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holmes56

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

now that is some deep thoughts

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m1nn1e

Joined: 10/10/2012

funny cuz guys on here dont wanna talk abt anything but sex i dont mean the ones on the forums but anyways girls love 2 have real conversations i think even if their only looking 4 casual but mabye im wrong ive never been just looking 4 sex so this made me laugh i think this guy is saying a lot w/out meaning 2 if they could make sex dolls and free porn act like they worship a guys dicks most of them wouldnt ever talk 2 real girls its like conversation is an annoying thing u might have 2 do if u really want her 2 want u 2 do her

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Davey4321

Joined: 6/6/2013

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RE: funny cuz guys on here dont wanna talk abt anything but sex i dont mean the ones on the forums but anyways girls love 2 have real conversations i think even if their only looking 4 casual but mabye im wrong ive never been just looking 4 sex so this made me laugh i think this guy is saying a lot w/out meaning 2 if they could make sex dolls and free porn act like they worship a guys dicks most of them wouldnt ever talk 2 real girls its like conversation is an annoying thing u might have 2 do if u really want her 2 want u 2 do her
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< br>It's not that conversation is annoying or that guys dislike it. Perhaps an analogy will help explain what happens. This is a bit long but please bear with me. :)

Let's say you plan a dinner date. He picks you up at 5 pm and dinner reservations are at 7pm. He plans to stop at a sports memorabilia shop on the way. He starts talking sports and tells you all about the game he and his buddies played that morning. You listen for a while but it starts to get boring but he continues and continues. You try to switch the conversation to the restaurant and it goes something like this.

You: "Have you been there before?"
Boyfriend: "Yes."
You: "What did you order last time?"
Boyfriend: "Steak"
You: "Was it good?"
Boyfriend: "Yea"
You: "How do you like it done?"
Boyfriend: "Rare"

Trying as hard as you can you realize the conversation is going nowhere with his one word answers and he's trying to figure out your obsession with the restaurant. LOL

So, you drop the conversation and go along with the sports talk. You really like the guy and you figure he's all excited because he played a game that day so you want to keep it light and friendly. It's no big deal. Once you get to the restaurant you can change the conversation to things more to your liking.

As you're driving along you pass the local bar where his friends hang out.

"Hey! There's Bill's truck", your boyfriend exclaims. "And John's car! Pete's there, too. See his sport's coup?"

"Hey, let's stop and have a drink with the guys before we go for dinner. I'll go to the sports shop tomorrow, OK", he asks as he turns to you while slowing down the car.

You don't really like the idea as you wanted to spend all the time with just him but, again, you go along. You see it as either spend half an hour at the sports shop or have a drink at the bar. Neither one is a great time for you so if one makes your boyfriend more happy, why not?

Well, you know what transpires. The drinks come. His friends order a plate of wings. You and your boyfriend are hungry as you planned to have a full dinner and you probably didn't eat a big lunch so snacking on a wing or two isn't going to hurt. The guys are laughing and having a great time. Your boyfriend feels good because he is the only guy with a gal and all the guys are taking notice of you and making conversation and......well, dinner doesn't happen.

If you and your boyfriend were in the middle of a conversation about the food, if you had managed to change his focus from sports to the restaurant, chances are he wouldn't have been quite as drawn to the bar and his friends.

The same principal applies to sex. Unless a guy can get a gal to talk about sex she's going to be thinking about whatever else she's talking about so she's not going to be/get in the mood. It's a funny thing. Two people can be walking in the park or watching TV and one can say, "Hey, you hungry? Want to get something to eat?" And it's quite acceptable. On the other hand if walking in the park and one says, "Hey, feel like sex? Want to go to my place and get it on?" it's not usually received all that well because there was no lead-up to it.

Anyway, that's one thing this old man learned in his life. :) If there's no conversation about sex, if there's not lead-up to it, it usually doesn't "just happen". Hope that helps explain why guys want to talk about it.

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eyesopen

Joined: 3/7/2013

Reply to: RE: funny cuz guys on here dont wanna talk abt anything but sex i dont mean the...
hmmmm it still doesn't make sense ...this is what i get ...your real pretty ...don't look your age ....or cutie you want to go skype or private...sure like to talk to you alone ...now why is that... if its just chat ...here is fine ?? but nooo they want private....hmmm get to know me first and then see what happens ....

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m1nn1e

Joined: 10/10/2012

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i dont get how ur analagy has much 2 do with what i was saying id rather the guys who msg me on here talk abt sports then jumping right into asking 2 see naked pics and if i can cam i wasnt talking abt real dating and talking abt sex when u have a relationship with some1 is different then just meeting them saying hi and whats ur name and dropping ur pants all of a sudden which is what it feels like when i start talking 2 most all guys on here they dont want 2 know me as a person they want 2 have the online version of sex without even the formalty of the online version of a 1st date besides i get in the mood when i get 2 know a guy and have chemhistry bcuz he listens 2 me and cares abt what i want instead of playing games so ill get in the mood and if its a bf then sure some romantic bedroomy talk is nice but not from a stranger unless all i want is 2 get laid and then it doesnt matter what he says it only matters if i think hell be good at it duh and if i wanted 2 go 2 dinner and i didnt want 2 hang at the bar anymore id say its time 2 go 2 dinner now or take me home please or id call my friend 2 meet me and id explain later on this night i wanted 2 spend time with him and was trying 2b spontanous and caring but i still want dinner i dont get this not saying what is on ur mind and why would i care if he thinks im obsessed with the restaraunt anyways

so mabye guys do think they should talk abt sex with girls who r looking 2 connect not just have sex but i guess thats what i mean guys on here dont want 2 connect its easier 2 meet guys in real life that do and y do girls seem 2 want 2 learn abt guys but u guys dont ask questions or listen or learn abt girls u just want 2 xplain some more and xpect us 2 accomadate u

and i get pissed when guys come at me like im supposed 2 like them 2 talk 2 me like im paid internet porn and i dont have 2b nice abt it i mean if guys dicks r so fragile then mabye they shouldnt be sticking them out there 4 me 2 burn not that i try 2 hurt ppl at all but im not gonna be all sorry sweety its so awesome that u want 2 see me naked cuz ur so hot but im a nun no im gonna say im a nice girl i dont know u and ur acting gross leave me alone

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eyesopen

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M1nn1e ...i agree with you 100%....can't add or take away anything you covered it all ...thanks

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m1nn1e

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Reply to: M1nn1e ...i agree with you 100%....can't add or take away anything you covered ...
oh thats very sweet secretgarden thank u 4 saying so i know i type really bad im glad u could read it XD

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Davey4321

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imkevin21

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