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PerfectlyFlawed

Joined: 11/23/2008

Is It all Men Or just certain One's When It come's to the Word's "Love" "Commitment" "Marriage" They High Tail It outta there. Gone, done ,No more BAH BYE! As a woman I just Want one Man to see me and treat me as A treasure "His" "Always" "Beauty" Are these words, thoughts and meaning's that frightening for all men that they avoid them at every means Possible?
(Dont be afraid to answer I don't judge anyone Plus I don't even know you)

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nice_guy_4_u

Joined: 9/11/2008

maybe its you not them

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PerfectlyFlawed

Joined: 11/23/2008

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Well thank you that was nice.Thank U

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loyal805

Joined: 6/15/2004

I think it depends on what stage in life they're at. Younger guys tend to shy away from commitment, whereas middle-aged tend to think more long-term.
Unfortunately the older we get, [both men & women] the harder it becomes to find someone. I by-passed some nice opportunities and I'm kicking myself now...

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loyal805

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...forgot to add
I like your username - that's true for all of us - we all have flaws ;)

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avgjoe0266

Joined: 7/16/2008

That's a good Question. I think younger guys just want to sow their oats. I'm 42 and just got divorced. If my type of woman even looks at me crooked, i would consider getting married again. I like to have somebody I can trust to help with the everyday things. the problem is I like gorgeous women and at this age they are far and few, and the younger ones either don't want me or just want a sugardaddy.

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bobby181920

Joined: 8/23/2007

All men arent the same im 23 year old and havnt found any girl that know how treat a guy

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PerfectlyFlawed

Joined: 11/23/2008

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Thank You very Much This Really is helping to answer my question THANKS AGAIN Your too kind!

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PerfectlyFlawed

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Reply to: That's a good Question. I think younger guys just want to sow their oats. I'm 4...
Thank You Av That Is a GREAT Comment ! Thanks For taking the time and Have a Great Day hun. Wishing You all the best

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PerfectlyFlawed

Joined: 11/23/2008

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Well Thank You . As for Nice Guy I feel Like I have to explain My question.
I Have Gone Out of my way to ensure that MY MAN Has everything he would ever need (Never want for anything) Well I guess it wasn't all they needed. Long story short "I can grow older not younger" She was 18 he is 33 I am a VERY respectful and responsible 36 year old and My out look has always been to
"BE WHAT ANY MAN WOULD DIE FOR" Well That is what My males friend's say. But if it's true ....What ever happened to Love? Commitment? ALWAYS?

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just living ma ...

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Mayb you have not found the right one for YOU.


xxxx

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DreamLoverNYC

Joined: 10/1/2004

yep its you alright.

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shobuilder

Joined: 12/12/2007

don't blame yourself, love,commitment,always,etc... are strong words that should be taken seriously and discussed together, not used as a test.find out a persons intentions first,are they open to long term commitment should the relationship develop to that level?or do they just want fun for now?I do think age is also a factor,but more so maturity.I think both men and women would prefer young,hot & sexy,but what we're looking is stable,secure,devoted. hard to find both in the same package.I think u r looking in the wrong place,most ppl on here are only looking for entertainment (chat,friends,sex on cam,etc.) very few actually want to commit to a long term relationship with a single mother,regardless of what you're offering. Good Luck.

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69mindfreak69

Joined: 7/12/2008

Is It all Men Or just certain One's When It come's to the Word's "Love" "Commitment" "Marriage" They High Tail It outta there. Gone, done ,No more BAH BYE! As a woman I just Want one Man to see me and treat me as A treasure "His" "Always" "Beauty" Are these words, thoughts and meaning's that frightening for all men that they avoid them at every means Possible? 
(Dont be afraid to answer I don't judge anyone Plus I don't even know you)

Well for me as a man i hate every word you just said as in Commitment,Marriage,Love.Those words complicate things to much.just keep it simple & stay single & have sex until your heads fall off.women need to stop asking for so much.its time to go back to the simple things in life.Like sleeping with many people.Just don't be silly wrap that willy.

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DJTheHopefulRom...

Joined: 9/8/2007

To the original poster.................No....a t least not me anyways. I love the idea of committing to my one special lady. Some see it as losing there freedom and having a lease but I'd much prefer to have one best friend/girlfriend to be able to enjoy life with. It's not such a scary thing really it's beautiful and people take for granted how special it is to have someone. I don't date much at all but my experience has not been good....not blaming it on the girl because I am pretty shy at first. I know if it ever happens for me I'll appreciate it all the more.

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kurasake

Joined: 4/9/2008

The many trivial questions in life that many want to know, it's might as well jump in traffic, lmao, just kidding, being a man myself i'm really not ready, maybe his morals are different, for me i'm 28, and rarely find a girl that I can be real comfortable to say that, by the time I do, they tuck tail and run, thinking whatever, either they know me too much and just wanted a fling thing, or I don't know what the hell, but off track, anyways for me, I was raised in the oldest way you could, "ya get a woman preggo, you're pretty much fucked!!!" kinda messed up, but thats how I seen it, i've got my life way ahead to even think of settling down, and haven't found the person yet to spend all my time with, so it could be a means of a goal, or personal preferrance, or simply what it is, "he is NOT ready, quit forcing..." cause the one's that force me into anything, i'll just say "Whatever..." I hope in time you will meet him, which for me is a crock of shit, been a long while of women friends tellin me that, and haven't found a damn right woman yet lmao, so with that kinda insight, I hope it helped.....

