Home > Forum > Ask a Guy > Talking dirty
  • 1
  • 2
Page:
AuthorPost

JustAGuy50

Joined: 1/19/2010

Reply to: I personally like being called a slut sometimes... I don't claim to understand ...
Good girl, it's just what works for you and no one else. And also how it's intended. If it's a put down then nah it's not cool but if it's in the heat of sex then its upto the couple. Any of you gals who never wanted to be told you were desirable, hot, sexy, whatever? Most guys don't have the same communication skills as you girls so we go basic at critical times, not sayin it's right just the way it is. Oh and wished this girl was a bit closer to me lol

Posts: 23

Posted 8 years ago
Rate: Up | 0 | Down
Reply

funkynotchunky

Joined: 2/27/2010

That is a very simple question to answer.....when these guys are calling you a slut or a whore they in there mind are having their little fantasies that they have probably watched a 1000 times in some porn movie where these pornstars are acting slutty or whorish////so by calling you a slut or a whore they are trying to guage a response from that by your actions, thus if you respond by saying some thing like yes daddy or blah blah blah youve just pushed their fantasy to perhaps the next level of kink....opening up an avenue on just seeing how far youll go....just sayin

Posts: 1

Posted 8 years ago
Rate: Up | 0 | Down
Reply

looking frwrd

Joined: 11/2/2010

Reply to: my problem is that the men in my life want me to be more vocal and i just can't...
Hi, I have had the same problem, really struggled with it....know the words he wanted to hear, they just don't come natural to me....I really kind of role played it in my mind and told him I would do my best. I I.M'ed them in conversation first and it came a litle easier in person. Just think of it a a role, play acting, and Good Luck!

Posts: 1

Posted 8 years ago
Rate: Up | 0 | Down
Reply

sarkish

Joined: 3/23/2011

Reply to: I personally like being called a slut sometimes... I don't claim to understand ...
I know a lot of women that get turned on by being called sluts and such...I knew one girl who would only orgasm with dirty talk and being called names.

Posts: 13

Posted 7 years ago
Rate: Up | 0 | Down
Reply

kompleatkaos

Joined: 1/17/2011

Reply to: I personally like being called a slut sometimes... I don't claim to understand ...
Thank you for understanding that humans are multi-faceted creatures too complex for simply reasoning. An insult to one is not an unconditional insult to another. Spirit and circumstance help to define areas that fall beyond the dictionary. It depends on the motivation and intent of the words. Only a simple mind would think of this as a simple question having only one simple answer.

Posts: 251

Posted 7 years ago
Rate: Up | 0 | Down
Reply

Shwalls

Joined: 7/27/2010

Love it myself but refrain from using specific words like slut or whore, unless that's all its agreed to be in the first place. Passion talk with the one you are really into tells eachother we are turned on excited and like what we are doing and encourages, however, be honest totally with what is being said. Nothing more hurtful than to be told "God you have an incredible dick" and then later she ignores you and does a breakup fight by text

Posts: 5

Posted 7 years ago
Rate: Up | 0 | Down
Reply

theKGB

Joined: 7/20/2010

Ok.. I have been around the block a few times.. but I STILL don't understand WHY a guy wants to call you a slut or a whore when having sex.. I am sure it is a turn on for them.. but WHY????

I'm kinda indifferent on this one. But, it can be fun if she's into it. I've found that some women like it, but it's not usually info they volunteer unless you've got some tight communication going on. I think it's a role playing thing more than anything.

Posts: 17

Posted 7 years ago
Rate: Up | 0 | Down
Reply

libidos34

Joined: 6/15/2013

they r like change :))9

Posts: 2

Posted 5 years ago
Rate: Up | 0 | Down
Reply

pornfan121

Joined: 10/18/2013

I watch Oort and I would never call a woman names. And I don't drink alcohol because of medication I take.

Posts: 4

Posted 5 years ago
Rate: Up | 0 | Down
Reply
Back to Top
  • 1
  • 2
Page: