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notreally

Joined: 4/15/2005

Why is it that if a man asks you to chat IN private,he generally assumes your willing to talk TO his privates?

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

Because that's kinda the point of the private chats.

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cams only room

Joined: 10/20/2008

i think most guys who ask for hot private chats on a dating site are lacking in something cos if you think about it they spend hours online in chatrooms hoping to see tits and ass when they can pay 25 dollars for 20 minutes with a cam sex girl

i know option i would choose

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notreally

Joined: 4/15/2005

Reply to: Because that's kinda the point of the private chats.
Well Hell I always thought privaate chats we for getting to know someone.

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Fjordboy86

Joined: 11/17/2008

It depends on the guy... The older the guy is the more chance of getting jewels in the face... To younger guys you can say that you dont want that kind of chat... but that it just taking out of my opinion... but it is also true as said in an another thread, that one are supposed to cyber in private, because it is there that cyberstuff has happened...

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jem1987

Joined: 7/20/2007

Well when you think of a private chat with webcams, one of the first things that comes to most people's minds is cybering. You have to let them know beforehand what you want.

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69mindfreak69

Joined: 7/12/2008

Why is it that if a man asks you to chat IN private,he generally assumes your willing to talk TO his privates?
Well that's completely wrong in my case.Because if i want a private chat with a lady one to one I'm looking to get to know her better.Do not mistake most men for all men.if you do that's your greatest downfall.Private chatting is a better & faster way to get to know a person.that's basic fundamental truth.so as long as a man is out there like me then the assumptions that all men want to show there private parts is completely false & dead wrong!...

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69mindfreak69

Joined: 7/12/2008

Reply to: Because that's kinda the point of the private chats.
Because that's kinda the point of the private chats.
That's not the point at all.If i took you private i would not want to show you my privates.I would want to get to know you in a faster more quick way.

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69mindfreak69

Joined: 7/12/2008

Reply to: Well Hell I always thought privaate chats we for getting to know someone.
Well Hell  I always thought privaate chats  we for getting to know someone.
AMEN!!!...we have a winner.Tell her what shes wins Johnny.Damn right its to get to know some one better in a better situation then a full room.you go girl.

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69mindfreak69

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Reply to: Well when you think of a private chat with webcams, one of the first things tha...
Well when you think of a private chat with webcams, one of the first things that comes to most people's minds is cybering.  You have to let them know beforehand what you want.
Well i guess i do not fit into the "Most" Category.For when i want a one to one with a lady i want to see who I'm talking with live & updated cam.if i said i wanted to take a lady to private chat she would ASSUME! that i wanted to show her my penis or see her nude,which would be WRONG!...women are way!!! to corrupted in the mind by thinking us men only want sexual favors when that's just not true.

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starswinger007

Joined: 11/15/2008

LOL, I've had that issue. Even when I tell them before hand that I would not take it off and they assume because they get me in private I'll change my mind.

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babygirll18

Joined: 9/27/2004

THERES ALOT OF PIGS ON THIS SITE.

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babygirll18

Joined: 9/27/2004

THERES ALOT OF PIGS ON THIS SITE.

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Etritonakin

Joined: 9/11/2008

Sorry -didn't you get the memo???

The whole intellect, personality, and relationship experiment didn't work out well or produce anything saleable , so we're phasing it out... probably to the extent of doing away with any part of the mind dealing with higher-than-instinct-level functions.

Marketing has decided to leave the cranium its present size to avoid undue focus on such trivial changes -and to ease the transition.

We've got the ad guys working on all sorts of media and entertainment projects to fill in the empty spaces ...though obviously they will be suited to the improved brain.

Thank you for your patience, we'll get to you as soon as possible. Please report to human resources when called -they'll get the paperwork sorted and refer you to the tech guys -who will have you thinking right in no time!

Don't forget your free webcam -pick yours up at the refreshment table on the way out!

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True Dad

Joined: 11/21/2008

so what happens when its the chick pming the guy and the guy is on the site just to bash people in the forums and she wont leave him alone but you really wanna put it nicly..what about that..its not always the guy you know

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Reply to: so what happens when its the chick pming the guy and the guy is on the site jus...
If you REALLY want to get to know someone better you send them a message nad keep talking to the through messages until they feel comfortable giving you a messenger address.


Asking someone to go to a private room with you is pointless. If BOTH of you want to chat without interruption use a messenger and take it whereever you want to.

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Etritonakin

Joined: 9/11/2008

Short of dual consentual lobotomies... that might work ... :op

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lionsroar

Joined: 10/21/2004

I love the way you generalize all men because of the experience you've had with one, or a few. Could be that you're just a perv magnet.

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notreally

Joined: 4/15/2005

Reply to: I love the way you generalize all men because of the experience you've had with...
LOL thats all JUST LOL

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wwcooke

Joined: 10/5/2004

Don't you ask what the discussion will be about if you are concerned?

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me102179

Joined: 4/29/2008

It's not all men. Me for example, could care less about seeing your stuff. On the other hand I have an exhibitionist side to me so given the opportunity if ASKED to I show mine private or public, doesn't really matter to me. Key word in that statement is asked. I choose not to "flirt" with someone and just have my junk on cam. If someone in the room objects to it I don't. Again don't get me wrong I have just as much fun...maybe even more actually chatting with people.

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