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Phoenix313

Joined: 3/18/2004

I would just like to say I personally have no problem dating a more seasoned woman that knows who she is and what she wants with no games and even when there may be a slight bit of conflict at times as with all people a much more mature woman is easier to sit down a work out whatever situation is causing problems. I have 2 good ears and I love to listen and be very attentive to a womans needs as well as her wants. I appreciate all the sexi mature ladies who are still livin life and feelin good about it. And if you ever need to talk C L will be there to the best of his abilities. I pray all have a safe and happy holiday. Peace.

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Posted 9 years ago
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LiveToLove

Joined: 1/12/2009

If you're gonna just hang out or be friends, or even hook up short term then why should age make a difference? The young can learn quite a bit from older friends, older aquaintances, older lovers. The older person can, in the same light, learn quite a bit from younger friends, aquaintances, lovers.

It's all about being human and experiencing as much life as possible in the short time we have on the planet, safely and responsibly, of course. I think we had a really good handle on it in the 60's and 70's ... make love not war.

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Posted 8 years ago
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tweety5612

Joined: 1/27/2009

personally i dont find anything wrong with it

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Posted 8 years ago
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niceman91212

Joined: 12/14/2008

if youg men contact u that not bad , because sometime yonger better than older , how ?? they can be more matter than older and honest seriuos they have nothing to become afraid for it , have no seriuos problems they also can be good treat u well and more , so younger or older doesnt change nothing because only our heart can tell as whos to love

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Posted 8 years ago
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shdwfire

Joined: 8/5/2008

Geeesh I must be doing something wrong I never have young chickies hit on me..lol must be the geezer effect..hehe..
Personally I have always felt it was up to the people involved.If they are comfortable with it why not? Tho one poster made a good point about how much it will affect a relationship down the road,seriously can you see Ashton with Demi when she is hitting 70?? and he is like what 45? omgawd..lol..some age disparity is just too big a hurdle,then it becomes silly. Yet like I say live n let live.Who am I to judge?
Good post Lynn !

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Posted 8 years ago
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Joined: 7/23/2008

Reply to: Geeesh I must be doing something wrong I never have young chickies hit on me..l...
This is not uncommon in New York City, for example.

I've seen a couple on the subway, where the gentleman looked old enough to be her dad, yet they were holding hands.

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Posted 8 years ago
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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

i have had a real run on young ones lately contacting me. the range seems to be in the late 30's range. my daughters are 34 and 38. i still struggle with this.

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Posted 8 years ago
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Divinus_Lingua

Joined: 4/12/2009

I think it's perfectly fine in the short term, but long-term relationships with a huge difference just don't usually work. I personally prefer older women, because they generally know what they want, and aren't afraid to say it. Girls around my age are usually very immature, and don't really know what they're looking for.

I've had a couple of experiences with older women, and they were both amazing. They were short-term and mostly sexual, but that's what we were both looking for at the time. You really can learn a lot from each other, and my experiences easily had much more passion and excitement than any of the girls I've been with that were my age.

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Posted 8 years ago
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lexin10

Joined: 11/30/2009

Yes it is extremely flattering to be contacted by younger women but there is stops. You soon discover their words such as; 'I am impressed with your profile" and 'please contact me" are insincere, . As much as they say they are from the USA, Australia, or the UK, you soon discover they are in fact on a "mission" in Ghana or Nigeria..lol
I have been online for at least 10 yrs (stung a few times), and I can assure that there is a very small percentage (minimal) of girls/women who are genuinely looking for older. Why would they unless it is a scam or for financial reason?
I have learned to be very "cautious" with any younger women and sadly, that may well ruin any chance of finding someone real, but you have to be a little selfish and protect your own interest and heart. ~smiles~

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Posted 7 years ago
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Mojavemoon

Joined: 4/1/2010

It can be flattering to get interest from the younger men ...but most are scammeres ... another percentage see the word widow and age 57...and think desperate or easy. Then you have the man 40 something...who is probably married with a mess of kids...looking for desperate and easy. I mostly get hits from all three.....and I just wonder ..What is Wrong with Me that I don't get interest from men my own age? Should I show my maturity, independence, likes and dislikes in my profile or prissy it up and be more vague? Don't want to date someone my childrens age...Help

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Posted 7 years ago
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Danielsmith234

Joined: 2/15/2011

Am willing to date older woman if she love me with all her heart and also give me a chance to prove my love for her

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Posted 6 years ago
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gamaforce

Joined: 10/10/2009

Reply to: Am willing to date older woman if she love me with all her heart and also give ...
It going to be a long swim for ya.

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Posted 6 years ago
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