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joyceisin

Joined: 9/10/2003

My brother once told me that women GET the kind of guy they are looking for.. maybe you need to examine what kind of guys you are with and see the similarities in them. If you want the gorgeous guy, he is gonna KNOW it and know he can have anyone he wants. If you want the stability and commitment, maybe you will have a nice frog instead of the prince. Make a list of shoulds and should nots.. and find the guy with the most of the shoulds and accept SOME of the should nots (you honestly cannot get NO should nots!) Most of all, be yourself.. not the someone you think HE wants and then when you ARE yourself, he does not want to commit.. just my 2 cents..
J

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lionsroar

Joined: 10/21/2004

Great, another post generalizing men.

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GordyJ

Joined: 11/30/2008

Great, another post generalizing men. 
No... I think it's a legit post, we all generalize at some point anyway without even realizing... it just happens. Cliche.

To answer your question.. no, not all guys are afraid, or turned off by true, real, lasting love. I am 18. I actually DESIRE all of what you said. I have not had much experience in dating/relationships, etc, BUT the experiences I HAVE had were not so good at all... a girl I dated for awhile at my church, couldn't decide how she felt about me... so it was a tough thing, always worrying if she is going to suddenly change her mind, and leave. She did.. lol at the beach, and said when I kissed her FYI-never kissed anyone before- it was like kissing her bro... i was offended.. on top of that she dumped me... lol we had to drive 45 minutes back home. oh... my god. lol

Long story short, I am always very nervous... nobody has ever been that into me, im too nice, I am too open, etc. There is at least ONE guy who desires exactly what you do, and I know for a fact there are more. It's hard... I know. (not from a girl standpoint) but i get what you mean, there are a lot of people that hurt the most beautiful ladies, and women out there.. it makes me mad. lol Hope that helps-Gordon-

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me102179

Joined: 4/29/2008

It's not all men. Me for example, could care less about seeing your stuff. On the other hand I have an exhibitionist side to me so given the opportunity if ASKED to I show mine private or public, doesn't really matter to me. Key word in that statement is asked. I choose not to "flirt" with someone and just have my junk on cam. If someone in the room objects to it I don't. Again don't get me wrong I have just as much fun...maybe even more actually chatting with people.

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me102179

Joined: 4/29/2008

I'm a dumb ass I replied to the wrong post sorry.

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Only4one

Joined: 12/7/2008

Not all men are like that, granted more men seem to be than women. I seem to get the women that are. Thats the other side of the coin. I for one think that womwn should be treated with kindness, resect and dignity. Then throw in a dose of pampering and large amounts of affection. When you do all that and still lose everything, or youve seen it happen to someone else...well, it kinda makes you a bit gunshy. But it gets better, personally I look forward to dealing with those "frightening" words again. Dont give up, we are out here.

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A little less t...

Joined: 8/25/2008

Reply to: Well for me as a man i hate every word you just said as in Commitment,Marriage,...
THANKS FOR SO MUCH LAUGHTER THIS EVENING...... IF I RECALL IN ONE OF YOUR OTHER POST YOU SAID " YOU HAVE ONLY BEEN WITH ONE WOMEN AND MARRIED HER.BUT HERE YOUR TELLING SOMEONE "its time to go back to the simple things in life.Like sleeping with many people.

IF YOUR MARRIAGE IS SO MISERABLE , WHY DON'T YA GIVE YOUR WIFE A DIVORCE? THAT IS IF YOUR EVEN MARRIED OR ARE YOU STILL TO AFRAID TO BE ALONE IN LIFE AS YOU STATED IN ONE OF YOUR OTHER POST?
YOUR REPLYS ARE MAKIN A GREAT NOVEL. LOL

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mas8baller

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Reply to: Well for me as a man i hate every word you just said as in Commitment,Marriage,...
LOL you obviously dont get much do you? I don't know any women who would listen to your BS let alone lay down with it once let alone more then that. It's because of morons like you that women are often hurt, insecure & in need of those words even more. Ladies no man is worth your tears & the one who is will never make you cry. This guy especially isn't worth your time let alone tears. You're not a man just a cowardly little boy trying to make up for short comings & his immaturity.

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thenewguy25

Joined: 3/15/2004

Its plain and simple different strokes for different folks some people have morals some people don't care.To be with someone to grow old with to be your best friend someone to talk to to confide in.A person to be by your side no matter what kinda like bonnie and clyde a team.Alot of men out there want that but there's so little men that are willing to wait for that special someone.Everyone in this world is different no ones the same.Misery loves company some men use to have that spark then got hurt just like women do.Its 50 -50 that's how I see it a real man doesn't cheat or lie and he's not afraid of commitment or marriage or love there's no reason to fear someone that your gonna wake up next to for the rest of your life.You CANT play the field forever we all get old unless someone on here has a time machine LOL .There's someone out there for everyone you just have to be patient it will happen.

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