Why is it that if a man asks you to chat IN private,he generally assumes your willing to talk TO his privates?

Because that's kinda the point of the private chats.

i think most guys who ask for hot private chats on a dating site are lacking in something cos if you think about it they spend hours online in chatrooms hoping to see tits and ass when they can pay 25 dollars for 20 minutes with a cam sex girl

i know option i would choose

Well Hell I always thought privaate chats we for getting to know someone.

It depends on the guy... The older the guy is the more chance of getting jewels in the face... To younger guys you can say that you dont want that kind of chat... but that it just taking out of my opinion... but it is also true as said in an another thread, that one are supposed to cyber in private, because it is there that cyberstuff has happened...

Well when you think of a private chat with webcams, one of the first things that comes to most people's minds is cybering. You have to let them know beforehand what you want.

Why is it that if a man asks you to chat IN private,he generally assumes your willing to talk TO his privates?

Well that's completely wrong in my case.Because if i want a private chat with a lady one to one I'm looking to get to know her better.Do not mistake most men for all men.if you do that's your greatest downfall.Private chatting is a better & faster way to get to know a person.that's basic fundamental truth.so as long as a man is out there like me then the assumptions that all men want to show there private parts is completely false & dead wrong!...

Because that's kinda the point of the private chats.

That's not the point at all.If i took you private i would not want to show you my privates.I would want to get to know you in a faster more quick way.

Well Hell  I always thought privaate chats  we for getting to know someone.

AMEN!!!...we have a winner.Tell her what shes wins Johnny.Damn right its to get to know some one better in a better situation then a full room.you go girl.

Well when you think of a private chat with webcams, one of the first things that comes to most people's minds is cybering.  You have to let them know beforehand what you want.

Well i guess i do not fit into the "Most" Category.For when i want a one to one with a lady i want to see who I'm talking with live & updated cam.if i said i wanted to take a lady to private chat she would ASSUME! that i wanted to show her my penis or see her nude,which would be WRONG!...women are way!!! to corrupted in the mind by thinking us men only want sexual favors when that's just not true.

LOL, I've had that issue. Even when I tell them before hand that I would not take it off and they assume because they get me in private I'll change my mind.

THERES ALOT OF PIGS ON THIS SITE.

THERES ALOT OF PIGS ON THIS SITE.

Sorry -didn't you get the memo???

The whole intellect, personality, and relationship experiment didn't work out well or produce anything saleable , so we're phasing it out... probably to the extent of doing away with any part of the mind dealing with higher-than-instinct-level functions.

Marketing has decided to leave the cranium its present size to avoid undue focus on such trivial changes -and to ease the transition.

We've got the ad guys working on all sorts of media and entertainment projects to fill in the empty spaces ...though obviously they will be suited to the improved brain.

Thank you for your patience, we'll get to you as soon as possible. Please report to human resources when called -they'll get the paperwork sorted and refer you to the tech guys -who will have you thinking right in no time!

Don't forget your free webcam -pick yours up at the refreshment table on the way out!

so what happens when its the chick pming the guy and the guy is on the site just to bash people in the forums and she wont leave him alone but you really wanna put it nicly..what about that..its not always the guy you know

If you REALLY want to get to know someone better you send them a message nad keep talking to the through messages until they feel comfortable giving you a messenger address.


Asking someone to go to a private room with you is pointless. If BOTH of you want to chat without interruption use a messenger and take it whereever you want to.

Short of dual consentual lobotomies... that might work ... :op

I love the way you generalize all men because of the experience you've had with one, or a few. Could be that you're just a perv magnet.

LOL thats all JUST LOL

Don't you ask what the discussion will be about if you are concerned?

It's not all men. Me for example, could care less about seeing your stuff. On the other hand I have an exhibitionist side to me so given the opportunity if ASKED to I show mine private or public, doesn't really matter to me. Key word in that statement is asked. I choose not to "flirt" with someone and just have my junk on cam. If someone in the room objects to it I don't. Again don't get me wrong I have just as much fun...maybe even more actually chatting with people.