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wetnwild600

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I'm pretty sure this man is into me because he's been texting me regularly for the last 3 days, since we went out. So anyway, he took me out Fri night and I put on some eye make-up and a skirt, nothing really fancy, it took about 10mins to get ready. The next day we went snowboarding and I just put my hair in a pony and didn't do anything to my face except wash it. Well he keeps bringing up how great I looked without make-up, blah blah blah. Once, ok, it's sweet. I just say thank you, I don't often wear heavy make-up... But I don't know, it's just starting to seem weird and I wonder if he means something he's not saying? Or is he looking for a certain response?

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Maybe he's just overly nice, haha. Some guys do that in the beginning because they're really trying to lay on the charm thick, but it's too much lol. Not a bad thing usually. Hard to say without knowing all of his personality.

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Reply to: Sounds like a psycho...
Lol. Yeah, if he likes me, he must be psycho.

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A fun guy.

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It is for people that like snowboarding.

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wetnwild600

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Our official first date was Fri night but since I own a snowboard and all the gear and I love it, he invited me to go with him and his friends the next day. I almost said no, but I wanted to play in the snow. It doesn't matter, I like dates that aren't your standard dinner and a movie. I like to be active and to see him be active, it's a way better situation for getting to know somebody.

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wetnwild600

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Reply to: Its not called a date ...its something u do with your dog..
Maybe you have to do a lot of things with your dog, but some people can get women to have fun with them.

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Reply to: I don't have a dog.. Its not a date when a guy invites u with his friends.. If ...
Thanks for your input, I'll take that under advisement.

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On a date you do something that both enjoy: we went to a bookstore....

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Why don't you just ask him why he keeps bringing up the no-make-up compliment?
I know a lot of men hate make-up. It's one of the biggest complaints on all the articles of advice that start with "We asked x number of men ....". I don't wear make-up on first dates...I want them to see what I look like and if the occassion comes up on a second date... I can put on make-up ...ligth make-up at that time. Seems men run in two extreme categories: Natural or way overdone. "I like a girly girl who does her hair, and nails and wears high heels"...or "I like an active girl who is a natural beauty."

When in doubt..just ask him. Or at least that's what I would do.

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wetnwild600

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I agree. I've had some pretty unusual dates and they're my favorites.

I admit that this didn't follow the usual dating ritual, which was why I almost didn't go. He paid for my lift ticket, bought me coffee, lunch, and drinks afterward even though I protested. There was another couple with us and a single guy. He held my hand and tried to kiss me when they dropped me off. He touched me whenever he could, played the gentleman, and he hasn't stopped flirting. But he's probably just in the market for another dog.

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Reply to: On a date you do something that both enjoy: we went to a bookstore....
I loove love bookstore dates. Around here we have Starbucks attached to Barnes and Noble...so we get coffee and wonder around the bookstore. I usually beeline for the comedy section..it's a lot of fun to read jokes out loud . I had one date we actually sat down on an armchair and read poetry to each other. It was brilliant!

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wetnwild600

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Reply to: Why don't you just ask him why he keeps bringing up the no-make-up compliment? ...
Thanks. I'm always shy about being too direct, especially when I'm not sure what the answer will be...

I like to wear a little eyeliner and mascara for work, for dinner, going out. It's mostly habit I guess. I've never been big on the full face thing and I don't wear it to play outdoors. I didn't think it was that big a difference or that big a deal, especially where I live.

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Reply to: Sounds like none of u girls have been on a real date ...
OH just for shits and giggles...do tell us what is a real date to you?

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wetnwild600

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Reply to: OH just for shits and giggles...do tell us what is a real date to you?
He picks her up in the parents' parking lot when the bell rings at 3pm. He takes her to a soda fountain and gets her all hopped up on sugar. Then he takes her to "park" someplace secluded, she fights his advances for an hour or so, and he drops her off before her parents get home from work.

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I didn't know dogs could snowboard.

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Reply to: He picks her up in the parents' parking lot when the bell rings at 3pm. He take...
Thanks, you made me laugh. :)

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Reply to: I didn't know dogs could snowboard.
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