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Rhys_Marcil

Joined: 5/26/2009

Hmm, I'm not sure, girls come up to me and act friendly (because I am a trusworthy, warm hearted person). But, no girl I have ever met wants to be anything more than a friend. Of course, I don't like to push things and I say "that's fine" and "I understand". You know, I guess it's because I'm "too" nice, although I recently found out that girls don't like it when guys think of themselves as "too" nice. I think it's strange really. If I was a girl I'd want someone that would keep me safe, and love me for who I am, not for "Looks" and "Money", which around 87% of the people where I live are only interested in these kinds of things. People are strange animals, but you can't live without them. Anyways, I'm done ranting now. If you think you can help me out, that'd be great, btw, I stated the reason up top, if you didn't get it.

Thanks,
Yours Truely

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nighthowl50

Joined: 9/28/2005

i like the pics that don't make you look so angry.

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Rhys_Marcil

Joined: 5/26/2009

Stop looking angry, huh? I'm not an all-the-time angry person. I've had a lot of people tell me that I look angry all the time, it's just the things in life right now aren't extremely happy and even though I'm trying to get over most of them, some of the negativity still shows, obviously on my face. ^_^

Now that I think about it, I wouldn't want to be around someone that looked angry all the time either.

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nighthowl50

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Reply to: Stop looking angry, huh? I'm not an all-the-time angry person. I've had a lot o...
we all have things we can be angry or negative about but we have to deal with them and move on especially if we want to find someone to share our lives.

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parisman75

Joined: 9/3/2005

I think, ultimately, why I'm still single is because I keep looking for a woman to date, instead of just living my life and being content with those who are my friends. By now it feels like it's my 'holy grail': something I'll be searching for my whole life and never find it. Yes, in the bigger scheme of life it's not that big of a deal. In my life, if I'm looking for something I hardly find it, but when I'm looking for something else what I was looking for originally will just pop out of thin air!

I have to not think about being single. Just enjoying my life and being thankful for the things (and people) that I have in it.

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SpiritDream

Joined: 5/29/2009

I realize I choose to be single right now. I used to people please all the time. I am so over that now. I feel if one just lets go and let it flow. Watch what happens. Just enjoy being yourself and have fun with life. Oh and smile allot that helps.
Smiles...

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feistycadavers

Joined: 2/5/2009

bcuz im ugly :(

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happy_feet

Joined: 5/8/2009

Probably because I'm independent and work too much...or its just because no one I've met has fully appreciated the magnificence that is me...LOL!

Jokes aside, many man say they like independent women when actually mean someone who will be there at their convenience i.e. the Pat,pat(as in I pat the dog) F"@k Off syndrome.

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rdleaf2

Joined: 10/5/2004

Reply to: bcuz im ugly :(
Please don't call yourself ugly because you are not. God Bless.

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Muted

Joined: 5/13/2009

Reply to: Please don't call yourself ugly because you are not. God Bless.
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You're about $3 short... Thanks! Come again!

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bob_the_bear

Joined: 1/21/2009

Reply to: bcuz im ugly :(
You're actually quite cute -don't be so down on yourself!

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What Sanity

Joined: 5/9/2009

I'm single because i chose to be.

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rdleaf2

Joined: 10/5/2004

Reply to: 2 posts 5 days ago You're about $3 short... Thanks! Come again!
Muted, why did you address what I said to someone else. I have nothing to say to you.

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Muted

Joined: 5/13/2009

Reply to: Muted, why did you address what I said to someone else. I have nothing to say t...
Oh tight. Then what do you call this?

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lynncat

Joined: 8/14/2007

I have four children and this last one (a daughter) I have raised myself. When she was small I dreamed that someone would come along that would love her and I but, it didn't happen. She is older and I am alone. You look at life later and somehow all the right reasons come. I will meet someone now, I'm sure of it. It is not my destiny to spend life alone. Sometimes it is a matter of finding our true identity, loving ourselves, appreciatimg living. That makes us more of a catch to that other person who has the same needs as we do.

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Muted

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It is not my destiny
What's my destiny? Since you believe in that sort of thing.

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Biz Tiz

Joined: 3/12/2009

Why i single, i haven't find right woman who wanna be in long term relationship.

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Muted

Joined: 5/13/2009

OBV. 'CAUSE YOU'RE BLACK!

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rdleaf2

Joined: 10/5/2004

Reply to: Oh tight. Then what do you call this?
As usual, you make absolutely no sense. I never even addressed you. I was trying to help someone. You are as immature and dumb as you look. Learn to spell and talk.

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rdleaf2

Joined: 10/5/2004

Reply to: OBV. 'CAUSE YOU'RE BLACK!
OBV. 'CAUSE YOU'RE BLACK!

That was just rude and uncalled for.

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lynncat

Joined: 8/14/2007

Reply to: What's my destiny? Since you believe in that sort of thing.
It is something you have to ask yourself when you are alone and silent. Are you content with life? If not you need to take steps to change things. Some of us need to find jobs first, some of us just need to like ourselves. We cannot give or share with another person in life if those things aren't in line.
When I was raising my child I was totally miserable because I couldn't find the right man to be a good father and love us both. Now, I wouldn't trade anything for the cherished moments and closeness that we have had. "To Everything there is a reason". It's like years after a break-up you look back and understand why it had to be. I firmly believe that every person on this earth is born with the ability to accomplish any task he or she sets his or her mind to. Just change your thinking to: I am willing to attract all that I desire, beginning here and now.

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Muted

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Are you content with life?
Yes.

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SteveNParkville

Joined: 1/7/2009

Reply to: OBV. 'CAUSE YOU'RE BLACK!
Retard....shove a shotgun up your ass and blow your brains out. What a racist piece of shit your are period the end

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Muted

Joined: 5/13/2009

your are
What?

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SteveNParkville

Joined: 1/7/2009

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What your so stupid you dont even know what racism is? Or more likely your so dumb you dont care. I am guessing that man you dissed about being black, has more to contribute to this world than you ever will. Not sure why anyone on here tolerates your nonsense your a waste of oxygen, a hatefull, spitefull, self loathing, nasty, pathetic, loser. Understand that ?

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