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OneCowgirl

Joined: 5/25/2011

That the only reason anyone every talks to me is because they want in my pants? But nobody wants to date me? I even went to the club and went dancing, and not a single person wanted to dance with me. What is the matter with me for crying out loud?

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tors

Joined: 7/9/2011

hi there, i read your profile, ill be your friend.

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Shott

Joined: 6/5/2011

Message me for a Real Friend...

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Cole1127

Joined: 4/19/2011

Unfortunately, there is a lot of that happening now days.

There are some of us that are l;ooking for a real relationship, but few and far between. Stand your ground and try not to let it ruin your outlook on life.

Good luck.

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5up3r

Joined: 7/11/2011

Because thats what most of us want. Why would we date if thats not what we want? hate us all u want but just being honest here. There are guys interested in a serious relationship but I doubt you'll find many here that arnt desperate - or in a club that arnt players. u need to change your environment and get out of here. Not saying they arnt any here but you might try flirting in a more appropriate place, like a book store, or some place where youll find someone that has a common interest. I think the odds are going to be against what youre looking for online. u can find it but youll have to be patient suspicious and careful. im sure many will disagree but thats my 2 cents

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The Chino

Joined: 8/26/2005

Reply to: Because thats what most of us want. Why would we date if thats not what we wan...
^^^ He's spot on, but you won't find many here. Another dating site, perhaps?? As far as what goes on around you, I couldn't give you any specific reason why they would not want to date you. All guys are wired to want sex. Most will try to act upon it, but very few will succeed. You seem like a nice young lady, but guys around your age or slightly older only want to grope you on the dance floor and get into your pants. It's the nature of teenage/post-teenage boys. Try a coffee shop or library. You'll find that you may have more in common in a more serene setting.

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Kim4girls2012

Joined: 3/25/2010

Girl there is nothing wrong with you, its the others that have the problem. They don't want to commit anymore, just want a quick f*ck and go on their way.

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Darkphoenix13

Joined: 10/15/2010

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so very true men can be jerks

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

they shouldn't want to be connecting at her age. 19 is too young to get serious.

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wolverine111

Joined: 1/29/2011

Smile more.....and make sure you know exactly what you want. People will sense your strength and won't try to use you.

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crystal2219

Joined: 7/5/2011

Quit worrying about men. Let men worry about you! :)

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OneCowgirl

Joined: 5/25/2011

I'm not even talking about just on here lol! Thank you all for your input!

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Tony56

Joined: 7/1/2011

I'll be the first to admit men can be jerks when it comes to dating.
I read your profile and see anything wrong with you. You look like a nice young lady.
It may be the comment about "Perhaps looking for a hook up" that's getting the wrong kind of guys attracted to you.
If you remove that comment you might get guys that are more serious, and not just looking to score.
Best of luck Darlin!

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Iceumup1

Joined: 11/30/2008

Reply to: I'm not even talking about just on here lol! Thank you all for your input!
Maby you're trying to hard. most guys want what they cant have or at least think they cant. try just hangin with your girls and let the guys make you pay attention.

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Cole1127

Joined: 4/19/2011

Reply to: I'm not even talking about just on here lol! Thank you all for your input!
Dumbing down of society. I can't understand how some (a bunch) graduate from school and don't know how to read. Society has changed in the last twenty years, and guys think women are a toy to play with - movies and music temm them that you are. Pathetic in my opinion.

Women play the guys also - it goes both ways. There are some good ones though, just difficult to find, or people are on guard to keep out the players. Good luck.

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