I am a young-looking (I've been told), 50-year-old, woman who has been looking for a truthful, single, respectful, romantic 50+ year old male for the past 5+ years without success. I'm not looking for the PERFECT person, but I am looking for sincerity. However, most guys I've met want to be a "player" or expect I'm looking for a "sugar-daddy"; neither of which I'm interested in. (I work everyday and make good money...(Is there a thing as BAD money?) What ever happened to the gentlemen. Not that I expect him to always open my door, but that sometimes I might want to open the door for HIM. 50/50. Treat others as YOU would want to be treated. Get my drift? I'm beginning to believe at this point that I'll grow to be an "old maid" because I don't intend to "conform" to the relationships of today. My married girlfriends tell me, "He's out there". I say "where?" If there are any guys out there that believe in the good ole' fashioned romance (fishing pole and blue-jean kind) and not into game-playing, let me know. I do believe that, maybe, they are out there...but at this stage, you have to make me a believer. I found out that chat sites are no good, webdates are no good, and if you are sincere in finding a good woman who doesn't believe in games, check me out. Maybe there are a "few good men" who are seeking a "few good women". But unless we try, I guess we'll never know.

perhaps you need to give this site more than around 10 days before you give up.

I know I've only been on this site for a few days....I've said nothing about giving up here. I only mentioned the fact that decent men are hard to find. I know there are a few out there. Sometimes watching men play games get to be an old hat and you get tired of it. This is not the first site I've tried and that was what I was talking about. I was only speaking from experience those I HAVE tried.

i guess i have been pretty lucky to find quite a few nice men to date and as of right now i am in a serious relationship.
do you never post a pic? i know personally i don't pay much attention to profiles without pics.

Yes. I have posted pics. I don't always let them stay on mainly because some guys just want to "collect" pics and not really looking for serious relationships. I see YOU viewed me the other day....

I've found a few dates in the past, but what they were looking for is a "dime a dozen". If all I wanted was a DATE, there wouldn't be any problem. Good for you for finding your serious relationship.

it took awhile but i found a gem.

Did your marriage work out and I hope you are still married. You seem like a very nice person

Did your marriage work out and I hope you are still married. You seem like a very nice person

thank you, star. we got married in december and i have never been happier.