Are we harboring any depressed or angry thoughts or grudges?
This shows when you're dealing with people.-(even if you think you're covering it up.
Three things an accident victim should address to free up their interactions with people:
1): As much as you may feel it's justified,........
Do NOT be angry, or hold any grudges against your 'higher power'-[whichever that is]
'He' had nothing to do with the accident.
2): Women are priceless, precious wonders.
Don't blame women if you feel you're being passed over.
It's a long story, but if you blame women or if you see any type of grudges hiding within you, that will affect what women see when meeting you.
3): whenever talking with, or typing to women, check your demeanor.....are you expressing a downer type message?
4): Try a non-seeking approach
--(assuming that you're seeking women with simular interests)--
When you see an interesting woman, engage in a topic that's unrelated to dating.
keep this up for the first few conversations, then maybe your both ready for the dating 'game' stage.
5): If the lady backs out --(dumps you)-- don't wallow too long in your misfortune, get it over with as quick as you can, then refer back to # 2.