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mast2008

Joined: 5/5/2008

Reply to: I am single, mother of a ten year old daughter. She hasnt seen her father in ov...
Well aren't YOU a fucking saint. If you bothered to keep you FUCKING legs closed you would not have some brat kid to look after. Fucking double standard females, bitch and whine about the man AFTER you have a fucking kid, which you more than likely roped him into for some sick ass female maternal need to have a brat fucking kid. You SHOULD work 40 + hours a week and pull your fucking weight. Besides, I doubt you really "work" as you have MEN there doing the brunt of it, while you paint your fucking nails. Stupid fucking cunts.

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friendofyours

Joined: 2/15/2005

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says the clown

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mast2008

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Fuck you whore

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SuzEQ

Joined: 6/29/2009

Hi everyone

I came across this forum when searching for something else. I just joined in order to reply to this post since I felt strongly about it.

First of all, its not good to generalize about anyone. I don't agree that women over the age of whatever are less happy. I've read that women are more prone to depression. I know that women are more sensitive and I've also read that depression is more prevalent as we get older. But that doesnt apply to the majority. I think many of you posted to the contrary in saying that you are happy just as you are at your age. Happiness is personal and is from within. So if anyone is unhappy it will never be changed by a person. It must come from within.

I don't go by stereotypes. I don't believe in general women over any age are less happier etc. The best thing we can do is throw out 'age'. I am going to sound real cliche now when I say that age is just a number. But it really is. In a world where people are living longer and restrictions are less, there is no reason for anyone to limit themselves. Personally I am 42 but still feel young. I dare say most people think I'm at the most 35. But I also have a 'young attitude'. I think the thing that ages folks the most is because at some point, they just give up and consider themselves old. Then, guess what they appear old.

I myself am a late bloomer. I have never been married and I don't consider it a fault but to be honest, I didn't even come close to having my head screwed on in my 20s and in my 30s I was still looking for me. The best part of being older is knowing yourself. Now I can tell very soon when it would not work out between me and someone I date. Now, I am sure of who I am. Now I am not looking for someone to complete me, but rather someone to compliment me. Now I realize the true value of a relationship and know its a lot of work but the rewards are worth it.

I also want to say some more and I may be referring to what I've read in other forums but here goes.. First of all, sure there are a lot of older guys who want a much younger woman but you know, even in my 20s and 30s because of who I am Id never be attracted to that kind of person nor would they have found me attractive. I think true, deep attraction comes from within not on the outside. Someone like that never would have been attracted to me even years ago. Same goes for women. I do not like the title 'cougar' as its suggest a predatory animal and pretty much refers to sexuality etc. People are people and they are attracted to who they are attracted to and hopefully that is more deep and meaningful than just sex. Whether a person is 28 or 55 doesn't matter and it doesnt matter whether the older person is the male or female. But I guess I am just tired of the stereotypes and labels people have that someone should date someone a certain age.

To end this I will say.. Not all women over a certain age are depressed. Not all women over a certain age are less attractive. Not all men are just looking for younger women and not all women are looking for a quick lay in younger men.

To sum it up what I am trying to say is the best thing we can do is not to have any labels or stereotypes in the dating world.

Good luck to you all
Suzy

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pdbabe

Joined: 12/12/2008

Reply to: Well aren't YOU a fucking saint. If you bothered to keep you FUCKING legs close...
You SHOULD work 40 + hours a week and pull your fucking weight. Besides, I doubt you really "work" as you have MEN there doing the brunt of it, while you paint your fucking nails. Stupid fucking cunts.

I have been reading and writing from the time I was a three year old..swimming out to the raft in the middle of the lake(granted small lake) at the same age without flotation devices... one of the first female iron-workers south of the Mason-Dixon line post war..and the only woman in the world to operate a Juntann Pilemaster pile driving rig.. and I do this because I enjoy it ..work 60 - 80 or more hours a week and still come home and cook dinner with no processed food.. Had a great crew working for me of 9-11 men and I earned their respect.. I have worked with over 8,000 men in the last 20 years and earned their respect. I own my business and work beside my men now..

And I have found that....

people who use foul language are the ones who either lack the knowledge to say something intelligently and get their point across... or they lack patience and I would say that you are the former and not the latter..
..and further more slipping into the latter category myself here..

