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69mindfreak69

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True Dad

Joined: 11/21/2008

im choosing to stay single..but i know if you buy a girl enough drinks where im from..your gaurenteed to go home and wake up the next morning with her

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A little less t...

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IT'S definitely different then it was year's ago.......It appears so many have been hurt or burned in their past relationship or relationship's, they seem to carry that revenge with them into their new one or think all in that sex is the same way instead of taking it as a learning lesson to become wiser next time.....n now a days they have this so called friend's with benefit's dating.....I don't believe in f****** my friend's in any way shape or form. not to mention if that friend want's to only do the dating friend with benefit then ur screwing all their so called friend's with benefit's, their screwing all you're friends next thing ya know its a world wide affair on who you're having sex with! THANKS BUT NO THANKS FOR ME! .I DON'T FEEL IT IS SOMETHING THAT YOU SHARE WITH ANYONE OUT OF EURG OR DESIRE. .....Sorry to hear you're relationship has become more like a roommate relationship, Might be a good idea to do what is necessary on both part to rekindle it ., Marriage counseling, being the one to initiate ect,..... after viewing you're profile, you state that you have no problems communicating with other's or expressing what you feel.. and might i say reading threw some of you're rebuttals on these threads have been good..Maybe try applying the way you communicate with other's on the Internet and apply that to you're marriage... a relationship only gets old when one permit's it to. doesn't matter how many year's one has been together it's how they continue to keep it fresh and alive.most get to confortable and lazy now that you have the person , or take for garnet what n who they have in their life...a good place to start is take the amount of time you are spending on line communicating and giving advice to other's and apply it to spending and giveing quality time with you're mate.....i had 20 wonderful year's with my now gaurding angel and surely you can with you're mate....hey just voiceing my opnion!

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*Sliver!*

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If your relationship sucks get out of it.

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69mindfreak69

Joined: 7/12/2008

Reply to: If your relationship sucks get out of it.
If your relationship sucks get out of it.
No communications & hardly any sex.I wish i knew what it was like to have a girl that comes to me & said lets fuck instead of me always asking.that would be a nice change of pace.But Its very hard to get out of the relationship.its the only one i have even known & change scares me.

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69mindfreak69

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The reason i turned to the net is because my relationship was shit & i wanted to see if i could not meet a lady & fall in love with her so i would have someone to go to.My wife is not willing to make this relationship better but neither am i.were tired of one another.time to move on.I don't like being alone so ill be with her until i find another.

PS: Friends with benefits is the ONLY! way to go.

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69mindfreak69

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Reply to: im choosing to stay single..but i know if you buy a girl enough drinks where im...
im choosing to stay single..but i know if you buy a girl enough drinks where im from..your gaurenteed to go home and wake up the next morning with her
Point Me in the direction of those bars :P~ i just hope the booze does not make me fuck a FAT & nasty looking girl lol.

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*Sliver!*

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It's not hard to get out a relationship you're not haooy in. Why do you men always say it is?

If you're really unhappy you get divorced and move on, not fuck around on your wife.

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willnas

Joined: 11/29/2008

I agree with u beautiful i just get out of three years relationship i never been free like this before now i'm single i can date any girl i want now.

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A little less t...

