im always looking for girls, trying to impress them, trying to make them like me. im a pretty good guy, but you women dont give a shit about that. theres this mentality that women have where all you care about is superficial shit
does he have a nice car?
does he wear nice clothes?
how much money does he have?
will he buy me this?
why should i bother with that loser?

heres a wake up call, us guys only ask for two things, and thats some pussy and a little time with our girl.

im tired of all that superficial shit and im tired of the constant chase for women who dont give a shit about me, for now on im asking the questions.

How does she look?
does she have a nice ass/titties?
will she buy ME something?
what does she have to deserve ME?

fellow guys, its time we started asking the world what the women have to deserve us, i know im worth it and fuck them if they dont like it. for too long ive offered love, affection, my time and my money and gotten absolutely no play. its time they pursued us.

I like a man who has a job because it shows he can fend for himself and shows he is responsible.
I like a man who is clean and dresses neatly because it shows he cares about his personal hygene.
I like a man who knows how to save because it shows me stability.
I like to Buy things for the men in my life...cause,..I can.
all men and women have "loser" type qualities,take them or love them as so.

see,I look at,and like all the things listed above as well,however,my point is,not all women are the same,nor is thier viewpoint on things,but,im older so my up bringing was a more traditional and loving then today's society apears to be.

my point is simply that women use men for one of three things, money, power, or respect. we are led around like idiots until our pockets are empty and our hearts are broken. its bullshit, and nobody acknowledges how fucked up it is.

If you allow a woman to treat you like shit then she'll treat you like shit. However by reading all that I can understand why women do treat you like shit. All you want is some pussy and time?


Wow, I'm looking for a man who loves being with me, who can have a decent conversation, who's honest with himself and with me. And I really don't think wanting a man who can support himself and isn't living with his mommy is a bad thing.

by "time" i meant time to spend with and around the woman i have a relationship with. and theres nothing wrong with looking for a man with some stability.

and maybe your telling the truth, and all you want is a decent guy. but look around you at the women you see around you dating, these women can be your friends or relatives and maybe you dont even know them. but are they looking for men for the same reason that you are?

i doubt it. think about what im saying, and you'll know im right.

Oh I agree to a certain extent that some women are looking for men they can fuck over. I ended a friendship with someone recently cause all she does is use men and girls like her (They can't even be called women) make me sick.

excuse the hell out of me...i have never ever used a man. to the contrary , it has been more the other way around. i was the one lending money and helping out and got messed over generally. this time around, it will be a partnership or nothing. i have broken up with men because they were getting too attached and wanted to "take care of me" and i didn't feel the same way. i thought it was more honorable to be honest and break it off rather than use him.

So I guess you just want to be screwing pussy thats all. yea rite!

xxxx

Iv bin talkin to this girl for a while now and she said she doesn't wont to date me. but when the weekend comes around or needs help she call's me. Im all ways helpin her and when we do go out i usaly end up paying for most of the drinks but she also pay's for her self , i just noraml end with the bigger bill. can any one tell me if im being used or does she want to date me. im conffused can any one help me understand.

dont jump to conclusions dude, but keep in mind that it could be happening. if she says she doesn't want to date you then you probably shouldn't pay for any of her shit, just tell her you want to save your money for a girl that wants to be with you. try to be nice about it.

There are just as many shitty guys as there are shitty girls. Learn to spot them or you're going to continue to get screwed over.

Yeah dude I feel what you are saying, Most women just like to USE men to get where they want to be. And some men are stupid enough to fall for the same thing all the time.

Its like all women think guys are idiots because of bad experiences theyve had. LADIES DO NOT let other men pay for the mistakes most others have cause in your life. Stop this now.

Yeah dude I feel what you are saying, Most women just like to USE men to get where they want to be. And some men are stupid enough to fall for the same thing all the time.

Its like all women think guys are idiots because of bad experiences theyve had. LADIES DO NOT let other men pay for the mistakes most others have cause in your life. Stop this now.

Yes, and all men like to USE women for sex. Geez, more generalizing. Everyone is different, hello!

Well to be fair I think all men are idiots until they prove me wrong.

no all men are not idiots, you are just a feminist. But you'll be okay tho.

hmmmm.... both sides consume from each other, but it happens and thats how the story goes.

I've always been the nice guy type and was always getting stepped on. I agree with some previous post.... meaning that I now look for a better match "financially and stability". These days a wwomen have to have something going for herself to even speak to me...lol.

First thing I hear coming from some women mouth... "what can you do for me?"

Well.... What can you do for me? Dont need you to spend my money on bullshit when I just want to spend sometime with you.... And really, it's not just about sex. I'm 29 yrs old and have find so many other things that two people can enjoy without feeling obligated to return favors according to what happens under the sheets.

hmmmm.... both sides consume from each other, but it happens and thats how the story goes.

I've always been the nice guy type and was always getting stepped on. I agree with some previous post.... meaning that I now look for a better match "financially and stability". These days a women have to have something going for herself to even speak to me...lol.

First thing I hear coming from some womens mouth... "what can you do for me?"

Well.... What can you do for me? Dont need you to spend my money on bullshit when I just want to spend sometime with you.... And really, it's not just about sex. I'm 29 yrs old and have found so many other things that two people can enjoy without feeling obligated to return favors according to what happens under the sheets.

I'm not a feminist I'm a realist.

You date men then tell me they're not all idiots.

Iv bin talkin to this girl for a while now and she said she doesn't wont to date me. but when the weekend comes around or needs help she call's me. Im all ways helpin her and when we do go out i usaly end up paying for most of the drinks but she also pay's for her self , i just noraml end  with the bigger bill. can any one tell me if im being used or does she want to date me. im conffused can any one help me understand.  

Yes, she's using you. I hate to say it. If she doesn't want to be with you but wants you to pay for her stuff on a regular basis, then she's just after what's in your pants: your money. Cut her off financially (in a nice way) and if she has the nerve to ask why you've stopped paying for her, be honest and to the point: let her know that you're friends and that's it. Ask her why she always wants you to pay for stuff when you two hang out.

It is not that all women are using men for those things...alot of men are using women in the same way, with the addition of getting sex out of it. :) You need to look at where you live, California has the most materialistic and superficial people there are, and the AV is even worse...full of users and manipulators mostly as a result of drug and alcohol abuse. You are living in what used to be called "the meth capital of Los Angeles", what do you expect?

It is not that all women are using men for those things...alot of men are using women in the same way, with the addition of getting sex out of it.  :)  You need to look at where you live, California has the most materialistic and superficial people there are, and the AV is even worse...full of users and manipulators mostly as a result of drug and alcohol abuse.  You are living in what used to be called "the meth capital of Los Angeles", what do you expect?  

i dont believe that the place defines the people that live there. can you say that yo are a user, i know i am not. and because of that i look for people that can be good to others. there are two sides to this issue but the issue of guys using womn for sex is widly known, i never heard about women using men until it ocurred to me.

and look at the above answers, someone else realized that a woman was using him too.

I have to agree that I see ALOT of women that use men. They give us good women a bad name!

One woman may be a user and real bitch to one guy, but an "angel" to the next guy. Guess it's what we all want in a partner
and are willing put up with!

I actually agree with the OP. Women sit there and complain and whine all the time that guys just want sex cause we're "pigs" while they want more. Guys can choose just someone to have sex with (if they're one of those guys) and his mission's done, but girls..........he's gotta be fit, look like he bathes 24/7, has money, sports car. What's sad is that these girls will fall flat on their face and complain even more, which is unacceptable.