You are just one of those guys who needs to SLIP, TRIP, FALL THROUGH THEIR ASSHOLES AND BREAK THEIR MISERABLE NECKS to the medley of eight words sung in harmony "And the world would be a better place"

you are going to die a lonely old man too bad sooooooo sad.



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Grannygear

Joined: 10/5/2009

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I'm happy and I agree with you 100%.

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gamaforce

Joined: 10/10/2009

Imkevin, you are deffinately on to something there, but I do not know if you have hit any kind of a target or if the article was researched enough to have hit anything. Your analysis of the article was good!

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soma

Joined: 3/2/2009

It's mainly because of kids. Men don't mind their kids growing up. Women mourn their kids childhood. I feel it all comes down to that.

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gamaforce

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Why is it you opinion that a woman mourns a childs childhood?

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smittens

Joined: 3/11/2007

Geez Louise , Heres a word INDIVIDUALISM , why do we have to generalize all the time. it s like men have it better no women have it better,,Wake Up America some men have it better some women have it better . I have been mommy and daddy for years and trust me men don't have it all that great either. I have stolen jobs from men so i know the opportunity is there for women. So stop it. Agian INDIVIDUALISM. we all experience life differently. move on to issues that will help all of us as individual. there are some sharp minds out there do something with that intelligence.

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toomuch4u120

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you first

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clarad

Joined: 1/24/2008

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You go girl! I'm a single mother of 2 boys, and we do just fine. We don't need no stinkin men with all their bs and drama, and they have the nerve to say women are all drama. Thing is we grew up, men never do.

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clarad

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chauvanistic ass!

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Ready for Jesus

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Sing unto the Lord a new song,

Sing to the Lord all the earth.

Sing to the Lord, praise his holy name,

Proclaim his salvation, day after day.

Declare his glory, among the nations,

His marvelous deeds, among all people.

GREAT IS THE LORD, AND GREATLY TO BE PRAISED.

HE IS TO BE FEARED ABOVE EVERYTHING ELSE IN YOUR LIFE.

ALL THE GODS OF THIS NATION ARE IDOLS, BUT THE LORD MADE

THE HEAVENS. SPLENDOR AND MAJESTY ARE BEFORE HIM AND

STRENGTH AND GLORY ARE HIS SANCTUARY.

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Ready for Jesus

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Romans 8
Life Through the Spirit
1Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,[a] 2because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death. 3For what the law was powerless to do in that it was weakened by the sinful nature,[b] God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful man to be a sin offering.[c] And so he condemned sin in sinful man,[d] 4in order that the righteous requirements of the law might be fully met in us, who do not live according to the sinful nature but according to the Spirit.
5Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. 6The mind of sinful man[e] is death, but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace; 7the sinful mind[f] is hostile to God. It does not submit to God's law, nor can it do so. 8Those controlled by the sinful nature cannot please God.

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stargreen

Joined: 2/23/2005

I can only speak for myself and I am happier now at 56 than I was in my 20s. I don't want to look like "a pretty young thing" because I am happy with the way I am now. I don't have any problem getting men, older or younger. So ... I am just me and not in competition with anyone

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stargreen

Joined: 2/23/2005

Reply to: I am single, mother of a ten year old daughter. She hasnt seen her father in ov...
The good thing about not getting any financial support from a guy is that you don't have to take any of there crap. I am sure that in the long run, both you and your daughter will be much happier. I raised my kids on my own, and both turned out very well -- while their father died a lonely old man who no one liked or cared about.

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ItalianWoman

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Does mast2008 have some problems with women, BTW???
Good luck

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gamaforce

Joined: 10/10/2009

Reply to: Does mast2008 have some problems with women, BTW??? Good luck
Hell no cupcake. Chicks really dig the man. Hes got women lined up around the corner....with gobs of cash in hand.

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tigereyes13

Joined: 10/16/2005

I think Mast2008 is a whiny piece of shit who thinks women are whores
Well you watch out douche bag because I will castrate your sorry ass

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gamaforce

Joined: 10/10/2009

Reply to: I think Mast2008 is a whiny piece of shit who thinks women are whores Well you...
Maybe...if you can figure out which end of a knife to use.

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tigereyes13

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very funny Gama at least we can talk

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gamaforce

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^^^^^^^^^^Dumb as a box of rocks^^^^^^^^^^^^

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tigereyes13

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what ???

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gamaforce

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Reply to: what ???
Didnt I tell you to change your picture?

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