Why is it a guy your talking to can get on here when they are too busy to talk to you just wondering it seems to happen alot i know it means i'm getting played i'm not that stupid im just saying.

Because they are not looking for anything serious or have no clue that you want to be serious with them. Just a thought. If you see them on a consistent basis, ignoring you while chatting it up with others on here, then you need to find out why he's doing it and if you feel like he's going to continue doing it, then you need to find one who doesn't think that WebDate (or any other dating site, for that matter) is his life.

Thank you

You're welcome, but you need to have a nice little conversation with him, by phone or face-to-face if he's close to you and if at all possible.

Thanks but i'm just about to give up

Awwwwwwww, I'd hate to see you give up, but if he's not worth keeping then you move on. You deserve much much beter and you can do much much better. :-)

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