"True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly." Jason Jordan

Words say that yes, but who's not perfect image?

Telling someone that you love them is one of the most beautiful things that you can ever do in life, but is also a promise that we must always honor. When we tell someone that we love them we are tellin them that we are willin to be loyal to them an we are tellin them that we are willin to make them feel as special as they are, an that we are willin to protect them as best as possible an make sure that they play a significant part in our lives

"Faith goes up the stairs that love has built and looks out the window which hope has opened." - Charles Spurgeon

"True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly."  Jason Jordan

"Faith goes up the stairs that love has built and looks out the window which hope has opened."  - Charles Spurgeon

AMEN Jim!! I love these quotes. They are SO true! I have found my imperfect partner....my husband. It just took a year apart for him to get a few things out of his system. Now that he is ready to be a faithful husband.....I'm ready to start over. Thats exactly what we are doing. If it werent for the forums and the awesome people here, I would have deleted my account. Deleted my accounts on the other dating sites, but just cant seem to do that here. I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!!

And please believe that the feeling is mutual. Don't hesitate to post from time to time cause, as you very well know, nothing is perfectly perfect. Ha Ha.

to b honest. idk what true love is. it's like women overlooking me. i wish i know

same here

True Love = lowering the toilet seat when you're done emptying your bladder especially if the single lightbulb is burned out in the pay by the hour motel you spent her best 59 minutes in.

Absolutely right on!

TRUE LOVE IS SOMEONE WHO REALLY CARES

TRUE LOVE is someone who listen to you and knows when to talk, who there for you; your best friend and lover.

Everyone on this topic has said something very good and real, too. I wonder why so many posts have been graded minus? Huh.

True love is an emotion and not a demonstrated fact. For example, touching is a fact but without the right emotion, it can be just pawing, something guys do way too much of. So, the "trick" is to have the emotion, and I have never discovered how to manifest that. It happens when it happens.

I say "True Love" is a bunch of BS.... It doesnt exist!

Jim,
It's not the message but the messanger that is voted down. I have learned to give up looking at those things when I realized that everysingle time I posted something regardless if it was good, bad or indifferent, someone would instantly mark me down...and anyone who supported what I was saying.

It's child's play...I have given up trying to figure out why people do the shit they do!

Apparently it doesn't take much to make them feel. Lol!

I say "True Love" is a bunch of BS.... It doesnt exist!

and does that mean that you believe that there is no True Love in *your* present relationship? I hope that is not so.

Well, does lying and cheating count? Texting women he has had affairs with. I am just glad that I kept my apartment. I'm ready to go "Home". Jut have to figure out what is wrong with my truck before I strike off. He owes me that much.
SO I guess to answer your question Jim...No, there is no rue Love in "My" present relationship. And I will NEVER trust again! I cant take much more of it without coming unglued on his A$$!

Forgive me - I thought sure I had read a message from you posted within 2 weeks ago saying all is forgiven and everything is working out. Believe me, I would never have made a comment if I had known he has not changed at all. Your current report does prove that enough has proven to be enough - and you are ready for a new and better life. Sure, get your truck running dependably if at all possible and keep your legs crossed for awhile, as long as you wish, in fact. :-) Any guy that has to have it now can get it somewhere else. Best wishes - "When in doubt, don't."

Thank you Jim.....XOXOXO
I really dont think he will ever change. I am wasting my time. I still love him and dont wanna live without him but I refuse to live with such dishonesty anymore.

Thank you Jim.....XOXOXOI really dont think he will ever change. I am wasting my time. I still love him and dont wanna live without him but I refuse to live with such dishonesty anymore.

You have graduated - with a grade of A+. Congratulations. He is now someone else's responsibility. Always remember that there are those who are not as smart as you, so he will find another female to use and abuse. You are not the last one by any means. Love IS eternal but it does not need to operate like a prison sentence. Use your new freedom wisely - you have earned it. :-)

Jim, I will celebrate once I am back in my apartment and my truck is running RIGHT! I live on less than $700.00 a month SSI and cannot afford to continue to maintain it. I am thinking of of ALL my options before making a move. As always, thank you. You are awesome in my book, Jim!

It is almost a miracle that you can live on what you receive from SSI. Amazing! Being safe and in control -- in your own apartment -- is critical, as you know. Trying to stay mentally healthy while under constant torment never works. Above all, you need and deserve peace of mind. Changes will come to you but do not fear them cause they are not all bad. Your compliment touches me deeply. (blush) Let us know how you are doing.

says the big know it all.

Please be nice to this "Know it all" He happens to be a very dear person to me. Thank you.
Jim......Thank you very much. I am not in my apt yet. I will be up there soon to check on it and pay my rent and bills. I always do that in person as the manager and I get along well. Even the prior managers. I just seem to get along with everyone. It really means that I eat a lot of SH!T from a lot of people as to lessen the drama. I am learning that I dont HAVE to take anyones anything anymore! I did it on my own, as my apartment rent is based on my SSI. If it werent for that, I wouldnt be able to do it on my own. But where there is a will there is a way and I CAN DO IT! I know I can. It is nice to have some sweet KNOW IT ALLS that have concerns for me and always has the best advice! Bless you Jim! :)