined: 11/11/2008

Sure I want a good woman, but most of the good girls I talk to cant ever lighten up and have fun.Sometimes girls are just too good,it would be nice to find a happy medium.

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Etritonakin

Joined: 9/11/2008

I just saw all the good men being led down to the riverbank.. they were all thrown into the river ....being too naive to understand their fate... sorry -but pigs and dweebs are all that are left... slim pickin's, but whatcha gonna do?????
Food, shelter and companionship are the basic necessities, but then it gets complicated... rather.. then we make it complicated... or as Wordswoth said...
The world is too much with us; late and soon,
Getting and spending, we lay waste our powers;
Little we see in Nature that is ours;
We have given our hearts away, a sordid boon!
This Sea that bares her bosom to the moon,
The winds that will be howling at all hours,
And are up-gathered now like sleeping flowers,
For this, for everything, we are out of tune..............

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!!! COSMO !!!

Joined: 11/6/2008

Hi there!

Good man here!! Where are all of the good ladies at?

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chickinmclovin

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hEAR HEAR

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Like A Loser

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Reply to: hEAR HEAR
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nice_guy_4_u

Joined: 9/11/2008

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thats not true i had a good woman an was blind an lost her they r out there you just have to opean your eyes

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freakyf20

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listen i been lookin for the rite girl but everytime i turn around i get cheated on the female say they gonna do me rite but dont i would say its me but i cant cuz its not but there r good man out in this world an good females its jus we gotta find them ima good man but i dont get credit

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bobby2259

Joined: 5/12/2006

Hey Jenny. We exist but not in the way you think. We are the guys you walk by and 30 seconds later forget. We are the ones that you catch looking at you and then sheepishly look away when you look our way. We are the the ones who want nothing more than to love and be loved for who we are not what we look like or can impress you with. My father once told me 2 things. Sometimes you cant see the teeth behind the smile and learn how to spot BS from a blimp through a fogstorm. If you think about it the one thing you seek is right in front of you,you just never see it. Hope this helps.

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