I'm finally ready (have been for a minute) to become sexually active with decent chicks. My birthday will be this upcoming Friday (June 3rd) and I have yet met a girl in my life who I can be sexually involved with.

How does sex for the first time feel like guys when you're in the process of losing your virginity? Lately I have been sexually frustrated, and being the fact that I'm in college at the moment and seeing all these hot chicks around really makes a guy angry when he's not able to approach them and attempt to get a number. The point is.. I need some advice on getting laid.. not just by any chick, but with one who has a cool personality and is down with being friends with benefits with no strings attached.

All I do is drive my mom's car from school and back, homework, stay stuck at home reading relationship dating boards (Webdate) and reading books on how to learn to pick up women, and I'm tired of this everyday routine. It's time for change! And I want CHANGE! It's time for me to get out there.

I would hit up some hot bars and clubs, but I don't like going alone, people are crazy and I have no circle of friends. Plus no whip (car). Lol.

Just get out and meet people. Don't have expectations. Enjoy life. Best to be honest as well. Plenty of girls in the college years just want to have fun, same as guys, so there's no reason to lie to them.

All i do is drive mom's car !? Well that tells you right there man LMAO!

Well I didn't mean it like that, just saying I don't have a car of my own.

Reminds me of the times my brother and I went cruising in the Family Truckster -a buick station wagon with a 403 and fake woodgrain stuck on the sides. Once, we stopped at a red light and two girls our age pulled up in an almost-identical vehicle. We busted out laughing -we tried to bust a rap on them but they just kept staring forward. We should have at least raced.

You want a girl who is cool, and probably very attractive, AND cool with having sex with you without actually having any emotional attachment, while you live at home, have no friends, and no car. Lol, good luck. You need to work on yourself, both outward and inward.

Don't go to bars yet. Don't go to clubs yet. Get some friends. Meet their friends. Some of their friends will be girls. One or two might like you. Get a job. Make friends at your job. Buy a car with your money from your job.

Work on your external life: exercise is the most important, which goes hand in hand with good nutrition and sleep: people who are fit and healthy tend to be happier and more attractive as a person. It's not just about big muscles. You'll have more endorphins released, more energy, and more confidence. You can also socialize at or through the gym. Work on your grooming. Are your clothes clean and unwrinkled? Do you smell ok, or at least neutrally (axe and other heavily scented products are a poor choice)? Is your hair/facial hair well groomed, or are you nursing some half-assed long hair and patchy neckbeard? Work on your posture. Stand straight and with confidence. Shake hands with a firm grip, give no ground, but apply no pressure.

Work on your inner life: do you have issues with anxiety, socializing, depression, or anything else which keeps you from an active social life? If so, seek therapy. It's easy to build up an inner story about yourself and the world around you that can hold you back, particularly if you are alone and have no-one to talk to. Take up hobbies. Work on becoming a better person than a better pick up artist.

i'm just wondering are you still a virgin? and hang in there if you are some of us me included are late bloomers or wait for love to lose the virginity to which i did at 26 so just stick to your values and you wont regret it.

i was till 23, u don`t need to plan on when to break,it`ll just happen one day. try to make it happen with some one u love,coz she`ll always be in your memory

Sex is an awesome thing -but focus on the relationships with those around you -friend and love interest alike. They are much more important than the physical act of sex, and there is nothing wrong with saving yourself for someone with whom you want to spend the rest of your life. You will remember the relationships far more fondly.
Many say that it is best to practice so you can please the right person -but practicing together with your mate can build greater intimacy without all of the baggage of prior experiences.