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River43, I'm over 45, too, but I'd never even heard of this site when I was married. BUT, that was me, and you are you. Having said that, I honestly find NOTHING WRONG with what you are doing, as you have stated it. And, it would be none of my damned business even if you were lying! That's your row to hoe. Besides, the ladies in the forums have heard it all and most seem pretty sharp at detecting bs and issuing beatdowns for trying to bs them. Glad you came clean.
This really is a great conversation and social outlet, as far as THE FORUMS are concerned. And you CAN meet people if and when you choose. That's between you and whom you've placed your faith , your conscious, or your 'nads. A lot of this is nothing more than the same kinds of conversations people used to have FACE to FACE..or so I'm told. Imagine that one...people talking to each other!... :-)
Ya know, I probably could have used such a resource
as this one before I became single again. I had a ton on my mind and very few outlets. Just sayin'... :-) But good luck to ya, pal!!!