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searchin4theone

Joined: 12/11/2008

I will say this..............I had my child when I was 18, everything changed, my goals and wants got put on hold... not to say that I regret my child cause I don't, she fills my days with happines,sadness,and oh yeah frustrations lol.
You should accomplish those dreams you have first then have a child.

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mzztatt

Joined: 1/30/2007

people are all different as to when they are 'ready' to have children. I say ..make your own decision just be prepared to truly deal with it the right way when it happens. :D

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anonymous1

Joined: 8/15/2008








Crystal: "God only knows I want depend on a man for shit."



I'm guessing you meant won't, and not want; if so...



How do you plan on getting pregnant?



I think a child should be the product of love; between a man, and woman.

I think that's what's best for the child.




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Taylor!!

Joined: 8/9/2009

Reply to: Crystal: "God only knows I want depend on a man for shit." I'm guessi...
You are to young for children... live your life to the complete fullest!

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anonymous1

Joined: 8/15/2008

Reply to: You are to young for children... live your life to the complete fullest!



I agree.


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mzztatt

Joined: 1/30/2007

Reply to: You are to young for children... live your life to the complete fullest!
for some people having children does complete their lives :)

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Nunnyah

Joined: 3/16/2009

WEll,
You certainly have the freedom of choice... However; have you ever considered the biblical side of child rearing? My thoughts are simple young lady, it takes two adults to raise a healthy child. There is no particular gender which nutures a child better, however; having both male and female raising the child is better than going solo. Every child needs a mother and a father... That being said there are so many people out here ready to jump into the sack, have sex, and live for themselves without giving any thought about what is truely morally right for the circumstances they consciously put themselves into. Go ahead have a child with or without a man in their lives. The odds are against you if you choose to raise a alone!

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goingloco28

Joined: 8/21/2009

Reply to: WEll, You certainly have the freedom of choice... However; have you ever consi...
agree and disagree....my sister has a boy and a girl by 2 diff people and she is raising them by her self but your right the odds are stacked against you cuz ive seen how hard it is to raise 1 let alone 2 kids crystal20 you better be sure of the person your with because if you piss him off and he leaves your pregnant ass you will be screwed and you young life will be put on hold for the next 18 or more years,just a little addvice...

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lovingbimom

Joined: 1/9/2010

Don't do it wait!!
I have three they are 5,4 and 3 months and let me tell you they are a full time job, and you don't always get what you want. I wanted a girl so bad well I had two boys before the girl and boys are awesome and so are girls. A little girl will be bows and dresses until they figure out they don't have to be prissy.
My GF is raising her two girls alone and she never has time for anyone, she has a full time job,two kids and dating me.

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drimeng

Joined: 12/27/2008

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Sindee79

Joined: 11/7/2007

I became a mother at 23 and it was the best choice i ever had.
But, i couldn't say i did all i wanted to do before i gave birth to my child.
I mean, i still have several things i want to do as a WOMAN.
Is your life is stable enough to welcome a child in your life?
What if it's a boy? lol
And what about the father?
yea i managed to have my child without the father around and i did try to compensate. Trust me i can feel he misses this father figure.
After the baby is born the becomes the and you... way after.

be rational about it
make a list of `aye` and `nay` ;)

Best of luck



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Kajunqueen

Joined: 11/29/2008

Reply to: I became a mother at 23 and it was the best choice i ever had. But, i couldn't ...
That was a good post...

Being STABLE first is very important.

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Sindee79

Joined: 11/7/2007

weird.. some of my words are missing...ah well

After the baby is born the becomes the and you... way after.
should have been:
After my baby got born the ( me, myself and I) becomes( you, him and himself)
are ready for what was your priorities to be second even third place for the needs of your child?



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Ready for Jesus

Joined: 7/8/2009

“Thank you, Father, for Your wisdom, revelation, and understanding upon us as parents to lead and direct our kids into your paths of righteousness that they might dwell in the secret place of the Most High. Because my children has made You their refuge and their dwelling place, there shall no evil befall them, for You give Your angels charge over my kids to accompany and defend in all their ways. (Ps. 91:1,9-11)
Thank you, Father, that my children do not love or cherish the world or the things that are in the world, but that they will be eager to do Your will and carry out Your purpose in their life. My children will keep in their heart what they have heard from the first, and that my children will dwell in the Son and in You, Father. (I Jn. 2:15, 17, 24) Thank you, Father, that my children abides in You, rooted in You, knit to You, and that my children abide in Christ so that when He is made visible, will not shrink from Him at His coming. (I Jn 2:28) Then God’s peace will be theirs, that tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ, so will fear nothing from God, and be content with their earthly lot, that peace which transcends all understanding, shall garrison and mount guard over their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. (Phil 4:7) In Jesus Name, Amen”

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