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SassyScorp31

Joined: 11/28/2012

Ok guys I need your help!! I don't understand why guys don't approach me. I see other girls I work with get hit on and approached. So, can you give me some advice on what makes a guy approach a girl? I've been told I'm intimidating but never given a reason why. I'm 31 and would like to date. Thank you for any advice you give me :)

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jem1987

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Because you're pretty and guys get scared. That's about it, lol. Give them the green light! More than just eye contact. Give them a smile! A flirty one! Ask them for a favor! (Guys love feeling like the hero, even if it's just holding your jacket for a second.) Et cetera, et cetera!

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wetnwild600

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Reply to: Because you're pretty and guys get scared. That's about it, lol. Give them th...
I think you have a stalker. I'm not sure, but it's starting to look that way.

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wetnwild600

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Reply to: Shut the fuck up ! You are just jealous that nobody finds you special ..
You're definitely the "special" one in this conversation.

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invincibleharry

Joined: 11/21/2012

see if you listen to peoples soft and nice words saying there is nothing and bla bla its not gonna help i think what you should do is first pick someone(A man) that u like and then work towards bringing him to be interested in u by sending him indirect messages like staring or smiling when u see him and soo onn

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lianapet

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Uh...so just for s & g's....how come a person from Nicosia doesn't list greek and/or turkish as a language spoken...but they list russian??

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wolfe0612

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You're beautiful - that's what men think is intimidating. All you need to do is show a little interest, let men know that you're available. Frankly, if a man sees a pretty, successful woman he is going to assume she's already taken unless you let us know you're not: smile, flirt a little with your eyes. Nothing over the top (no need to act the slut) just eye contact, laughter, and smiling. If you see a man you really want, initiate physical contact with him: hand on his back, touch his arm, little things. He'll get the hint. :)

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maacfriend

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Well, I think wolfe nailed it best. I agree with what he said.

As I have got older, I have noticed that there are a lot of women who no longer send any signals or feedback to a guy if she is available and interested. So what is a guy supposed to think? We simply assume there is either no interest or that they are already involved in some sort of relationship....

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samhill60

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you would be surprised how just a simple smile would help.Loose the serious look.loosen up.

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diva lace

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i was told that im overwhelming.what the hell is that supposed to mean?

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jem1987

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Maybe you come on strong in the beginning? That can scare a guy off.

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devilzsoninlaw

Joined: 1/14/2007

Wow Sassy, and you're a Scorpio too! Very cute an real bubbly too; I like that.

What are you doing this weekend? Wanna go do something? I'm Ron, btw and really like your style. From your pictures, you look like alot of fun :) What do you like to do as/for/during a date?

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bluesprings99

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I have no problem hitting on girls and sometimes I'll go out of my way to chase an intimidating and unapproachable woman, for me that can be a lot of fun - but thats me. If I hit on ten ladies today I'll get six no ways. Four phone numbers and only one or two will be working number of women wanting to really be contacted. This is why most men don't hit on women. This isn't really answering your question. okay back on point - what you can do to make me want to hit on you. call me out on! look at me, make eye contact and hold it, don't look away. Smile at me (long, slow & sexy). Add a wink if need be just to seal the deal. If at this point, I'm not all over you - I'm not the man you're looking for sweetie. Make a point to try this five times a day for one week. Your planner will fill up fast - trust me - have fun.

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