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tigereyes13

Joined: 10/16/2005

I have another one n my profile but every one likes this one

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Posted 7 years ago
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Newlylooking

Joined: 10/20/2010

Hi! I'm 60 yr old male, happy in marrage. I have seen my wife grow a bit depressed at the fact that men tend to age better then women. It bothers her and me that women ages 30 though to 60 tend to hit on me. I see it as just being freindly although some are very bold and others are very nice, I think they are looking for freindship and see me as being stable and find my devotion to my wife as something they would like for themselfves. I have always been easy to talk to and outward and my wife has warned me that women take this as if I am making myself available. When I ask women ages 30-35 whats on their minds, Im told they just fine me unique and a challenge or sorts. The more they get to know me the harder they hit, until final I pretty damn near have to hose them off. I am stable, finances sound, in shape, outgoing and not looking for anything more then a hello and how are you doing today. The problem as I am told is when women i know have a bad day or things they see bad going on in their life, I talk to them about it and try to lend support and understanding. This is where it starts! my wife tells me they take this as a come on...I don't.
My wife tells me all of this type of contact should be spent in her direction. I think it's unfair to keep me locked up because she is jealous. I understand she wants to protect her interests but she knows full well she is secure in our relationship i tell my wife she might want to boast to these ladies if she wants but she says that will only bring on more problems. Anyway, I guess yes women tend to have more issues develop and they age, and so do men. Women are very special and if a man thinks he totally understands their needs and wants..he is sooo wrong. Each is differnet and the rules change minute by minute. Maybe because there are less men as we age women should start to get used to sharing what stockis out there. Although it has been said. If you took 100 men and put them on an island with one woman after a year there would be one man and one women left - However if you took 100 women and one man on an island for a year, at the end of the year, there would be 100 women left...
no men...!

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Posted 6 years ago
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Crystal!

Joined: 10/7/2009

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Remember, your wife comes first, before any other woman. Just saying!

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purpleruby10

Joined: 10/27/2010

Reply to: Hi! I'm 60 yr old male, happy in marrage. I have seen my wife grow a bit depres...
Because its a mans world. And by the way, thanks for feeding all the third world male children, who have no respect for women.
Women arent worth as much as men
just like its always been
Like this is a news flash

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Posted 6 years ago
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purpleruby10

Joined: 10/27/2010

Reply to: chauvanistic ass!
No not chauvanistic. Sounds more like he is jealous, he wants to be gay, and paint his nails, like the "bi**hes he is complaining about.
Sick world like my dad said.
Men working in wedding shops, and female easier labor jobs made for women, and expecting women to be soldiers and construction workers which we are not build for.

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friendofyours

Joined: 2/15/2005

That's right girls, but we HAVE learned to be strong. We have learned how to do the jobs men used to do. We have had no choice and it has made us stronger. We do not have to depend on anyone any more. People wanted equal rights, and by that they meant, we deserve the same wages. It didn't mean we had suddenly grown huge biceps and turned into men over night. It didn't mean men suddenly had to stop using manners and start slamming doors in our faces. But sadly, I'm afraid to most men, this is what they thought it meant, so now we are doing what men used to do. We are doing it well. A huge pat on the back to all you ladies out there who were forced to stop being feminine. Now you're having to climb ladders, and clear drains and lift heavy wardrobes, and fix the car, you can't be that beautiful feminine lady all the time you used to be. But when you do get the time, paint the town red, put on that dress and celebrate your achievements. I bet you even know how to tune the telly in now. AND YOU TAUGHT YOURSELVES. I am proud to be a woman. AND can still look feminine if the mood takes me. There are still some wonderful guys out there who do respect women. They are few and far between but they do exist, and I have faith that one day our paths will cross with one and we will feel proud to have someone to share lifes ups and downs with like they did in the old days. Until that day, soldier on girls and keep your chins up.

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gamaforce

Joined: 10/10/2009

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You fuckin nut case! I would like to see you do half....just half of what I do. Do it as well as I do it, in the same time I get in done in. You are the kind of gal whom has a twisted image of the world around her. But go ahead and beat you chest. I crown you Tawanda!

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friendofyours

Joined: 2/15/2005

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gamaforce

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I think three Xs will do. Nice shape!

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WestTexPlayboy

Joined: 1/17/2011

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Patygirl

Joined: 1/28/2011

I suppose it can be true women do get sadder at 48 49..I think I'm sadder. But I think the sadness has nothing to do with anything other then the grieving of our former self. It is a normal process and nothing to be ashamed of.. but once they realize that it is a part of life and move on, I am certain most ladies find them self more accepting of who they are and more beautiful. The competition with other women or our selfs are over. And we don't have to look like pretty young things, we are beautiful seasoned woman.

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amy63

Joined: 2/5/2011

I don't feel sadder or depressed at my umm...advanced age of 48. I still have a teenager I am raising but after he goes on his way I will be on my own again. I married at 19 and stayed married for 20 years so I really wasn't ever on my own before. It doesn't worry me though...I feel excited about starting a new chapter in my life. I enjoyed the first half...on the main.. I think I am a bit wiser..fingers crossed. I never was one of the majority though. Ms. hardhead and proud of it.

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green_eyed_lady

Joined: 8/11/2011

Reply to: Hi! I'm 60 yr old male, happy in marrage. I have seen my wife grow a bit depres...
I think that I could go on for a page and a half, but I will keep it as short and as sweet as possible.

You say you are devoted to your wife, and that you are stable.

If you were, you would not make your wife feel belittled and insecure (what you call jealousy).

She knows women and how they think, and mister newlylookin (says it all right here), she has them pegged spot on.

Your attention should be spent on your wife, not other women. It's called infidelity and it isn't always physical.

You are her white knight, and if women are hitting on you, regardless of their age, it's because you are giving off signals telling them that you are receptive to their overtures.

You have a very wise and honest woman, someone rare, these days, and she seems to be trying to communicate a very important message to which you seem oblivious.

I'm surprised that she is still with you, you are so disrespectful of and to her, and of women in general, I might add.

I'd like to see how you would feel and react if the tables were turned and she was the one seeking and getting attention, support, and understanding from another man?

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Posted 6 years ago
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Brooke900

Joined: 5/10/2012

you know imkevin21 you are right...
this is really sad because it's true.
sometimes i think life is really unfair to the women



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Posted 5 years ago
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