so tell me, what is a "good" lady? Isn't it all relative to what your values are?
Amen brother! Gotta realize it's a two way street and one thing we gotta realize is that we can't put a label on all people of one gender.. Then everyone's definition of what a "good" person is varies.
I look at my friend's relationships and to one a "good guy" is a man who brings home a huge paycheck and is never around. She cheats on him all of the time. To another a "good guy" works a job that doesn't bring in a huge paycheck but he is home with her and the kids a lot and they lead a very happy life with what they have.
It's all relative to your values and what you want in a mate.