i have like a guy for the pass seven years... we have some mutual friend and i move away 4 years ago... i recently came back and i start to like him again... my girlfriend wrote him to his web page telling him i like him from my web page ... he respoded back saying thank you... he work at several night club as a dj so he is very popular...my girlfriend say that he probably didnt notice who it was and he probably gets a lot of girl telling him how cute he is and stuff like that.... he is actually a very popular guy in my town so im sure that he get a lot of girl throwing them self at him and i have seen girl throwing them self at him.... but any way a week after my friend wrote him i went to one of the club he was actually out side.. which in my mind i was like crap he was looking at me... and when i was getting my id check he was right next to the girls that put the wristband i was looking right at him.... as soon as i walk inside he walk inside... and he came up to my girl and gave her a hug and a kiss... and he did the same to me but he laught as he hug me and then pointed at me.. my girlfriend ask why was that he was like nothing its and inside joke... but thats it he went to do his job and never spoke to me again... since my friend was drunk when she wrote him she told me she wrote from her web page telling him how sorry she was writing him and the only thing he ask if its truth what she wrote she said yes and she havent told me anything if they has spoken or not...so im wondering could i make the first move and write him again or just wait it out and see if he write me againg and if he dont that me he not interested cause im to shy and scare of regection

your writing skills are poor. i suggest you speak to him instead.

I agree with nightowl..if you're going to write spellcheck so its understandable..I had a hard time understanding what you were talking about..dont seem desperate either a quick ""hey it was nice to see you again" will do and see if he responds to that. Rejection is part of life you better learn to deal with it but dont be afraid to make the first move, its a different world and women are getting more aggresive..Good Luck!

lmao.... Yall goin to the bad place, hehehe how many of you can wright in Swahili or Zulu.

I'll answer anyway, THERE IS NOT A GUY INTHE WORLD THAT WOULD NOT PAY ATTENTION WHEN A GIRL TELLS HIM STRAIGHT OUT SHE LIKES HIM, he knows who you are and what he thinks.

Curious!! Are you a guy or a girl?? your thread title says if a GUY like me........ And your post says you like a GUY n u said your GIRL friend..... Here in america it does matter if it's a guy, Girl, goat, zebra...... Just sayin

Hey Scorpio" It's nice to see you"

Hey do we know each other?

No mam, Just thought I would take your advice and say hi.

Lol..well hello..you can email me at my site though and not the forum..everyone doesnt need to know our business

lol, shhhhh

Lol...have you ever met a man that would keep his mouth shut about a woman!!!

Yep, I see him every morning, while I'm shaving.

Lol, so your the one..or you have a boyfriend?

LMAO.... UMMMMM no eeewwwww. One dik per fantasy is my rule.

well ive dated my fair share of dicks!!!

lol. Yea, I have bad taste in women too. But It beats the alternative....

no shit! i think we turned this girls boyfriend issue into our own chat fest..hit up my profile scorpio101966

Do not write him if you want any chance with him.

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send him naked piks off you

First of all dont take any advice from these women

LOL if they were good with men, then they wouldnt be single

so technically you should do the exact opporsit of what they say and you should be successful

It's opposite, what is opporsit? Geez! You don't need to TALK about anyone's success when you can't even spell a little simple eight letter word!!!

Assuming people are single just because you are is also a bad idea.

lol at what i said hurting u

the females on this site are really edgy

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