To have a honest and personal understanding of one's own self or individuality is my friend the beginning of the foundation towards creating healthy and lasting relations with others. For you will not attract a fish by putting your face in the water, maybe a shark :} but the point is my friend to know yourself makes it that much more easier for you to recognize that individual whom you will beable to live with as a person of interest, talk with, and share with. Unfortunately not everyone is who they say they are, but if you know what you are looking for you can tell when you see it with your spiritual eyes !
not wanting to be nsty or anything but that sounds hippy bs