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ashpie2008

Joined: 1/6/2008

OK, here's the scoop. Me and my fiance are doing this long distance relationship. God, knows why I am in here lol. Anyways, he is England and I am in the UK. We use webcams to see each other and yadda yadda yadda. Everytime I wanna be naughty he laughs and smiles and bites that bottom lip. (so cute) lol. The last time I tried being naughty for him, he was in a bad mood and I wanted to make him happy. I asked what he wanted me to do and he said "just be happy baby that's all i want". We haven't played in a long ass time.

So, my question is: Has he lost interest, even though he still wants to marry me, or is it something else? If so, like what for example?

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Nice_Single_Whi...

Joined: 5/5/2005

A lot might depend on what you both are doing when you say naughty...He may just want to save it for the real thing some day....or maybe he is just embarassed to show his naughty side on cam with you... Are you both doing the playing?

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ashpie2008

Joined: 1/6/2008

Reply to: A lot might depend on what you both are doing when you say naughty...He may jus...
yeah its mutual. maybe he does wanna wait idk...

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just living ma ...

Joined: 7/23/2008

hmmm. I guess naughty is nt always the way. i think he means well by saying you should be happy.

xxxx

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babygirll18

Joined: 9/27/2004

I would feel the same way you do to...what im thinking is if he does continues it for like 2 weeks then something is up.

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babygirll18

Joined: 9/27/2004

I would feel the same way you do to...what im thinking is if he does continues it for like 2 weeks then something is up.

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*Sliver!*

Joined: 4/25/2005

Oh god please tell me you've actually met this guy and it's not one of those " I saw you on cam and now I think I love you so lets get married" things.

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Etritonakin

Joined: 9/11/2008

It is possible to see something in, or about, a person within a very short time(even immediately) which inspires awe... but the rest must certainly be considered.
However... to answer the initial question... the webcam is a new invention -and its role in the sex life of humans is new -and its benefit questionable (to say the least).
Even if you do not believe in any sort of moral "normalcy", consider the fact that for thousands (or more, depending on your definition of human) of years, people have been actually meeting in person to have sex.

Enter.. the modern age -when we can be across the world in less than a day -languages can be translated with a keystroke or mouseclick -and sex (or some twisted defintion thereof) does not require proximity...
and an infinite number of problems arise....

First causualty... INTIMACY ... You want to be his -and you hope he wants to be yours... but then... you broadcast your (enter popular descriptor for the female genetalia here)... and his (I think "schwanstoker" is the most hilarious, but enter what you will for the male genetalia here) ... all over the not-qite-yet-proverbial W.W.W. -and someone might just feel a bit violated or vulnerable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!< br>
Consider what might be going through his mind (and consider honestly what has gone through yours)! Has she/he done this before??? Who is watching??? I want to be with this person exclusively -if we become "exclusive" -I want it to mean "exclusive"... you know what I mean.. even if you have never put it into words....

The love between one man and one woman is SACRED. The existence and presence of the "net" can facilitate intitial contact -but can also degrade what might have the potential to be a beautiful relationship.

Bottom line... If this guy is serious about you, he needs to make you the priority ..he needs to look you in the eye -touch you in person -and say he will do what it takes to keep you together.

Don't rule out moving to be with him -but be certain he is committed, first!

Finally -let him know it is not enough -and not what you truly want.

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