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jumping out of the fire so to speak into a flame is really the WRONG attitude to have, That's another reason why so many relationship seem to fail..They get into another relationship and is so accustom to their old ways, habit's of their past relationship they tend to bring it and act in the same manor in the new relationship or assume that, that sex male or female is the same way...Take the time to find yourself, what you really want in you're life , out of life and in a relationship......Staying with you're wife until the next one come's along in my belief is wrong!....No matter what the issues are in you're marriage, you both o each other the RESPECT of exiting the relationship before starting another,..cheating is the wrong way to go about it.. if you will do it on her you will also do it to who ever you are cheating with if that relationship tends to have issues as well.. if you were to bond and be with that person neither one of you will have complete trust in each other!.if you are having difficult communicating with you're now wife, what makes you think you're not gonna have the same issue with you're new women or you're new women may have the same problem maybe you or even both might try counseling on how to communicate with each other..it takes 2 2 distroy a realonship...If neither one of you are willing to try and make the realonship work THEN GET THE HELL OUT OF IT!.. Do you not acknowledge that you only journey threw this place we call earth once? this is not a dress rehearsal, it's you're responsibility to make you're life as happy and complete as you need it to be...Nothing last for ever! you both appear to be acting in a very selfish. childish manor.,Depriving each other from enjoying life and being happy while you are both here is TOTALY WRONG! BEING A LIVE IS A BLESSING!!!! are you basically not alone now? staying with her or each other just to have someone in you're environment is also wrong, Hell you can get a room mate as far as that goes... the only thing to fear in life is fear itself...change is scary yes but in order to have growth in life, change is always going to be a part of it no matter what the situation is that brings change's.....life is all about change and as long as you're alive you're gonna have change in you're life, environment ect.you say you're reason for coming to the Internet is to hopeful find a women you can fall in love with, sweetie you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. you have to acknowledge that life isn't just about another person or just fulfilling another persons happiness, it is also about yourself !!!!!......a lot of people have expectation's in life, in there partner, their job ect but you also have to live up to those expectations yourself before expecting it from another, many people expect something but fail to give it in return do it in return ect... many people tend to think that another is a mind reader or that they should know, how ever people are not mind reader's and if they knew what you think they should,or do what you think they should be doing then you would not be deprived or encountering the issues that you are... bottom line is Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, and be with the person you deserve to be with .because you only have one life to live and one chance to do all the things you want to do.....yes fear can disrupt one's life and we all have it within our self in one areas or another but. you know .I learned that people would have opinions about me anyway.so i have learned to over look them! I feared rejection until I learned to have faith in myself. I feared pain until I learned that it's necessary for growth. I feared hearing the truth until I saw and felt the ugliness in lies. I feared life until I experienced its beauty. I feared death until I realized that it's not an end, but a beginning and a part of life.and what hurt's me makes me become stronger .I feared my destiny, until I realized that I had the power to change my life. I feared hate until I saw that it was nothing more than ignorance. I feared love until it touched my heart, making the darkness fade into endless sunny days. I feared ridicule until I learned how to laugh at myself. I feared growing old until I realized that I gained wisdom every day and what a blessing it is to be here to grow old, many are not that blessed. I feared the future until I realized that life just keep's getting better. I feared the past until I realized that it could no longer hurt me. I feared the dark until I saw the beauty of the starlight. I feared truth until I learned that the truth would give me strength. I feared change, until I saw that even the most beautiful butterfly had to undergo a metamorphosis before it could fly. you can be a butterfly open you're wing's and start soaring sweetie. because When you choose to compromise your most deeply held values,anything you gain by doing so will be of no real use to you.If you must betray the unique person you are in order to feed your appetite for fleeting pleasures, you have dealt yourself a tragic loss.Be careful not to invest your precious life in things that disappear the moment they're consumed. Focus on what you can give, express, create, n fulfill and you'll experience genuine satisfaction that never run's OUT!
Sorry about the long reply! But heyyyyyy i'm just voicing my opinion and trying to share!
P.S IF YOU THINK THAT HAVEING FRIEND'S WITH BENFIT'S IS THE WAY TO GO ,I SAY HEAL YOU'RE WOUNDS N RESPECT YOURSELF! HEY I'M JUST SAYING

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TheZodiac

Joined: 11/30/2008

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Become swingers. Problem solved.

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just living ma ...

Joined: 7/23/2008

well. i would say if theres no communication whatsoever i feel that relationship is gone.


xxxx

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avgjoe0266

Joined: 7/16/2008

I think you or your wife will get tired of the situation and file.Once free of the bad marriage you'll feel soooooo free. The problem is you have to go through so many scammers and people that are all about themselves, that it is tiring. Every now and then you find a hottie that has potential, but then she has to think the same about you. Marriage is the toughest job any of us will ever have. Sometimes single makes sense. I wish I would listen to myself sometimes, because I know I'll get stupid and marry somebody done the road. Good luck and I hope the divorce is civil(not violent).

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69mindfreak69

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Reply to: It's not hard to get out a relationship you're not haooy in. Why do you men al...
It's not hard to get out a relationship you're not haooy in.  Why do you men always say it is?

If you're really unhappy you get divorced and move on, not fuck around on your wife.
stop making everything about men do this & men do that.its old already.And you don't know me & what I'm going through.You Don't know my life.Theirs special circumstances with me & wife.

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69mindfreak69

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I would not have sex with another women while I'm married to my wife.But i would search for another women while with my wife.some will say that's still cheating & others might not.

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69mindfreak69

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But hardly no sex from my wife's makes me look hard & say sexual comments to myself about them.

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yehitsme88

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i was with my ex for 2 and a half years and we got 2 kids together, he was black, and our children are interracial.

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69mindfreak69

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*Sliver!*

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Still think I'm mean yeh?

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yehitsme88

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sometimes yes, but deff not when it comes to him. he never did bother me til i became a target, for what? me liking black guys over white? riight.

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*Sliver!*

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Well you did something he hates and when someone does something HE considers wrong you become a target.


It's suppose to bother you. You get good at pretending to care.

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